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Posted: 5/11/2007 8:14:39 PM | | I just love it when a woman knows how to spell any word better than I do ...and especially if she practices, practices, practices what she has learned and mastered on me ...besides teach this ignorant fool all the more for her other strenghts. | |
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Brnies
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Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 27 | |
| Too Wet....
Posted: 5/11/2007 9:55:27 PM | | Sounds like she's a prime candidate for "Vaginal Rejuvenation" Google it. You will be dead long before Kegels begin to work for her. :) | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 10:26:16 PM | | Well if she is that wet at 48 kudos to you both and your powers to make love for an hour. One poster suggested to try anal, that might work. Ask her to loosen you up a little with some hot buttered corn on the cob! Then after dinner, have more sex! | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 7:05:08 AM | I just find it hard to believe that UR COMPLAINING ! Like hello peep... wet is a GOOD thing !.. would ya rather it be dry?? Men *rolling eyes* .. wet means u doing something good there fellows.. why u want to dry it up any ? I seriously doubt her being too wet is the prob .. (poppyco*k!)maybe u too small? | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 7:32:43 AM | | Why is this his girl's problem? | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 1:03:00 PM | Kegels are good idea but long term. Shower sex is a good idea too.
For short term solution- Keep a towel on the bed.
When shes gets to wet pull out - give a quick wipe to her and get it back in before you loose the erection. Repeat as needed.
Good luck. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 1:11:00 PM | Poster Boy said: "........just wondering if this has happened to anyone. My SO cums sooo hard and she gets sooo wet while we are having sex. She has several orgasms and she really is into what I am doing for her. I do enjoy seeing her get so much enjoyment...such a turn on. But, she is sooo lose and wet that there is not much enjoyment for me. Positions and angels don't help...she is that wet and lose. I am focused on her and it is very obvious that she is getting satisfied but most times I get frustrated and just give up. Stamina is not a problem as I can go for an hour or so. She is exhausted and is like putty and half - heatedly asks if I was satisfied. When she asks -it is such a vain attempt that I am not interested.
I have read that achieving orgasm are the individuals responsibility and not to put that on your partner.
She is a great woman...lots of fun and we connect on all levels except this one. She is a knock-out with a body that turns heads of every man in the room. We are a great couple and dedicated to each other but this is getting old. We been together for 2 years now. What da ya think?"
 WHAT do I think? I think that I cannot believe you say she is loose! Maybe you think she's loose cause you're "small". | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 1:57:05 PM |
Positions and angels don't help.
Well, if angels won't help then ya done! lol
If you've been together 2 years...suggest kegals! that will help the lose factor. Build those muscles! | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 2:10:11 PM | she is sooo lose and wet that there is not much enjoyment for me.
I agree with many others that have replied to you, Poster_Boy. Never too wet, perhaps too loose. Or maybe you're penis is too thin. I don't know, just a thought. Take a $5 bill and wrap the wide side of it around your penis. The ends should just meet. That's what I've been told is the average girth of a penis. And, in case anyone's interested the average length of a penis is the length of the bill. Yes, size does matter!
Sound's like you're the one with the problem, not your SO. So are you going to take ownership of your problem and do something about it? Or do you expect her to read your mind and her to do all the changing? | |
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Posted: 5/12/2007 5:14:59 PM | Msg: 1 -- Wow, I can't believe this. Too wet? WTF??!??!??
I can't believe any man COULD complain about that! You have every man's dream staring you in the face, and all you can do is b*tch about it?
Sheesh, if she's too wet, get a stack of towels. Some folk will gripe about anything! | |
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Posted: 5/13/2007 7:51:30 AM | Definitely...Kegels will keep her vaginal and sphincter muscles in shape...allowing for a tight fit, and for her control of those muscles during sex.
It sounds like you're the lucky man who has found a woman who ejaculates. When a female ejaculates (also known as squirting) as a result of a G-spot orgasm...everything gets VERY wet. It's not the slick, sticky wet of arousal, but the thinner and wetter ejaculate that actually comes from the urethra. Most women DO NOT orgasm from penetration alone...and many women never ejaculate. I'd suggest changing positions until you are both ready for that final orgasm...THEN going back to thrusting and stroking her G-spot.
Use towels, or line your mattress with a Teflon mattress cover...and use a variety of positions and techniques that are pleasurable to you both. Not every sexual encounter has to result in your partner ejaculating...it just happens that whatever position you are using is allowing her that pleasure...thus the extreme wetness.
Google Female Ejaculation, there are many sites out there that discuss this phenomena.
Enjoy the experience,
Dev | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 9:23:02 AM | | hmm i've also had that problem w one bf before, although it was the first time I ever had the problem of it feeling loose bc it was so wet, but the reason there was a problem was bc he was so unbelievably tiny, he was under 5 inches long and there was no girth whatsoever........ could that be the same problem here??............also w ur age i would guess that everything isnt as hard as it once was which means u have lost some sensation and feeling.........i doubt its her | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 9:53:10 AM | A position that you might not have tried, which will probably help...
Get yourself inside her in the plain ol' missionary position, and then have her put her legs together, as you maneuver to straddle her. Just make sure you don't lose your connection while you're both moving around. Then she can squeeze her thighs together, and you can also exert pressure on her legs with your own. You will lose some depth this way, and it make not work if your penis is fairly short, but it will definitely make things tighter. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 10:01:16 AM | This is a very stupid question........
But why is blowing the wad in the holiest of holys the ONLY way that some people think of to have had the session a 'success'?? I realize there can get point where it's too wet and loose....but does the act HAVE to always be finished off in this manner?? It's my understanding there are quite a LOT of creative, highly erotic and sensual ways for you to "not have to try so hard" when needing to finish the job. It's wonderful to be able to admit to the whole world that you can keep going for an hour, stud...and that you can make her come in quarts.....but damn.... the last time I checked, there are far too many other ways for one to be able to get off without starting a campfire in the process............ | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 11:52:43 AM | Well within the average size range. 5 3/4" x 5" g. Just a regular guy. I don't think size is a problem....but it might. She has intimated (very suttlely - once) that her ex was "big." Now I am starting to wonder how big he might have been. javascript:smilie(' ')
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Posted: 5/26/2007 3:06:08 PM | | Kegals for sure. Also rub her clit, the muscles inside will tighten up . | |
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Posted: 5/26/2007 3:50:19 PM | try the old 69'r before sex then you both get climax and may take her attention to your needs as sexual paetners | |
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Posted: 5/26/2007 3:50:37 PM | Why not just have a towel nearby and dry it off some? Seems easy enough.
C~ | |
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Kazot
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Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 44 | |
| Too Wet....
Posted: 5/26/2007 5:32:49 PM | All good suggestions.
Anal, oral, from behind, have a towel or do you first and have the staying power to get her to the gates of heaven. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 3:44:40 AM | Yep sounds like female ejaculation to me.
Kegels, yes. What they all said.
Oh, and, stop whining. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 9:41:55 AM | maybe she isnt big-but u have a small****br>maybe all the wet is her g-spot orgasms-as u say she orgasms several times | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 10:29:38 AM | TOO WET!!!
Never complain of your partner getting too wet.
Been with 2 women now that 'squirt', best thing ever!! It's the holy grail. 
Just put plenty of towels down. lol  | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 8:42:27 PM | | dam well im always wet even if im not talking about sex but i just think she is lose mate just take her in the back door ah it be better for u | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 9:06:43 PM | | It seems to me that, on a very subtle level, the woman sounds just a little selfish - and after two years of this issue ongoing, the man sounds just a little intimidated. The social and physical description of her seems to indicate that she's on a pedestal, and not just in his mind. A relationship of such duration begs some fundamental questions in this particular context; these would include such topics as: physical appearances, communication styles, sexual history, financial status, relational aspects, and soft signs on other levels. Of course, the advice about her taking some responsibility to make herself pleasurable is an obvious conclusion (I have muscle control - like a woman should), but sodomy is not a solution in my mind because I don't believe in it. I've also talked to men who've had the good fortune of finding a multi-orgasmic woman, and they report (without exception) that it's too easy and gets repetitious, they don't have to take any responsibility for her because there's no real effort involved, and they eventually discover that she figures that the pleasure of her company is sufficient. Immediate changes in the situation will bode well for the relationship, but if she doesn't jump on that bandwagon double-quick, he'll have to move on double-quick, 'cause it'll just get ugly from there. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2007 9:11:27 PM | Well I stopped to read everyones posts before I wrote my own ....... lol
I think everyone pretty much agrees that too wet can never be the problem .....
HEHEHEHEHEHE
Loose maybe, so if suggesting kegals aint gonna work ...... lol, There is a product sold overthecounter too (at erotic boutiques), that is marketed as a vaginal tightener. Supposed to last a good while (approx. 24hrs). Me thinks, though that is product would contain the ingredient ALUM, sold at grocery stores in the spice aisle. LMAO
So a not so scrupulous person might add this ingredient to maybe a fav creme or lube and experiment?????
Just a thought!!!!!]
Me though, I like the idea of putting the legs together...... But try it on her belly with a pillow under her pelvic area....... Should work quite nicely for tighter vaginal intercourse.
JMO
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