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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 1:33:27 PM |
I think being single for the past 19 years is long enough? Don't you?
That question makes single sound negative, but really it's all in your frame of mind. Some people prefer it. Some don't care either way, and some count every minute until their next relationship. It's all about outlook. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 2:02:43 PM | I'm gonna jump in here and simply say - You choose your own life!! If you don't like what's happening in it, then change what you are doing and make things come your way!!! You are the only one responsible for what is going on - don't blame others!!
You have to take charge - and find out positive ways to get exactly what you are seeking - even the most wonderful woman you will ever meet - who treats you as you wish to be treated!!
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 2:06:34 PM | | The world is heartless. doesnt mean you have to be. allways be the best person you can be. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 4:08:59 PM | CG5000 said:-
"There are heartless people in both camps."
You are quite correct. It amazes me how many women keep going back to men who treat THEM like dirt. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 4:11:45 PM | Savanna1 said:-
"Ahh come here Varoom
I'll marry you! :o)
xx"
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 4:35:19 PM | You see...
A genuine heart felt respnonse...
Who said that personality / emotional feelings was only 10% of a womans consideration...I'm at 80% already out of personality and compassion alone...
Yeah compassion is love... I have a heart damn you! :o) | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 5:14:02 PM | uglybetty said:-
'That question makes single sound negative, but really it's all in your frame of mind. Some people prefer it. Some don't care either way, and some count every minute until their next relationship. It's all about outlook. '
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Yes. I have to admit that before I was 21 I didn't want to be tied down in a relationship. However I now would really like someone to cuddle!
PS: Why do you call yourself "uglybetty"? You are not doing yourself any justice! I think "prettybetty" would suit better! You look lovely, really. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 5:36:16 PM | Wow!
I hear you load and clear there brother. I i agree that there are alot of woman who have so many standards on men but when you look at it. Is there a spot where we can post must not be looking for intamate incounters now or in the past and much much more.
Alot of their list are 5 plus.
In fact i've made threads to the general people out there to report when people aren't who they say they are to be.
But...
I've had my threads deleted by the administrater for reasons i find are questionable.
Any how!
One thing that i have learned is that there is some sort of hypocracy in sites like this.
I wish that people would try not to be so dam hypicritacal when they don't even meet their own standards.
Yah! forsure there are alot of cold fish out there.
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/17/2007 5:44:17 PM | Yip you are right, but keep  for a 'warm' fish! There must be some out there!
It's amazing how the 'bad' guys always seem to get the women! | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/18/2007 6:45:07 AM | Yes. I have to admit that before I was 21 I didn't want to be tied down in a relationship. However I now would really like someone to cuddle!
21? Wow you got over that fast, took most of us into our 30s to start wanting relationships in my circle of friends, and some of us still aren't over it. Having someone to cuddle and a full fledged relationship where you have to change your life and look at the same person every day are two TOTALLY different things. Some people in their 50s still don't want to be tied down. Depends on the person and their social conditioning I guess.
PS: Why do you call yourself "uglybetty"? You are not doing yourself any justice! I think "prettybetty" would suit better! You look lovely, really.
It's a joke - there's a sitcom called "Ugly Betty", and the main character has braces, which I just got, so it's sort of a goof on that. Thanks for the compliment. I'm sure there are others out there that think the name suits me. LOL
Alot of their list are 5 plus.
5 requirements? Knowing women like I do, that's definitely a low number...many have more than 15 (posted in profiles or just a mental list). | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/18/2007 10:33:10 AM | | I agree with the girls, but I also agree with the Guys. Take it from me, When you've tried to get a relationship going over and over and over and over and it all ends up bad and more hurtful then it should be. I do think that alot of girls out there have a cold heart. Big reason why I stoped trying | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/18/2007 5:32:38 PM | | K first of all..I don't wear sexy clothing or expensive makeup..so stop generalizing. Second of all...question for you: Why are boys so heartless? My guess is you're basing this question of yours off of a couple experiences. Not all girls are that way. Just like not all guys are that way. But alas we always seem to find the wrong ones before the right one, huh? | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/18/2007 8:39:03 PM | | Foreigner explains it all in the 80s song "Cold as Ice". Nothing new here in the 21st century, guys. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/18/2007 8:58:49 PM | First of all, I dont want a to be with a girl that pitys me. I want to find a girl that sees the value in me, not lack of value.
I dont think the problem with women is their heartlessness, but moreso their lack of ability to see value when its standing their in front of them. They rather go for the sharp remark, the c ocky strut, in other words, the brave baffoon, rather than the quiet ponderer, or the deep soul. In the end they will be stuck with a shallow cad while the women of intelligence, who can see quality, will end up with it.
Attractive, intelligent women who can pick a good guy when they see them are a rare breed. For some reason beauty and intelligence/wisdom do not correlate. And thats why I'm single. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/19/2007 4:15:33 PM | I think it's both, Mr. Happy.
These girls here are substanceless and souless. Thus, they lack any type of personality worth being interested in. I suppose they are happy though because a lot put on this impression that they're worth something but it comes across as conceited. Either way, it's shallow. The automatic response to this is to dismiss their character flaws but instead attack the messenger (me, in this case). It is so cliche so go ahead, knock yourselves out. These women are walking plastic zombies so the response they say has no credibility anyway. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/19/2007 4:22:05 PM | Need brains.. must have brains... brrrraaaiiiinnnns.
I know a good thing when I see it. Thing is... does HE see a good thing when lookin at me? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2007 8:13:57 PM | This reminds me of an ex friend of mine. She is gorgeous. Blonde haired, blue eyed, 5'9" 125lbs and a sgt in the Army so she's tone! She typically can get whichever guy she wants (till she opens her mouth). But one night while at the clubs, she was turned down by THREE guys!!!!
I tried explaining to her that rejection is a part of life. There would be guys that werent attracted to her, to only be attracted to me instead. (which she acted like she just couldnt believe that to be true HA!) And Vice versus! She just didnt get it. Oh well I suppose?!
I personally wont talk to someone i'm not interested on here. What's the point? I suppose other people would call that heartless. But i'm on here trying to find a date. Not friends. I mean, if I go on a date with someone and I end up being friends with them instead, great. But I have tons of friends. Just none of them I would date. So, I guess some would consider that heartless? I dunno. | |
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| Why are girls so heartless?
Posted: 5/19/2007 11:18:32 PM | Alex89:
These girls here are substanceless and souless. Thus, they lack any type of personality worth being interested in. I suppose they are happy though because a lot put on this impression that they're worth something but it comes across as conceited. Either way, it's shallow. The automatic response to this is to dismiss their character flaws but instead attack the messenger (me, in this case). It is so cliche so go ahead, knock yourselves out. These women are walking plastic zombies so the response they say has no credibility anyway. So, here's a question for you...why are you here? You're crying about women "attacking the messenger". If you couldn't handle any negative responses, why did you bother to pose a question that generalizes and lumps ALL women (well, girls, as you put it) together?
Next time you start a thread like this, could you supply tissues? I'm really crying for ya here. | |
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