| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/6/2009 7:52:46 PM | A "Real Man" doesn't give a crap what others may think a "Real Man" is.
He just IS.
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/6/2009 8:11:54 PM | | Sadly at least for you anyway is that there is not just one answer to this question. Most every woman has their own idea or definition of what a real man is. For me a real man is someone who doesn’t get joules when he sees his woman talking to another attractive man. Unless of course they are kissing and groping then he has a right to be joules. A real man is a guy who doesn’t get angry when his woman tells him she’d rather spend the night alone or out with her girlfriends. A real man is someone that has his own life, and encourages his partner to have a life of her own as well. The stuff about opening doors and paying for dinner though nice and some women including myself like it, are not necessary to be a real man. At least I don’t think so. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/6/2009 9:15:52 PM |
because the men they are looking for are looking at other men.
Yeah, that's why they will so much time to CONVERT one to Hetro - Sorry they are born that way - no changing the wiring after they were made.....
A real man is a guy who doesn’t get angry when his woman tells him she’d rather spend the night alone or out with her girlfriends. A real man is someone that has his own life, and encourages his partner to have a life of her own as well. The stuff about opening doors and paying for dinner though nice and some women including myself like it, are not necessary to be a real man. At least I don’t think so.
Yadda, Yadda $h!t ! - What world do you live on - What about your own parents - when your mother said she was going out - how did you dad take it? At least it made him mad and he let her know it! He in most cases was yelled at for hanging with his friends even one day a week - so Life isn't Perfekt....
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 3:50:20 AM | | Since women's intellect is filtered through her emotional center I wonder if they really understand what they really want and need. It's like the weather : it changes constantly. Much of what I've read so far about what a "Real Man" comprises of seems to be a wish list of what women want men to DO and not BE. Jack of all trades, master of all, pay for anything she wants and let her go and do what ever-whenever but the man can never be like this. Sounds like most women have bought into the RADICAL side of the women's liberation movements male bashing and controlling program made popular during the mid-1970's. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 3:57:12 AM | One more time: I know the following are a type of joke but sometimes one wonders if women begin to believe:
THE RULES
The female always makes the rules
The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules.
If the female suspects the MALE know all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules.
The female is never wrong.
If the female is wrong, it is due to a misunderstanding which was a result of something the male did or said wrong.
The male must apologize immediately for causing said misunderstanding.
The female may change her mind at any time. The male must never change his mind without the express written consent of the female. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
The male must remain calm at all times unless the female wants him to be angry or upset.
The female must, under no circumstances, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry and/or upset.
The male is expected to mind read at all times.
Any attempt to document the rules could result in bodily harm.
If the female has PMS, all the rules are null and void.
The female is ready when she is ready.
The male must be ready at all time.
The male who doesn't abide by the rules can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 7:13:03 AM | Clint Eastwood..................now there's a real man for you!!!!!  | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 11:18:22 AM |
Sounds like most women have bought into the RADICAL side of the women's liberation movements male bashing and controlling program made popular during the mid-1970's.
Well, that's the point - it's no longer about finding someone to get married to - beacuse that was a man's way to control them.
It's all about SEX and that only: 1. Who has the biggest member 2. If I can't have the man I want - I'll see my own Sex 3. Mingers can go to Hell - Who needs em - the Sperm Banks will keep us going for eternity.......
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 11:25:45 AM |
He makes sure that she knows she is a priority and desired, loved, valued.
That sounds like a man who goes out of his way to cater to a woman's insecurities...a "real" man has to find himself a "real" woman...it's not realistic to want a man who is confident and true to himself when you also need him to reasure you that you are of value to him. A "real" man would never perpetuate his woman's ego..."real" people will open up and share insecurities, but only in a secure way...that's true strength...
"REAL" people have integrity.... | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 6:41:26 PM | Clint Eastwood:
The actor (in public) or the man (in private life of whom we have no idea what he is really like).
But then here we go back to the Alpha Male, bad boy concept. Women love the guy that they can't control and is a challenge yet publically state a "real man" is just the opposite.
Ladies, your actions are not following your words. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 7:25:12 PM | My SO is a real man......
and sorry ladies, Im not giving you his number  | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 10:40:18 PM | Wait a minute...in the context of sexuality? A "real man" can't get off unless she gets off... | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/7/2009 11:51:25 PM | Geez can't you guys just lighten up a bit???
My reference to Clint Eastwood was just a bit of light humour but as usual even that was taken way out of context.
You know because everyone always thinks of him like this tough type male in all his movies..............oh never mind I'm out of here. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 4:57:02 AM |
Real men eat Lucky Charms.
a real man would share those Lucky Charms  | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 5:11:00 AM |
a real man would share those Lucky Charms
Lol. And a clever one would be hoping that you would share your charms as a result. Lucky Charms=Micki bait! Gotta make a note of that, somewhere. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 6:14:14 AM | A real man is that one that can tell you the truth no matter what. If he is a real man, he would know better that we prefer to be talked with the truth that with silly lies that we will discover sooner than later. he will also find out a good way to approach the subject even if it is not easy to always speak with the truth. Very few qualify as real men according to my requirement.
Anything else will just fall into place. JMO | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 6:45:14 AM | in the context of sexuality?
Is an involved, aroused partner, the ultimate aphrodisiac. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 12:21:45 PM |
Is an involved, aroused partner, the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Then his is not a "REAL MAN" he's a no good B@$T@RD!
Maybe you would like to be as in the court of King Charles II of England?
He forced over 15 of his subjects to marry his concubines - and that ment he liked you - but if you even as much talked to your "WIFE" you could have lost your head literrally......
He had 15 or more known women he was having Sex with....
So you know none of them ever became Queen - he already had one.....
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 5:29:24 PM |
Lol. And a clever one would be hoping that you would share your charms as a result. Lucky Charms=Micki bait! Gotta make a note of that, somewhere.
a clever man would have those Lucky Charms trailing down his chest and belly to the "Pot of Gold" .. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 5:53:00 PM |
a clever man would have those Lucky Charms trailing down his chest and belly to the "Pot of Gold"
Trails?!!! Far out!!!! I know sumthin' about trails. (downward glance) But, nope, no gold there. I've looked. lol
Hey, OP, Bonnie Raitt does a song, the lyrics of which, in part, are "I want a man to rock me, not some fool to ask me why" , and for emphasis, "I want a man to rock me like my back ain't got no bone". She mentions a "real man" in there somewhere. Sounds alot better when she sings it, but was reading Moondance's wrongly belittled post when it played right behind me. Add enthusiastic to her definition of the ultimate aphrodisiac, and I think she's got a strong point. 'Course, I'm thinking about a woman with those attributes, but I have this theory that we're all humans, with some charming anatomical differences, and what works for one probably serves well for both. | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 7:07:36 PM |
Is an involved, aroused partner, the ultimate aphrodisiac
You've got me down to a tee, come and get me! | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 7:17:04 PM | ^^^^ HUM cute and all that - some lady otta scoop you up!! A real man to me is respectful - caring - understanding and patient - with a horny lustful desire to adore his woman!  | |
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| What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/8/2009 7:31:47 PM | ^^^Shucks, that's awful kind of you. I'm waitin' to be scooped up... but at this point in my life really struggling to find a connection. I guess experience is a great teacher, I know what I don't want, but can't quite find who I do want. But mutual respect, self respect and a genuine lusty love for one another will be a big part of the equation. Hope this doesn't get me banned by the real man club. | |
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