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 dpd22

Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 26
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 9:44:28 AM
Not all hot women are snobs. Some average looking and below average looking women can be snobs as well. Maybe a few attractive men think they are hot, then they suddenly think they can get every attractive man and ignore the decent looking ones who they might be more compatible with.
 Diamond Stunna

Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 27
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 9:59:25 AM
I admire Dianoor honesty and she recognized that she's on of those hot women that is not materilistic and not stuck up.

I think hot woman just have the luxury of being picky which make guys think there stuck up. SO Dianoor being up front and honest is projected as being stuck up.

this also works vice versa.
 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 28
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Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:10:37 AM

PS I will add that these so called stuck up chick are probably sick of guys like you that only ask them out because of their looks, not because of who they are.


Why the hell would I want someone who's stuck up? And why would I want someone I don't find physically attractive?
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 29
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Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:10:42 AM
I still laugh when a guy looks more like Steve Buscemi than Vin diesel and thinks he should have the flawless girls. Guess that faulty thinking explains the whole fat girls have ruined everything attitude. Hard to take someone seriously when he is devoid of character and is shooting wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of his league.
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 30
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Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:24:10 AM
I don't know anything about materialism because my circle of female friends all have jobs and money already...maybe this is a younger generation thing? I would assume the newer the generation the more ingrained working and making your own money would be since the sexual revolution happened quite a while ago. All my generation of females asks is that you don't expect us to support you, but otherwise we could care less how much you make.

Therefore I don't get the going after money thing...

I can't speak for attractive women, but I can speak for anyone human - of course we want someone that's good looking - the problem is everyone likes something different. But naturally we want men we're attracted to, just as a lot of men want women they are attracted to.

Sounds like there were a specific couple of girls you were interested in that didn't pay attention to you. If they were good looking, then they are guilty of the same thing you are - wanting a hot date.
 Nightwing66

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Posted: 5/10/2007 10:26:26 AM
Kind of funny how someone defined as the best of the best is suddenly 'stuck up & snobbish" for wanting the same for herself.

You get what you play for....if you can't bring an A game, quit ****ing about how she doesn't want to give you the time of day.
 junipermoon

Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 5/10/2007 10:36:14 AM

I can't speak for attractive women


^ this from one of the most exotically beautiful women on this site ~ of course you can!

some of us, while confident in our appearance, prefer to play our brain card. not that we don't get the 'you r hawt!!!' emails...we have evolved beyond that.

any reason why we shouldn't require the same in a potential partner?
 Mecheng001

Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 33
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:43:14 AM

I still laugh when a guy looks more like Steve Buscemi than Vin diesel and thinks he should have the flawless girls. Guess that faulty thinking explains the whole fat girls have ruined everything attitude. Hard to take someone seriously when he is devoid of character and is shooting wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of his league.


Hey now! I don't look as bad as that dude! (Do I? LOL!)

Looks like I found another woman who doesn't agree with my theory...

Oh well, lol...

Oh, and I have plenty of character! Just maybe not the kind that attracts women!
 offthewheel

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 34
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Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:59:56 AM
This reminds me of the journalist who asked Rick Ocasek why rock stars all date models... his answer?

"Because we can!"

...and so what? There are materialistic men and women--I hope they're happy together...
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 35
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Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 11:09:33 AM
MECH-yup...and your doing all the things to find a mate that men think are important...so maybe you will find one...just not the gender you expect...actually your lucky...we women arent nearly as superficial and insensitive so who knows..(you know i enjoy our little wars in the forums...so just teasing you...even though i KNOW your usually wrong LOL)

I just think you guys are wasting your lives looking at the tiny percent of perfect girls....then blaming the small percent of fat girls...what about all the other women that leaves.There are lots of beautiful women still to pick from...even if she isnt the blond you expected...or the leggy model type...maybe she is just going to be the great girl who smiled at you in the supermarket when you were having a shitty day.
 Mecheng001

Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 36
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 11:14:17 AM
you know i enjoy our little wars in the forums...so just teasing you...even though i KNOW your usually wrong LOL


Hey now!

I love the wars too, but I'm not wrong all the time, only when I'm in a thread with a bunch of women, because women are always right, LOL!

 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/10/2007 12:02:06 PM
so you do get it...hmm so why argue with us? Do you think disgust is an aphrodisiac? I was hoping it was all just an act ...and you didnt show up to our little battles of wits unarmed unknowingly Have you tried throwing donuts to all us fatties to get us to calm down? Oh wait...I live in canada...your stats are clearly american...I know alot of hawt, accomplished women here...far more than the ones who just have let themselves go for no reason.
 *Appletini*

Joined: 4/23/2007
Msg: 38
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 12:02:14 PM
Wow. Another thread about how stuck up and bit$%y attractive women are. Surprise, surprise. I haven't encountered any hotter than hell guys on this site...so I don't know if hot guys are the same way. All I know is that some people just like to complain a lot.
 qtblondbomb

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 39
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 12:23:45 PM
I'm not like that. If your not attracted to someone and they dont toot your horn there is nothing you can do about it. Thats just the way it goes. What is the first thing that gets you to walk up to a woman?! The way they look, just like its the first thing girls will look at too. Some people can be stuck up and ****y but not everyone is. Not everyone that you like will like you back. We all have different taste so if someone says your not my type, I'm not interested...say ok and move on. Hello there are plenty more fish in the sea. There is someone out there for you.

 PALEHORSERIDING

Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 40
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 12:24:35 PM
TO MSG 38 that should tell you a couple of things 1) they have women always chasing after them so dont need to go on a site they are as shallow as every one assumes they are or they have gone for personality instead of looks and are happy with the person they are with. Or you are just not broadening your horizons.
 *Appletini*

Joined: 4/23/2007
Msg: 41
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 12:41:07 PM
LOL I think that you are on to something. Maybe I should jump ship now.
 Mecheng001

Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 42
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:06:36 PM
so you do get it...hmm so why argue with us?


I like to strut through the hen house once in a while and ruffle up a few feathers, keeps things fresh, LOL!

 StarreGazer

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 5/10/2007 3:36:47 PM


They can be as nasty and hateful and stuck up as they want, and you'll still chase after them.


Hmph! He might, but I certainly wouldn't. There is no point in seeking the company of someone with a bad attitude.
 McShorty

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 5/10/2007 4:31:45 PM

They can be.

They can be as nasty and hateful and stuck up as they want, and you'll still chase after them.


Sad isn't it? Men want all these hot women, but get mad that they don't want them back.. are you hot? Do you have a great body? You can't expect her to accept you if you're being shallow yourself!

This goes for men too, if they're hot (even if they're not) they think they're god's gift to women. Waste of time.

Find someone who's attractive to you in their own way, not just b/c they're blond, thin, well-endowed, etc. That's why there are profiles. Read about their personalities.
 Cheerful_Trousers

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 45
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 6:39:33 PM
All I have to do is look around to see that in fact, there are less and less VERY attractive women around than their used to be. Yes, men are getting fat too, but for some reason it seems more women are having problems than men in this area.

And look at the young girls these days. FAT FAT FAT... In another 25 years, a thin attractive woman will be the thing of the past. They will no longer exists...


Exactly. This is the case where I'm originally from especially. Newfoundland has one the highest (if not the highest) obesity rate in the country. On top of that theres the
fact that we dont have much of a young population to begin with, Divide that population by half (the female part), and you have the number of young attractive women available to men. The result is a feeding frenzy among guys for the few attractive women out there. Go down on George St. on a friday night and hit on someone's GF to see it in action


2. Maybe they actually found a deeper connection with the girl than just her body.


I hate to break it to you, but this just dosent happen. A healthy man will not sleep with a woman he does not find physically attractive, no matter how great a "personality" she is. Sex, afterall, is a physical thing.
 kittybiscuit

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 5/10/2007 9:52:14 PM

This goes for men too, if they're hot (even if they're not) they think they're god's gift to women. Waste of time.


I haven't found this to be 100% true. In fact, it has been the opposite in my experience. The better looking a guy is, the more friendly he is to different types of people (if not for dating, but just in a friendly way) because he knows he is hot and can get a variety of women.

It's these average, less than average, nerdy, etc types of guys who are obsessed with, and believe they are entitled to, Heidi Klum types because that will somehow rescue them from their mediocrity and proove to the world just how "cool" they are. I have never quite understood why straight men are so obsessed with what their buddies think or having a trophy...to show off to other men?
 SweetTreat

Joined: 11/15/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2007 10:01:21 PM
Men want all these hot women, but get mad that they don't want them back.. are you hot? Do you have a great body? You can't expect her to accept you if you're being shallow yourself!


This is a very good point. Now, granted..everyones definition of attractive is probably different. But, of the guys in this thread that seem to be barking about how they want attractive women and there seems to be less and less of them....these guys aren't what I'd deem attractive myself. But to each their own.


Exactly. This is the case where I'm originally from especially


Is that why you moved to such a large city? To make your chances of sleeping with a slim girl higher? lol


I hate to break it to you, but this just dosent happen. A healthy man will not sleep with a woman he does not find physically attractive, no matter how great a "personality" she is. Sex, afterall, is a physical thing.


Well, I've had this conversation with you before haha. And I've always been Fat and all of the b/fs I've had or lovers I've had, have all been generally physically fit. Fat chicks do date men, fat chicks do sleep with men..and dammit alot of us fat chicks get hot, physically fit men. Surprise...surprise!


I have never quite understood why straight men are so obsessed with what their buddies think or having a trophy...to show off to other men?


See, your first mistake is trying to understand men in general. Secondly...who knows... but if men are such animal beasts and a guys chick is so hot..shouldn't he be worried about a buddy trying to move in on his gal? lol
 Cheerful_Trousers

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 48
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:06:36 PM
I have never quite understood why straight men are so obsessed with what their buddies think or having a trophy...to show off to other men?


If one guy comes to a party with a 300 pound "BBW" and his friend comes in with an Angelina Jolie like, long legged, slim waisted, tight stomached beauty queen, the guy with the 300 pounder is gonna feel like hes gotten the short end of the stick. And yes maybe he has the "confidence" to not care what others think, but in that case "confidence" is actually complete isolation from the norms of society which he is a part. In other words, he has forgotten the wisdom that our caveman ancestors learned long ago: it is better to belong in a group and accept its ways than die alone in the wilderness.


Is that why you moved to such a large city? To make your chances of sleeping with a slim girl higher? lol


Actually it was to further my career. But the increased chance to find someone I'm attracted to was a definite draw. I guess that makes me shallow somehow?


See, your first mistake is trying to understand men in general.


I think this quote more than any other reveals why whatever you say regarding men cannot be taken seriously.
 McShorty

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 49
Why are the hottest women always the most stuck up and materialistic?
Posted: 5/10/2007 10:09:59 PM

This goes for men too, if they're hot (even if they're not) they think they're god's gift to women. Waste of time.


I haven't found this to be 100% true. In fact, it has been the opposite in my experience.


Really?? Wow... maybe it's popularity then. It seems like the "goodlooking" guys I've met are ignorant. But maybe it's just the ones that have a flock around them inflating their egos
 SweetTreat

Joined: 11/15/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2007 11:12:06 PM
Actually it was to further my career. But the increased chance to find someone I'm attracted to was a definite draw. I guess that makes me shallow somehow?


Oh I've already determined that you were shallow..but that was determined by the ignorant private emails you've sent me, not by the fact of you moving to a larger city.


I think this quote more than any other reveals why whatever you say regarding men cannot be taken seriously.


And I think this quote proves you have no sense of humour whatsoever. Next!
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