| Hand jobs Posted: 6/2/2005 11:36:37 PM | | Funny, but it just suddenly occurred to me that I would probably like to have sex with a woman who reads these forums...they are so educational and full of wonderful ideas! And Christine, when they say "...out of the mouth of babes..." they didn't really have you in mind but wow, does it ever fit in this case! That sounds pretty good. | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 12:37:49 PM | Sorry people,my husband made me type that...haha Hope I didnt confuse anybody... | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 1:04:47 PM | | would love to respond to this thread,but is unable to at the moment as he has passed PLUM out in the floor,lol | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 1:58:51 PM | | its not complicated, its simple and easy, he'll let u know what he likes | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 3:35:00 PM | | Holy crap countrylin69athm, I thing I just,, wait,, yes, yes I did,, I gotta go!!! | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 4:01:33 PM | | Call me and I will show you how :) | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 4:21:44 PM | Turns out I now what im doing My guy was very satisfied THANKS 4 the ADVICE EVERY 1 | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 7:02:53 PM | | id love to show u..lets hook up | |
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sarahb
| Joined: 2/26/2005 Msg: 109 | |
| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 8:56:05 PM | | no hon - almond oil - warmed up in my hands - sliding over you c*ck - watching your eyes roll back...just the start........ | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 9:13:08 PM | | sarah you do know how to talk.love it when a women looks in my eyes that way | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/3/2005 9:26:06 PM | The best lubes in the world are silicone-based. They don't break down, they don't absorb into your skin, they are condom-safe and have no flavour or smell, and they are effective underwater. They're expensive, but a bottle will last you a lifetime because you only need the tiniest drop. Just do'nt use it with any kind of silicone toy, or it will damage your toy over time.
Definitely asking him what he wants is the best way to go. If he's too shy to say what he wants or jack off in front of you, then start slowly with a little lube and ask him to tell you if it feels good, or to change if it's not quite doing it for him. Eventually you will figure it out. The experimenting is loads of fun, and you'll get results in a very short time. :-)
Yes, touching the frenulum is the hot spot on a guy, but also remember to tease him by geting close to it but not touching it. Think about when he does that to your clit and how it makes you feel! You could even go so far as to breathe on it to steam it up and make him think you're about to put it in your mouth, then do something completely different.
Balls are important. Not just balls, but inner thighs, butt cheeks, whatever. If you really want to drive him crazy, start at his toes, work up one leg until you're almost there, then go down to the other foot and start again. He'll be panicking, but it'll be worth it. ;-)
I find holding it like a joystick in a video game, with a lubed thumb rubbing over the head works quite well to get a guy going.
As for where to aim the resulting fireworks, who cares, as long as it's a washable surface! LOL
DISCLAIMER: Since this post will be attached to my profile for a while, I'll say now that my talents are only given as I see fit to bestow them on those I deem worthy. Strangers writing with requests for me to perform said acts on them will be blocked from contacting me, and publicly ridiculed in my profile! (Disclaimer was required due to the unbelieveable number of pervs on this site!) Otherwise, feel free to comment on my post in these public forums as you wish. :-) | |
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| Ha Ha I LUVS this Posted: 6/3/2005 10:40:47 PM | DISCLAIMER: Since this post will be attached to my profile for a while, I'll say now that my talents are only given as I see fit to bestow them on those I deem worthy. Strangers writing with requests for me to perform said acts on them will be blocked from contacting me, and publicly ridiculed in my profile! (Disclaimer was required due to the unbelieveable number of pervs on this site!) Otherwise, feel free to comment on my post in these public forums as you wish. :-)
Oh this is great!~ I luvs it :) You go jello :)
About the silicone based preference. For hand jobs, that don't require condoms I do prefer oils. There is something natural and earthy that adds to the ambience with the oils for this particular maneuver. Was tickled to see you included the inner thighs and buttcheeks on this. You bet. I gave one to Chasing Dreams last night that was 'outta this world'. Don't think he's come down quite yet. I won't go into details, but hand jobs rock. He owes me a sexual favor now.
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| Ha Ha I LUVS this Posted: 6/3/2005 10:49:18 PM | Hey sweetheart :)
That wasn't just a "hand"job! I recall you using just about every soft part of your body ;)
LOL, you're sitting right across the desk from me, but I'll ask you here anyway, what was the name of the oil you used? It comes highly recommended ;)
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| Ha Ha I LUVS this Posted: 6/3/2005 10:55:33 PM | haha, you guys are dorks :P
and I thought it was silly to message my wife from two rooms away :P | |
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| Ha Ha I LUVS this Posted: 6/3/2005 10:58:48 PM | Hey 76131,
Oh I can't leave windover alone in another room by herself. Hard telling what she might start doing in there ;)
:P
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| Ha Ha I LUVS this Posted: 6/3/2005 11:08:10 PM | Chasing never cares or knows too much on the types of oils, just that it feels good ((I luvs ya Chasing)).
Oils:
If you are interested in mixing your oils, making your own or just want to use a base light oil. Do a search on Google for 'Carrier Oils Massage'. This will give you links to pages with tons of informations on base carrier oils and also mixtures you can make.
I have a decorative jar I use for my mixed oils.
The oil Chasing liked last night was a 'pre-mix' by The Gap. The Gap, Massage Oil, Earth is the name of it. Looking at the ingrediants it's mostly light carrier oils, Seasame Oil, Grapeseed oil, Sweet Almond Oil, Jojoba Oil, Rose Hips Seed Oil and Tocopherol (Vitamin E).
I rarely stay with one type of oil or 'lube' as you'all call it. I hope Chasing doesn't mind my adding this, however ... personally I like to add a prostate massage when the hand job is into full session. Here's a link that may help... http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm
Now it's totally up to your lover, mine is very open minded as you can tell. :) Like I said, I don't want to go into details, but have given enough information in this post and my others for those to create their own specialties.
Hugs to all, and I would love to hear how it goes on this,
windover | |
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| nope Posted: 6/4/2005 12:20:48 AM | nobody can do me like. no lotion no nothing. give me a good flick and i'm out in 2.3 | |
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| nope Posted: 6/4/2005 2:27:38 AM | | windover you make me want to take a road trip to see the college world series next week.oils rule when the soft touch of a women is using them | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/4/2005 5:59:57 AM | | just like shaking a ketchup bottle...just for the love of god DO NOT smack the head like a newly opened bottle of hienz that your trying to get on your fries. anyone got a splint?? | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:24:04 PM | Oils have their uses, but I find they have several downfalls.
1. They are absorbed very quickly into the skin, and you have to apply more frequently.
2. I prefer natural sweat smell over anything else. There's nothing sexier than good clean sweat you've caused yourself!
3. I'm allergic to many oils, and I don't find it sexy to have difficulty breathing or develop an itchy skin rash.
4. An aromatherapist knows what oils are safe to use. However, certain oils can be quite harmful to people with diabetes, high blood pressure, pregnancy, and other conditions. Sticking with the basic oils (almond, jojoba) is pretty safe, but once you get into the other stuff you can have problems if you have a medical condition that contraindicates those substances. | |
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~KC~
| Joined: 5/10/2005 Msg: 121 | |
| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:39:33 PM | LOTS OF GREAT LUBE.. feels great in your hands.. easy on his c*ck.. some pressure but not tooo much.. gently massage the head (again.. make sure you're hands are well lubed) .. play with his scrotum.. and whatever else he wants you too.... But I honestly have to say.. LUBE, LUBE... and more LUBE! Be firm but gentle... you don't want to hurt the guy.. just pleasure him!
Practice makes perfect... so, perfect.. now practice!

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lil8t
| Joined: 4/18/2005 Msg: 122 | |
| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:40:31 PM | One word of advice that I havent' seen offered... Get into it. If he see's that you feel like it is a job or something you're not enjoying, he probably won't enjoy it. I'm a woman who can't help but get into it. Shoot, I'd have his legs up on my shoulder if I could get away with it. LOL But seriously, enjoy what you do or don't do it at all.  | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:52:48 PM | I like to do it with sand paper  | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:55:00 PM | | Sometimes ^^^ you scare me. LOL | |
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| Hand jobs Posted: 6/5/2005 3:56:01 PM | LoL! steel wool works too  | |
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