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 Taztiger72

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 9/8/2009 7:36:30 PM

Hope this doesn't get me banned by the real man club.


"Real Man Club" ? No such thing -
 sunny snow storm

Joined: 12/21/2008
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Posted: 9/8/2009 8:33:04 PM
REAL MEN DRIVE JEEPS!
Im LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 OneMoondance

Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 9/8/2009 8:43:35 PM
"Maybe you would like to be as in the court of King Charles II of England?"
Not sure what British history has to do with my definition of a real man, which I’ll stand by. An involved and aroused partner is an wonderfully delicious find.

HrlyGuy
“come and get me”
Mmmm, Got chaps?
"But mutual respect, self respect and a genuine lusty love for one another will be a big part of the equation."
Exactly.

Whytwater
“Love Me Like A Man” Great song, always been partial to “Lover’s Will“. Bonnie Raitt seems to have that perfect sultry~blusey voice, not to mention her strumming that rockin’ guitar. She’s in that Joan Baez, EmmyLou Harris, Tina Turner club, seems to improve with age.
Yeah, I'm that old!!!
 Hang2HeartU

Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 429
What is a Real Man?
Posted: 9/8/2009 9:54:48 PM
'Real Men'....
Admire a Lady...
Respect a Lady...
Do things for and with a Lady that he won't tell his buddies about..!!

...Watch Real Men Sports...
Football...
Baseball...
Hockey...
NASCAR...
NHRA...
NOT 'Girly-[basket]ball...
Figure skating...
 Taztiger72

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Posted: 9/8/2009 10:38:56 PM


Real Men'....
Admire a Lady...
Respect a Lady...
Do things for and with a Lady that he won't tell his buddies about..!!

...Watch Real Men Sports...
Football...
Baseball...
Hockey...
NASCAR...
NHRA...
NOT 'Girly-[basket]ball...
Figure skating...


Huh? Kiss her ass beyond the Pain and a "Real Man" doesn't watch sports - he plays all of them - Sunday's are for fixing the home......

 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
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Posted: 9/8/2009 11:13:15 PM
Real men have jobs, integrity self respect, take care of their women, help around the house, appreciate their women, make sure their womn gets off first and if by some chance she doesn't will work their magic until she gets hers too, love and take care of their kids, kiss you when you're doing the housework because they appreciate it, open doors, fill up the tank at the gas station, pay the check when you go out to eat without a second thought, eat the home cooked meal you prepare for them and say thank you for it with a kiss, pick up milk and bread on the way home when you call and ak them for it, and rub your feet when you've been walking in heels all day. They aren't afraid to watch a chick flick with you because they are secure in their masculinity, they like sports, but understand when you prefer to read a book during the game rather than hear a play by play. They appreciate when you iron their clothes and shop for them, and will hold you when you cry. They don't mind picking up a box of tampons or shampoo at the store, and know you well enough to buy you the right gifts for your birthday and Christmas because they pay attention to what you like and don't like. They can be trusted to have conversations with your friends without hitting on them, and understand that you have girl and guy friends and know that you are faithful and are not jealous in the least. Real men don't cheat. Real men take care of their mothers and sisters, as well as their girlfriends, out of love. Real men don't have to hunt, but if they do, they eat what they kill and make sure they dress it when they bring it home so you can fix it and cook it. Real men have their priorities in order and aren't afraid to love wholeheartedly.
Real men have a great belief in God and even if not religious, have a healthy respect for other people's feelings about religion. They are not intimidated by homosexuality, or alternative lifestyles, because they know who they are.

I am very lucy, I have a real man in my life, I have a real man in it. I pray all of you too.

Beth














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 Ambientflyer

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 9/8/2009 11:16:29 PM
um... what is a REAL woman?
 GoodWitchBeth

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Posted: 9/9/2009 12:22:38 AM
A real woman...She takes care of herself, she knows who she is and loves herself because she recognizes that she has value as a person. She treats her family, friends, children, and coworkers with respect and dignity, and is efficient and presents herself with class and maturity. She gets what she wants and needs by working hard and making goals that she strives to meet every day. She is a valuable member of her community, be it in her church, synogogue or community organizations. When in a relationship, she treats her man with respect and kindness, and accepts his love with appreciation. She returns his gentility by understanding what it is to be a strong woman in the relationship. This means that cooking wonderful meals and keeping the home well does not make her any less of a person, it merely shows that she can hold a job equal to a man's and still fulfill traditional roles within the home. If cooking is not her strong suit, she is resourceful and finds ways to cater to other roles within the home to take care of her family. A real woman lets the man be a man, and revels in being the woman in the relationship, and understands that there is no shame in that. She finds joy in making sure that the children are given love an attention from her, and are taught a great role model from her, that women are strong and loving and capable of taking care of more than just the laundry and washing the dishes. She teaches the children to be self-reliant, and knows that her influence is extremely important in raising healthy children both physically and emotionally. She, in conjunction with her husband discipline the children and teach them right from wrong, morals and values so they can become wonderful contributing members of society.
Most of all, women lead by example in the home. They traditionally are the primary caregivers, so their role is much more complex and many times more difficult and stressful, as they are expected to work outside of the home for a paycheck as well as nurture the children. Men are expected to work as well, but do more of the physical labor and maintenance around the home, which is very important, but mothers traditionally work with the children and provide dinner and work with homework and emotional issues.
Both parents contribute, they just do so in different ways. It takes both parents working together to make a home run smoothly, and with them working in tandem, harmony can be achieved.
On a side note, I do not say that all homes follow these standards by any means, but I cite these as traditional roles that are fairly well accepted, and work for the most part.
 Hrlyguy

Joined: 8/4/2009
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Posted: 9/9/2009 4:37:06 AM

HrlyGuy
“come and get me”
Mmmm, Got chaps?


Chaps, gulp, you bet. Wanna see 'em?


She's in that Joan Baez, EmmyLou Harris, Tina Turner club, seems to improve with age.

Cher, Judy Collins, Joni Mitchell
 whytwater

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Posted: 9/9/2009 7:24:42 AM

REAL MEN DRIVE JEEPS!
Im LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


(raising hand, owning Wrangler) Uhhh, you're laughing with me, not at me, right? Lol Actually, I seem to see (or notice) almost as many 20-something girls driving them as anyone. Oh, and it's jeep etiquette to wave at every other jeep (not sure whether it's directed at the driver or the vehicle, lol).
Did the family Volvo, had some bmw's (vintage and new) that were incredibly fast (never went through the little red sports car phase, lol), but I gotta say that a Wrangler is more fun by alot than any of them. It goes, well, everywhere, or at least everywhere I want to go, strips down to, like, nothing, and looks good in the woods. Yeah, we're alot alike.
 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 9/9/2009 1:42:56 PM
Real men lug their nuts.
 groovychick67

Joined: 12/19/2007
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Posted: 9/9/2009 2:22:38 PM
Hmm..........to divulge sacred sisterhood secrets or remain silent........since I haven't had any tequilla then I must decide stone sober whether to give up all our hidden desires in a man.

What is a REAL MAN? He is the epitomy of all our dreams and fears. He likes to help cook a meal together, he is neat, has integrity, he has a work ethic, he can communicate, he shares some of the same interests and he always remembers that the way to keep a woman in love with you is to touch her and kiss her at least once a day in a way that lets her know that she is still the one that totally does it for you. That is the man of our dreams part.

The man of our fears is one that doesn't put up with our bullsh*t, doesn't let us peck you into submission and strip you of the rough exterior that so attracted us in the beginning. We really don't want equality in all things and we don't want you to whimper and beg for sex. The man of our fears knows that every now and then you have to go caveman and grab us by the hair and drag us into the bedroom and just tell us how it's going to be.
 prettybird74

Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 438
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Posted: 9/9/2009 2:24:38 PM
who the hell knows?

we don't even know.
 Lucky Leda

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/9/2009 4:00:59 PM
Women drive jeeps too! And can look pretty good in the woods, stripped down or not.
 Taztiger72

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Posted: 9/9/2009 4:19:18 PM

who the hell knows?

we don't even know.


Then B Real - Not phony and say your looking for something that doesn't excist.....

How about - NOT INTERRESTED - and don't put on a show.....



 whytwater

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Posted: 9/9/2009 5:33:08 PM
Women drive jeeps too! And can look pretty good in the woods, stripped down or not


But of course, and I did pay homage to them, I thought. Thinking we are of one mind on a substantial part of life, lol, and taken by your photo, I just checked your profile. Oops, Sorry. A grand canyon of preferences divides us, but good luck to you, and may the one you find be a jeep driver.


^^^Shucks, that's awful kind of you.
I'm waitin' to be scooped up..


Watch out!!! Danger, Danger!!! Land shark!! Lawyer trick! LMAO!
 Lucky Leda

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/9/2009 5:37:27 PM

Oops, Sorry. A grand canyon of preferences divides us, but good luck to you, and may the one you find be a jeep driver.


Umm, actually we're seeking the same thing, a woman.
Does that make us competitors? lol lol
 whytwater

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Posted: 9/9/2009 5:46:21 PM

Does that make us competitors? lol lol


LMAO!! Sheesh, I'm gonna need more tools if we are, I think.
btw, I've never met an avowed lesbian. Thought I had, once, a woman colleague, well into her forties, unmarried, whom I had once bumped into on the street holding the hand of a tall, dark, black-chokered woman (spikes in the choker), but shortly thereafter, she married some boy lawyer.
Nice to meet ya.
K, Game ON, we're competin' again! Lol
 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 9/9/2009 5:46:58 PM
Most of the definitions of real men seem to revolve around notions of men being confident, dominant, risk taking, protective, loving, competent, effective, etc...
These values are the very definition of Machismo in the stricteset sense of the word as it was originaly intended; NOT the definition of machismo that has become a synonym for male swagger and empty posturing.
The true meaning of Machismo is a model any man should be proud to aspire to and any woman should feel proud and fortunate to have one such in her life.
It's a shame we've allowed "machismo" to take on such negative connotations as it seems to be the very thing people are responding to in a postive way.
 Taztiger72

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Posted: 9/9/2009 5:51:30 PM

It's a shame we've allowed "machismo" to take on such negative connotations as it seems to be the very thing people are responding to in a postive way.


Well outside of the Anglo-German World in Latin countries - that will take you very far.....


 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 9/9/2009 7:22:34 PM
Real men wear pastel colors and don't flinch.
 Hrlyguy

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Posted: 9/9/2009 8:54:41 PM

Watch out!!! Danger, Danger!!! Land shark!! Lawyer trick! LMAO!


What are you, a double agent?
 Hrlyguy

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Posted: 9/9/2009 8:56:57 PM
Ms. Leda,
Can't imagine anyone wantin' to compete with you!
Watch out for that whytwater, he'll be tryin to convert you to the other side.
 prettypoet34

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 9/9/2009 9:49:41 PM
Just my personal opinion but...

Real men fear God first, they love their mothers and are fathers to their children. If a man can phantom the concept that women. Should be treated like they want their mothers to be treated. I believe all else would fall into place.He would also be a great lover because he listens and pays attention in and out bed.Not to score cool points but because he appreciates the womans body and mind.He would have integrity and choose to tell the truth about anything. Even when it was something she might not want to hear.

He would love, protect, respect,appreciate,and nuture his woman.

my 2 cents
 totoman

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Posted: 9/9/2009 10:04:37 PM
Real men wear tights.
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