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Posted: 5/18/2007 7:59:25 AM | I agree with all who say, If you have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Now Dr. Phil on the other hand. Don't get me started.
This goes both ways too. If you care about this relationship and gal, you will have no trouble giving a password on the spot to put her mind at ease. If you did not, YOU have something to hide. Nuff said on that one.
Happy Victoria day weekend fellow Canucks.
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Posted: 5/18/2007 8:07:49 AM | To anyone STILL posting on whether the OP should stay with that female or not, see message 71. It makes me wonder how many here actually look at the replies or input before they reply in it. Maybe there should be a thread asking such? If there isn't one already.. NO need to say further on what the OP can do with her, that is already decided in that message mentioned. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 8:11:20 AM | Gee thanks. Loyal T. I feel most do not have the time nor inclination to read ALL posts.
On the other hand...............You need get out more. lol. :)
I thank you. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 8:14:26 AM | Run!!!. Do Not walk ,I really mean Run away!!!
Trust me, when i tell you that this is the beginning of a bad scene.
I am sure there are other things about her that are scary that you did not post on here.
The red flag is up!!!!
Yea she is hot--- Blah blah blah..
POF without any drama...( find one of them & live a happy life) | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 8:15:41 AM |
Just because I am in a new relationship, doesn't mean I should ditch everyone (my friends) overnight.
Without trust, there is not much to build on. I have NEVER dumped my friendships for a romance. That's just preposterous. If someone is so insecure in me that they would expect such a thing, then they need to not let the door hit 'em where the good Lord split 'em. I value my friendships, whether online only or in real. So should you. They have been with me through thick and thin. I'm not tossing them for a bed warmer. And if somebody truly loves me, they will respect that I am loyal to those who have been my FRIENDS. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 12:02:04 PM | A bit off the topic, but the same idea.
I have had friends whom i love to death but were so crazy! absolutely psyco when it comes to relationships. I once had a friend ask one of her mates to flirt with her boyfriend at a bar just so that she could "walk in and catch them in the act" . I dont know why she would do this, but apparently its quite common, so men, beware...lol | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 12:07:56 PM | | This woman is clearly a co-dependent of the worst kind! I've been threw similar & here's my 2 cents. Run,run fast & run hard! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 12:40:35 PM | | This one has red flags all over it. She sounds very controlling and insecure. I mean wanting your passwords to check up on you? If a guy asked me to do that, I would tell him no way and to back off. That is YOUR business not hers and to be so possesive is not a good sign. I would talk to her about it and tell her that isn't cool and she needs to stop it. If not, you may want to ask yourself if this is someone you want to be with. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 12:46:40 PM | | If you can't hold someone with an open hand then you really can't hold them at all. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 3:26:11 PM | Sounds very jealous. Has she been cheated on a lot, or used for sex so much, she finds it hard to trust?
You'll get on soon.
Either you'll ditch her soon, or she'll become normal soon, or you'll be as mad as a hatter. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 3:37:47 PM | | Well as ranger pointed out (and apparently I missed) this IS a very new relationship. I stand by what I said, but it is something more appropriate for a more established relationship. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 4:29:35 PM | It is no longer a very new relationship...it is a very "over" relationship according to the OP.  | |
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djtomy
| | Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 140 | |
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Posted: 5/18/2007 9:22:06 PM | | She sounds like a keeper! j/k have you ever dated anyone like this before? | |
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Posted: 5/20/2007 8:11:47 PM | | ;) It's Over - We broke up - Thanks for all the comments and opinions ;) What about you guys/gals? Any crazy situations or experiences you've experienced in a new relationship? How about some first date nightmares? | |
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rsting
| | Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 142 | |
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Posted: 5/20/2007 8:29:51 PM | I agree with tdh46.
You are playing a game.
"I am guessing you might be getting off on her insecurities. might just be some kind of ego boost to you, pushing her buttons."
Everyone loses.
Sincerely,
J. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2007 8:30:14 PM | | Sorry to hear about the break up. She sounded very insecure. No one needs a fixer-upper. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2007 8:40:23 AM | Your new girlfriend sounds a tad shall we say insecure. Every relationship eventually has to be based on trust, if it isn't it will eventually fail.
Man up, and tell her how you feel about her reaction, otherwise it will get worse.
Just my 2 cents on the matter. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 10:12:35 AM | well be careful because she might be reading this post of you and you will certanely get kicked in the butt :)
cheers | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 1:37:32 PM | Yeah, she's nuts.
Sounds like my exhusband's mistress - she started screaming at him in a Wal-Mart because she felt he talked to the check out clerk "too long" and also tried to leave him at an amusement park 3 hours from home (with two of his kids) because he was "looking" at other women.
Of course, he quite deserved her (walked out three weeks before our son was born because he was "tired of being a husband and a father" ... oh, and because he'd been having an affair and she was more fun then a heavily pregnant wife who worked FT and raised not only her child, but his from a previous marriage as well...).
Basically, hot is not all that when it comes in a psychotically jealous package, dear. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 2:33:52 PM | Like attracts like. Round pegs go in round holes. You are either a round peg or the hole.
Rather than advertise your 'fit', learn from it and do what need be done to become the one who attracts what he chooses - instead of what chooses him.
Do you realize what you say about yourself in your revelation about the others you link yourself to? Freedom of choice appears to be a curse to so many. Aloha. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 3:41:53 PM |
He hasn't dumped her yet becuase he's waiting to hook up with one of his online" friends" no one else see's this...read between the lines,,anytime some one uses the line I have made" male" and female friends on here,,only a guilty party would have made this a point to justify its cause. JMO
Hahahaha! I noticed that too! | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 6:35:45 PM | | I wouldn't last 10 minutes with someone like that. NO ONE controls me or tells me what to do. If this is happening so fast it's only a matter of time before you're not allowed to go out alone, have friends, etc. She has a problem and you shouldn't have to deal with it. Leave her or stand up to her and tell her to back off before it goes too far. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2007 12:56:49 AM | This person is obviously a control freak.
She can demand whatever she wants, you have to have the testicular fortitude to look her dead in the eye and say to her:
"I am not removing this person off of MSN"
"You can't have my passwords" (beware of keylogger programs, if she uses them, dump her asap)
"My profile stays, however I will change it to "In a Relationship" as opposed to "single"".
You have to set boundaries in this relationship. From your side of the story, you do not seem to be doing so. | |
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