Test Pilot, I am with you on this one. If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me she was average or athletic and ended up larger in person, I'd be rich. One actually told me that she was a triathlete. Silly me I believed it until I saw her and realized I forgot to ask which events were in HER triathalon.
We would all be rich.
Rule of thumb. NEVER trust a head shot.