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 ToungeFooMaster

Joined: 1/15/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2009 6:33:38 AM

All these things that are mentioned are all well and good, but, it isn't just that. Women want all these things, AND they want their guy to be drop dead gorgeous. Most men who are the best at all the things mentioned in the other posts, are not the ideal looking man. Most guys who are faithful and loyal and protectful of their ladies, arent the most attractive men in the world. Are some women so shallow as to they would rather have an attractive guy that treats them like crap, over the not so attractive guy who will treat them like queens?


Couldn't Have Said It Better Myself

Seems like most Women Want ---> Brad Pitt , Arnond, Bill Gate$ & Mr Rogers Way 2 Nice ,Yet Bad Boy ,, Macho ,, All Rolled into one ??? I May not be the Best Looking Guy out there but I Know how to treat a woman ,,, Respect , Compassion, Caring, Loving ,,, Etc I'm 4 Real Ladies ,,, I Just Wish that Most Could Get Past My Looks
& What I May or may not have ,,, Fancy Car ,,, Big House ,,, Large Bank Acct ,,,
Killer Bod ,,, Bad Boy Attitude ,,, So I'm Not @#$%^ Rambo LoL
Been Dumped on Alot & am really tired of it ,,, Why try to be Someone I'm Not
I Like Who I Am & If Women Cant Even Bother to Get to Know Me Just Cause I'm
Not The Perfect Guy ( If He Even Exists ? ) Same 4 the Ladies theres No Such
thing as a Perfect Person ???? Get Over It LoL
 GoodmanGreg

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 9/12/2009 7:01:30 AM
Been Dumped on Alot & am really tired of it ,,, Why try to be Someone I'm Not

ToungeFooMaster: You make a VERY GOOD point. Real Men do NOT cry when they are dumped. They MOVE ON. They don't hold it against ALL women in the same manner women seem to hold it againts ALL men and try to punish ALL men because they were "dumped" or weren't "done right". It seems to me when a Women gets dumped, its the "End of the World" and everyone has to hear about it and come to her emotional rescue. Women have to learn that dumping and getting dumped are all a part of life, which we all have to endure.

TFM, you are totally right when you say "why try to be someone that I'm not". I learned this lesson, the hard way of course, but as the old song says, "I've Got to be Me, I've Got to be me, what else can I be than what I am". Good POST my friend!
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 12:02:44 PM
Wow...did this post ever drift off-topic or what???

Since we're talking about getting dumped now, I'd like to add that a real man is a guy who knows how to suck it up, NOT CARE (well, care, but not to the extent that it has consumed his entire life), and keep on trucking, because he's got other things in his life to see and do.
 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 479
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Posted: 9/12/2009 12:07:39 PM
Real men eat vanilla ice cream.
 KW.Athlete

Joined: 5/21/2009
Msg: 480
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Posted: 9/12/2009 12:08:15 PM
A real man should be independant and have a woman who showcases his best interests.

A Man should have a wife who cooks, cleans, and ****s on command :)

Am I A Man Yet? Nope... because i fear committment and don't want to be with one girl for the rest of my life.. ill wait till im old and pushing 40 :) lol

Right now im just a very strong fit boy ;)
 Mtn.lover

Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 2:50:49 PM
It's the guy that built your house, fixed your car, stole your woman and kicked your ass.
 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 3:05:13 PM

It's the guy that built your house, fixed your car, stole your woman and kicked your ass.


Now that's some funny stuff.

But it also could have been that guy who installed your security system, built your network, hacked into your bank accounts, and left both of them to wilt.
 Taztiger72

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 4:09:38 PM

It's the guy that built your house, fixed your car, stole your woman and kicked your ass.


More like the Bad Boy that your now Ex was impressed with while out with her friends on Girls Nite - got screwed in the back of his Camaro - came up with a plot to stick it to you - while your out he's screwing your wife - maybe you should stop wearing blinders and see how things really are.



No wonder so many people have to get divorced - Bad Boys don't care if women are married or not they are basically Nihilists out for their d!ck$ anyway they can get it and there are a lot of willing women out there....


 Mtn.lover

Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 10:12:13 PM
You hurt my feelings taz, I might give up building houses and rebuilding transmissions.....can't promise much on the latter two.
 Taztiger72

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 10:22:39 PM

rebuilding transmissions


There is some money in that....

I'm not here to hurt feelings, I'm here to Preach to the Chior...

Any woman / man who screws you over is not worth being with - they are garbage.


Garbage is to be Thrown Away in the Refuse Heap with the rest of the Scum.....
 clearbluecolors

Joined: 1/8/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 9:29:36 AM
No amount of complaining will change the facts. Women and men think differently. Learn something from the opposite sex and your encounters with them. Pissing in a fan will just get you wet.
 OneMoondance

Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 9:40:22 AM

Learn something from the opposite sex and your encounters with them. Pissing in a fan will just get you wet.


The definition of insanity has been posited as “repeating the same action over and over again, hoping to achieve different results”. Seems to be some wisdom in that relative to relationships and dating.
 OnDMove

Joined: 4/10/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 10:19:48 AM
No…no…no…NO!! You’ve all got it all wrong!

Definition of a REAL MAN;

A ‘real man” leaves the cave at the crack of dawn, knuckles scraping the cave floor as he grunts and snarls, having had no sleep due to whaling young ones…

He grabs his club, slings it over his hairy back, scratches at his fleas and goes off in the woods to hunt for food for his mate and squalling offspring…

After a fruitless morning hunting for fresh meat, he then wanders over to the other ‘real men’ in the tribe to grunt, yell and point about the lack of game in the area.

When another ‘real man’ approaches the group carrying a couple jack rabbits he just clubbed senseless, the other ‘real men’ proceed to beat the crap out of him and take his fresh meat.

With that, this ‘real man’ lopes back to his cave, only to find an angry mate and hungry offspring.

His mate then gets up, screams at him, then hits her ‘real man’ over the head with his own club and disappears into the forest on her own.

Two hours later, she comes back bloody and bruised, dragging a large Brontosaurus shank and proceeds to feed the entire tribe!

She then send her ‘real man’ back into the forest to forage for berries and roots where he finds other ‘real men’ doing the same thing!

GOT IT!!! Dang, do I have to explain EVERYTHING! Sheesh!
Bartender...over here!
 Lucky Leda

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 10:35:45 AM


The definition of insanity has been posited as “repeating the same action over and over again, hoping to achieve different results”. Seems to be some wisdom in that relative to relationships and dating.


There's alot of wisdom in that moondance.
as well as


Pissing in a fan will just get you wet.


But, thinking it would be easier for a guy to piss into a fan.
Does that make him a real man?
 OnDMove

Joined: 4/10/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 10:39:18 AM
"Confident in himself and his abilities. He handles business like a machine and manages money like a CPA. Whatever his field of work, he strives to be the best! The work he does is quality. His word IS good. If he tells you he is going to do something, it gets done PERIOD. He has good morals and values and the utmost respect for his mother. He not only listens to advice, but takes it at times and applies it in life situations. He has skills necessary to be a good leader or a good follower depending on the situation. His level of self-control is of excellence. A strong man is able to control his desires and addictions and not give in to his weaknesses. Does whatever necessary to "get the job done". He is a good decesion maker and problem solver. If a task or project is started, he finishes it. He is the protector of his family and loved ones and will stand up for the people and things he beleives in at all costs!!! He is like titanium steel on the outside but soft, sweet, and sensual on the inside.
~Ok i think that about covers it. lol. I'm sure i left a few things out though"

I.E. He’s Abraham Lincoln, G.I. Joe, Bob the Builder, Henry Paulson, Gandhi, and RoboCop! Wow…pretty amazing guy when you think about it!

Let me know when you meet him!
(hic!)
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 491
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Posted: 9/13/2009 12:57:32 PM

Ahh, Another sarcastic smart-a$$ to join me here - LOVE IT.......
Is it Winter yet where you are?????


I sense SEVERE comprehension problems. I haven't been sarcastic nor insulting.

I think you just NEED to argue.
 Belle Lass

Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 2:36:33 PM
Hey, OnDMove!!!

I LOVE that story! Can you tell some more "real man" stories? You have talent!
That brought a smile to my day.
 IdoDares1

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 9/13/2009 3:25:06 PM
Real men can't walk through walls.
 Mtn.lover

Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/13/2009 5:02:56 PM
^^^^ No, but a real man can throw your ass through one.
 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 9/13/2009 5:52:48 PM
Real men herd cows and scare sheep.
 GQSunset

Joined: 2/28/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 6:35:48 PM
What defines a real man is different for each man and each woman. You as a man have to ask yourself what are the qualities that would define you as a man to yourself that you could live with and justify. For women it's about what each holds as sacred to her happiness and what fulfills her emotionally,physically, and spiritually that can be augmented by that man and make her proud of being with him.
 Taztiger72

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 9/13/2009 9:44:54 PM

I.E. He’s Abraham Lincoln...


Just a little hint on this one - Mary Todd Lincoln didn't think Abe was man enough for her - she would insult him in public on a regular basis......




I sense SEVERE comprehension problems. I haven't been sarcastic nor insulting.

I think you just NEED to argue.


So is it Winter up there yet?????

 OnDMove

Joined: 4/10/2009
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Posted: 9/14/2009 3:28:56 PM
"Just a little hint on this one - Mary Todd Lincoln didn't think Abe was man enough for her - she would insult him in public on a regular basis......"

As Rocky used to say to Bullwinkle...

"Thank you Mr. Know-it-all!!!"

Obviously, sarcasm is wasted on "real men"
 totoman

Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 9/14/2009 3:43:30 PM
Is anybody counting the sheep in here? And are they nervous??
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 500
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Posted: 9/14/2009 7:56:32 PM
Nervous... The sheep or the men?


So is it Winter up there yet?????


Real men KNOW the seasons.
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