| Too Wet....
Posted: 10/6/2007 1:05:35 PM | In my experience too much wetness does make it feel loose. Maybe it was just the particular girl I was with. It was uber thick and wet to the point that it made a thick low friction gel. Motion was really fast, but I prefered the times when she was not so wet.
Same with oral. Too much thick wetness and you can't really feel the texture and sensation from some of her parts.
I'd still prefer too wet to too dry though. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2007 1:29:51 PM | That's great that you enjoy giving a woman pleasure. That is the way it should be, vice versa of course. I can't say that I ever had a looseness problem. My ex use to tell me he "use to" be able to go for a long time with his previous ex. With me he didn't and he almost always had to stop midway to take a hold of himself and start again. I hate that. I'd rather just do it for as long as he can than do it again. Some just don't have that stamina I guess, so if you can go a long time with a tighter person than kudo's to you. Sometimes he would be able to go longer if he was real tired after a work out or if we booze him up a little.
BTW-Not that he was a minute man, but I have been told I am real tight. ANd, in my 30's I get really wet, never a complaint about that (it actually turns men on more), but throughout my sexual experience my partners have always came too quick for me. Doesn't stop me from enjoying it, but makes me hunger for more even if he used other methods to please me or make me climax.
If you are giving her so much pleasure I don't see why she can't reach over and give you some loving with her hands or with her mouth.
ANal sounds like a good option to help satisfy you as well. No additional lubrication needed. Just dip in the front and stick it in the other end... He...he he he.
If I had that problem, the looseness situation, I'd definately read up on trying to fix the situation. I'd be very fearful and skeptical of any knives go down anywhere in that area though. I'd get a few different opinions from some very well-known specialist in that area before I would ever proceed with something like that though.
Oh, thanks for reminding me. My Kegals..ok...one,two,three...there two sets....and two more... :) | |
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Posted: 10/6/2007 1:37:49 PM | Kegels 
Could be she's an unindentified squirter, too | |
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Posted: 10/6/2007 2:52:58 PM | ManeRider
<div class="quote">Could be she's an unindentified squirter, too
Could be a squirter but that should not cause the looseness. Squirting orgasms are not as slippery as the other 2 that I am familiar with and none would cause there to be a loose feeling to the man. When she is tight you will feel the contractions easily, this can at times squeeze the man and force him out for a split second.
Kegels and have her ask her doctor. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2007 6:05:03 PM | ~OP~ Kegels alone aren't enough for some women. There is however, a little procedure that takes about an hour (outpatient) and everything is snipped/stitched and tucked back where it should be. It takes about 4 weeks for complete healing. One of my closest friend had it done and her spouse claims it saved their sex life. Then the kegels are vital. I've done them for so long it's habit. I do them without thinking about it. BUT, if one hasn't done them often or if the muscles are hard for her to isolate (to know WHICH muscles to contract) ~ Kegels may not be effective. The wetness, don't know about that. I have no first hand knowledge of squirters and I've never been accused of flowing like Niagra, so that is something she really should addess with an MD or OB/gyn. Good luck to ya.  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2007 8:08:00 PM |
Positions and angels don't help
angels??.. hummmm me tinks i haven`t tried everything.. yet..  ..
What da ya think?
well buddy.. me tinks it time to get the ole snorkel n fins out..   .. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2007 11:08:11 PM | | thank youuuu all! KEGELS now if i can only remember that word! not because I have a problem with well what youre all talkin about but get this...............doing kegels also helps not just those muscles but it makes the very small support muscles of the lumbar spine stronger andd i coudl not for the life of me remember that friggen word to explain it easier to my clients so thanks for that one! | |
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Posted: 11/3/2007 11:22:11 PM | Sounds like she needs to learn what Kegels are (Vaginal exercises) to tighten up some muscles.. Now a woman getting super wet could make them feel LOOSE not lose btw..lol It is just because there is less friction to go on.. Slippery when wet! lol..  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 12:52:59 AM | | ^^^^^WORD!!! No such thing as too wet...that's what my tongue is for. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 1:43:09 AM | I think the OP needs to stop being so selfish, in the respect of 'Boohoo, what about me'
You should be happy that your SO is enjoying the sex that you both have, what's wrong man don't you know what your right hands for 
BTW......what the he*l is a SO? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 2:43:25 AM | | id say take a male enhancement pill ur****is obviously too small | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 7:38:40 AM | it's like an insult when someone tells me i'm too wet! lmao.
like i'm gonna take THAT on as something that's wrong with ME.
wipes, or a towel ... wipe it up and keep going. i don't think in most cases it has anything to do with "tightness". some of you are just that good at turning us on, and making us cum.....again, and again, and again, and again. mmmmmmm.
not many of you though. that's truly unfortunate.  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 1:10:20 PM | Eddie-
It's a significant other (girlfriend).
I agree with the shower thing. It will help with the too wet part. The too loose part-Exercises, nip/tuck, about the only options.
My other questions is-Why, if she is getting hers, isn't she helping him out? It seems a bit selfish on her part. If she gets off so much that she is exhausted, then they need to have a "guy's night"-one night that is all about him! Unsatisfied men wander. Got to kep their attention! | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 1:18:47 PM | | only had a few who got too wet. made little difference in tightness. just made the wet spot bigger. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 2:01:09 PM | Yes i also think you need have a sit down chat with her obviously bein careful how you word things!
There are other things you can do, if not penetration, and u could try masterbatin alone before the act so your almost there.
Also i get very wet with the right partner and it actually helps just to have some tissue to have a quick wipe lol x | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 7:25:09 PM | i never knew that being too wet was a problem.....but then again i never been loose either | |
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Posted: 11/11/2007 8:01:05 PM | 11-11-2007
No Such thing as tooo wet !!!
That's a real joy. It does wonders for my hair.
Hey you can never go thirsty.
What a pleasure
Tony (Lakeland) | |
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Posted: 11/11/2007 8:03:58 PM | mmmmm.... wet
seriously though justchange positions. Problem solved that or enzyte | |
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Posted: 11/11/2007 8:26:34 PM |
Sheesh , Ive always had that dream of finding a woman that could turn me into a glazed donut, Oh well
if your partners "stuff" looks like the glaze from a donut... um... take her to the dr ASAP!!!
The muscles in the vagina are very resiliant... if they weren't every woman who had a child would be screwed and not in a good way! So even the idea of her ex being well endowed doesn't necessarily mean she is "loose" guess it depends on how long she was single between the ex and you... but the longer you go without and the more kegels ya do... the tighter she will be... if you feel she is too "loose" than surgery is an option, or there is a product on the market called "Like a Virgin" by Slumber Parties... or similar products are sold at adult stores... now ya know... so get busy!!!!  | |
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Posted: 11/12/2007 12:53:03 PM | | To wet, to loose. That’s like saying that there is too much filling in the pie and too much ice cream on top. I bet if he was only getting it 2 or 3 times a month that would be the best pie he ever had. I bet finishing wouldn’t be a problem either. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2007 5:01:49 PM | Hummmmm...
...is it really possible to be TOO WET? lol
Lets just sayyyyyy dryness has never been a problem.... nor other areas of my anatomy... “Kegles” are a wonderful thing... lol
But... I have to ask... lol
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| hummmm... really?
Posted: 12/16/2007 10:53:20 AM | that s kind of like saying one can be ummmm tooo hard ???
Hello???
LOL
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Posted: 12/16/2007 2:55:12 PM | I tried to read all of the posts, but admit that I can't do it and miss things. Don't blame your so. Erectile dysfunction,vas problems, prostrate, bladder pressure, and so many other things can cause problems. I also found out, when I was married, that when older men masturbate that they will have problems getting to the point a second time. In your younger days you may have been able to masturbate breakfast, lunch, and dinner and still go strong with your so. As you age, you need to cut a few of the meals out. This may not apply to you.
I am surprised she hasn't said what do I need to do to get you off.
Are you resenting her ability to get off so many times? Your focus should be on getting off and enjoying yourself. You know she is digging it, so stop thinking about her getting off and it is her fault that she is wet and feels loose. Sounds like a total excuse.
If you get a check with your doctor and find out that all is well with you, ask him about the problem. I suggest a urologist, but not knowing what your insurance etc. is like, you may just deal with a gp. I say him because I don't know how comfortable you would feel asking a female doctor about it. | |
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| hummmm... really?
Posted: 12/16/2007 5:01:26 PM | | Any man who complains that a woman is too wet deserves to be kicked out the bedroom. What a silly post. | |
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