| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 9/28/2007 11:09:19 PM | Well, i know i am a nice guy, but women tend to put looks in the question, even though a nice guy can have a good exterior or a not so good exterior.
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places, my advice is just meet a guy, take it nice and slow, no need to rush into anything serious, try not to get your kids attached to him until you know its serious. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 9/28/2007 11:37:34 PM | Your 23 and pregnant with your 3rd. child ?
And, you want to find a nice man ?
Are you kidding us ?
What happened to the father(s) of your kids ? Weren't they nice enough ? | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/2/2007 5:17:08 PM | | It's too bad that she had to throw in the line about the kids cause I'd really like to hear from the guys where they frequent on a Saturday afternoon so I make my self available. Where else besides hardware stores, book stores, grocery stores? | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 9:07:30 AM | What's wrong with Mr. Right Now?
Kid nos. 4 & 5 from more assorted jackasses who run out on you as soon as they're done zipping up their pants doesn't sound appealing? | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 9:49:12 AM | I'd also say take it easy, but some of their points are pretty good ones.
2 kids, pregnant with 3rd ... how many men have gone through? theres one thought.
how many fathers?
where are they?
why arent you with him/one of them?
Sorry hun, but your in for a rough ride finding a decent fella to stick around with you for a long time.
Your best bet will be in a single dad in your age group.
And thats going to take searching for just as much as a single that doesnt have kids, that might be willing to stay with you. There are no set places - just set questions for asking at the start. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:03:09 AM | Has anybody noticed that the OP in her profile states that she is a heavy smoker ?
Then she states she is pregnant in her opening post.
Any woman that smokes while pregnant is a child abuser. I hope that the OP stopped smoking and she just forgot to update her profile.
What kind of guy would be ok with a smoking pregnant woman even if it is not their child ? A decent guy......I hardly doubt it. It makes me ill to even think of it.
For you people who like to say don't judge don't judge......if somebody abuses their children or future children there is no excuse. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:07:36 AM | Nice guys are everywhere, you're just not seeing them through the haze.
Some people will say a definitive no to this, but I've met wonderful women volunteering.
I comend you for being up front about your little ones OP. You might find a nice guy involved in his own children's lives at school, church, community theatre, sports, etc. Great luck to you. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:10:17 AM | The best place to meet a nice guy who will treat you right is a church. I used to go to church several times a week and I know what kind of good men there are there. If you are not into churches then I would dress up and go to a book store, a grocery store, or since you are so young you could even meet a nice guy at a college campus library or coffee shop.
You are hard pressed to find a guy who is willing to accept 3 kids into their life, but you will significantly increase your chances if you make an effort to approach guys instead of hoping they will approach you, like 95% of all women do. This does not mean for you to act desperate and approach every guy you see, but if you do see a guy you might like then you should be the one to make the move. Guys will respond much easier to this and this will result in more dates for you. Then it is up for you to find out if he is a nice guy or another brick in the wall. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:14:50 AM | | I actually just read your profile. You are form the same town where my mom was raised. I would recommend that you move to a much larger area because you are really limiting yourself way out there in the rural areas. Oh, and for the sake of your children you should quit smoking. You are only hurting yours and their health by doing so. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 8/26/2008 7:09:55 PM | | I'm just gonna take a stab at this, I'm no expert, but I would suggest shaking down your friends, co-workers, family, and somewhat close associates and ask them if they could possibly recommend a good guy. If they say "yes", screen him as best you can before you go out. The word will get about causing those who are possibly interested to come scoping you out, sort of a domino effect. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 8/26/2008 8:53:54 PM |
OK I know I need to find a different type of guy other than the bar and the usual places. So where is the best place besides churches and bars? Im 23 and pregnant with my 3rd kid. WHere would the best place to meet mr right.
wait?? let me get this straight!! you want a nice guy now??
ok..i would say that it would be sad if the guy who got you knocked up died, but if he left you!! does this mean that you want a nice guy to take care of your unborn baby and you at the same time??
listen maim~ why weren't you looks for a nice guy before getting knocked up??
some of you ladies sure are confusing | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 8/26/2008 9:13:18 PM | This web site. It's full of nice guys who like to point that out. Give it a shot, you'll see 25 billion threads from them. Although I think even the nicest guy would sprint faster than the Lightning at the Olympic games when he hears the number of kids coming his way.
By the way, I do understand that it was a joke post. So was my reply. | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 8/28/2008 2:47:18 AM |
"Ask a Girl"
OK, that cinches it. Happy Pants is a God. 
The thing I notice about the supposed NG's, is that they are the first ones to say that they are NG's. Maybe that is an indicator?
I will have to try and avoid any man that tells me that! | |
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| Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 8/28/2008 5:53:40 AM | OP: you're pregnant. You already have two kids ontop of that.
You're going to be single for quite a long time. I'd suggest you stop dating and take responsibility of your children.
Honestly, you'd probably be better off cutting men from your life outside of the family completely and focusing on raising your kids, than trying to find a 'nice guy'. Yeah it's tough, and your kids are going to miss having a father figure, but you'd probably do the most good for them.
Sounds to me, the fact that you have 3 kids, and are looking for a man, suggest you probably wouldn't know a decent guy if he fell from the sky and into your lap.
I'm being too acidic here. You got your work cut out for you, kiddo. Hope the father/s, pay due child support. | |
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