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 Blastkist

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 51
being abbused mentally and physically!!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 7:56:23 PM
Nevermind! Imagine what it is like to live in his mind! Wow!

You have so much going for you. You have the world by the a s s and you can shine like the stars. Find some things that you enjoy to improve yourself and your self esteem and chalk this wonderful opportunity up to experience. Don't let it become a pattern and find out if it is a pattern for you and change it. Not everyone out there is feeling happy inside and they will take that misery out on you if you give them the chance. Abusive people abuse themselves even more than others believe it or not. You don't have to let them make your choices for you and you are only a victim if you choose to be one.

Good luck and blessings to ya.

You're a beautiful woman...let your confidence shine.
 shelby86

Joined: 3/3/2005
Msg: 52
being abbused mentally and physically!!!
Posted: 6/9/2005 2:09:00 PM
hey you guys thanks for all the support i really appreciate it well i met a guy on this site and we are engaged and i am pregnant with his baby im doing pretty well if you ask me the guy i met is a real sweet heart and i couldnt ask for more he is the love of my life... once again thanks for the support and i hope you all have the same luck i have had... talk to you guys soon... bye get back at me.... oh ya my birthdays on the 17th of this month happy birthday to me!!!! lol!!!
 SXXXYLICIOUS2

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 53
being abbused mentally and physically!!!
Posted: 12/26/2005 5:20:26 PM
I hope you are still not with him....

Anyway, I am smart enough to know that when a man gives me his first criticism towards something physical or something mental, I walk. I don't stay around...and before I walk, I usually give them a lashing of a lifetime.....those men who hit, usually are a bunch of cowards. If you show them that you can't be influenced, and you give them a lashing of serious courage, they will back off like a bunch of wimps. Thank God my parents taught me to be strong.
 Looe

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 54
being abbused mentally and physically!!!
Posted: 12/26/2005 5:47:51 PM

A man that tells the womanthat he says he loves that she is no good, no one would want her, she's fat, she's stupid is plain insecure and disrespectful. I often wonder why these men say this. And if they are so great why would they settle for a woman like that? Doesn't say much for them. They want to make themselves feel superior by making someone else feel smaller.


Wow sounds just like my ex before i left and got my own place and life back. wow was nice now she regrets everything she did.

Its not juts women who are abused men get it as well.
Cant tell you how good it felt when i got my first g/f a few weeks later no one would want me.
 wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 55
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being abbused mentally and physically!!!
Posted: 12/26/2005 6:08:32 PM
well...you can only control someone for so long and then they snap..then the other person says what's on there mind ...but for ppl that treat ppl like this maybe they were raised this way as a kid and think its proper.....lol....but we all know its not!!!!!!..... when in deed in the position we should get out before we get hurt or....get them help if they r willing to go for help that is........
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