| | My New Girlfriends Nuts!Page 8 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | | Well, personally speaking,.. if I were in a relationship, deleting accounts and not spending my time on msn with 'friends' wouldnt be a problem for me. Jeez,.. I'd be happy to be spendng time with my new BF. OP, seems to me that your GF realises that you're keeping your options open,.. and its funny to see ya'll on here getting your knickers in a twist at the thought of having to actually switch off your PC's for a while,.lololol.. yeah, someones nuts around here, bt it isnt the OP's girlfriend. If you want to carry on living your life vicariously online OP, then do your girlfriend a favour and break up with her,.. as you obviously have a bit of an internet addiction going on there. Theres a real world out there OP, you should be thankful you have found a lovely looking lady to share your time with. Ungrateful and unappreciative are two words that spring to mind when I think of your words in the original post. Miss Eyre. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 5:27:09 PM | I had the same thing happen. Bubba cut bait and just walk away. Relationships are built on trust and good times. She may be hot but she is nuts and cares nothing about respecting you and yours. Remember the looks to crap ratio, the better the looks the more crap your willing to put up with. lol You have nice guy written all over you, spend your time with someone who does not pull that kind of crap and don't waste your time. It does not pay off in the end.
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Posted: 1/23/2008 7:43:27 PM | Cleary, this behavior is not healthy. Have you ever had a healthy relationship? If you have, you would never put up with something so immature.. these actions do not show love but control. If you allow this behavior to continue, YOU will lose your own identity because she will start telling you what you can and cannot do. You are a very goodlooking guy, most girls who control just want the "trophy" and could care less about the total package" because, well, they can change him.. THIS IS NOT HEALTHY.. One word, Boundaries...
If she cares about your well being, she will not manipulate, guilt, withhold etc. She will encourage and respect you in whatever you do as well as you respect her. If you want to keep the relationship then establish boundaries explain you want your privacy respected, if the boundaries get broken then move on and find something that's healthy. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 6:29:43 AM | | Hi MaleMontrealer, I just had to respond to you about this person, your girlfriend. I am sorry to tell you but she sounds very insecure and most people like that can end up to try and control everything you do. Maybe you need to take another look at this girl. If she has to check up on everything you do. She lacks self confidence and no repect for your privacy. This is one of the most important factors I think in a relationship. You sound to me like you are getting to know her somewhat and starting to question her actions. I say dump this girl and get out fast. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. The reason I say this is because these types of personalities can never be satisfied, they always need more and more . No mater what you do, it will never be enough. You will spend most of your time in turmoil or disagreemens or arguments. Life is too short. I tend to tell things like they are. No sugar coating. This is your life. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 6:49:34 AM | I'm not reading 8 pages of this, but it did catch my eye because I thought it was another "I unknowingly went on a date with a transexual" post.
As opposed to "My new girlfriend *is* nuts." | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 7:14:22 AM | I'm not reading 8 pages of this, but it did catch my eye because I thought it was another "I unknowingly went on a date with a transsexual" post.
 I was thinking the same thing.. I was wondering why he would still refer to her as a "girlfriend" if she had nuts?...
Not the type of implants he though she was talking about! He was thinking of something he could play with.
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Posted: 1/24/2008 7:23:17 AM | | I wouldn't say she is nuts. But she has issues with insecurity and trust. She may have had problems with previous guys which could be why she is like that. I totally agree her asking for your passwords is overstepping the boundaries. No one can make your decisions for you. Good luck with whatever decision you make. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 8:37:30 AM |
Not the type of implants he though she was talking about! He was thinking of something he could play with.
LOL, yeah, right? Oh, he could play with them anyway, although she would then be a boyfriend.
They have implants for neutered dogs now, how funny would it be to install a Great Dane set in a poodle sack?  | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 8:59:07 AM | | okay shes nuts...i'm the jealous type big time but i don't go that far. i just never trust women and don't allow the bf to go to any place where flirts can be found | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 10:02:54 AM | She's got the green monster sickness, she can escalate . She has issues from past relationships ,she needs to take care of before she moves on. Be careful, that's the sign that she can or made be a woman who abuses her man...  | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 10:14:49 AM | | This should have been a no-brainer from the get-go. Once she starts demanding passwords and the ilk she ought to be in search of some other dude to domineer. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 4:55:35 PM | Do you know, by what she tells you of her past, that she is normally like this? Or maybe she doesn't really trust you. Maybe she sees you as a player, and knows that you keep a few on the side to fall back on. Only you know if this is true, I am not accusing you! But she may be in a different place than you. Maybe she feels that you are still shopping, looking for that greener grass. Maybe she is ready for more of a commitment. Just my opinion, am trying to look at her point of view. There are always two sides to things.
In fact, if she can't trust you, than maybe she should be the one to move on. You can't make a relationship work without trust. | |
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tmotts
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Posted: 1/24/2008 5:17:08 PM | You know what? I just realized this is an old post......you guys broke up didn't you? so my opinion doesn't much matter does it? Oh well!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/25/2008 2:05:36 AM | It might be reassuring to take your pics off of here. That way you would get less interest from people online. If things ended up going south it would be little effort to put them up. In the mean time thought it would be a thoughtful gesture on your part.
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Posted: 2/16/2008 2:15:25 AM | My freind dump her fast i had one likw that last year when i got up from sleep and didnt call her right away she freaked so got rid of it ,not woth the bull shit she putting you though
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Posted: 2/16/2008 7:16:33 AM | | I met a man online about 3 years ago, and after exchanging many emails and several phone conversations, we decided to meet and have dinner. We hit it off very well, but he felt the distance was an issue that he couldn't overcome and we decided mutually to no longer see each other, but remain friends. Our subsequent emails were more of a friendly than a flirty nature, exchanged 2-3 per week. Then......he informed me that he had started to date a woman that he met playing soccer, and that he couldn't communicate with me anymore because SHE was bothered by my emails. They had been seeing each other less than 6 weeks! I don't think a person you have just started to date has any right to expect you to cut yourself off from your friends! Sounds like an insecure control freak! | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 1:53:58 AM | | i read your thread with great interest my advice is tell her point blank no she isnt having your email passwords or any other for that matter i have been seeing my fella for nearly 10 weeks and we are both still on dating websites we trust each other 100 percent this lady doesnt trust you and has no respect for your privacy your computer is yours and yours alone if she cant handle the fact that you have girlfriends then she has got one big problem she is insecure might have been treated like dirt in the past but she needs to trust you if she cant do this im sorry but you need to walk away huni i was like that at first with my fella didnt want his passwords or anything like that but i learned to trust him and give him his free time to himself i realised i wanted this guy in my life and knew if i kept accusing him of seeing other women i would lose him hope i have helped you in a way xx let me know what happens if you want to thankx lisa x | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 7:12:54 AM | | If you honestly need to be told to walk away from this lunatic then I guess you deserve each other.... | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 11:13:10 AM | | Sounds like my ex, if it is all I can say is RUN. Run fast and far and do not look back! | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 11:23:40 AM | dude, your new gf has nuts?
are you the****she's looking for?
OK seriously, if you're happy with her, then the price you pay for her isn't that big a deal. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 2:15:14 AM | Pretty sure that the OP is long gone, and that his "new girlfriend" was also history by the time he made his initial post.
Absolutely no one I date is going to get my passwords. People who write email to me have a right to expect that I'm the only person who's going to be reading it. Just one example, when my older brother first went away to college our dad was pretty anxious about that and wanted access to my email so he would be able to see all the correspondence. If I'm not going to let my dad read private and personal emails from my brother, then a girlfriend certainly isn't going to get that right. If she doesn't trust me, she can take a walk. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 3:05:42 AM | | Wowza... I can understand when you discuss exclusivity... making sure there are no active profiles available... but, wanting passwords and e-mail info... as well as deleting people from MSN... is a bit over top! At some point you have to have trust.... Do you get all her information as well? Because when someone is OVERBOARD I always wonder if it's because they are doing what they are complaining about or worried about! | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:43:15 AM | | I get the password thingy, not cool ,but O.P.you are obviously still on a dating site, this one, oh wait its just the forums my bad, | |
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