| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/4/2009 1:19:38 PM | Again, though...I don't think I or anyone else here is referring to being sexy, naughty, horny, etc... a being inherently bad (as in evil, wrong, abnormal.)
It is a term used by both sexes to describe folks who are say more flirtatious, open or promiscuous.
A "Bad boy" does not mean the guy is wrong, but one who maybe does sleep around a bit more or flirts more than others.
It is interesting to note that by and large, most women (in my opinion) view this thread/subject a lot differently than men. The social stigmas and stereotypes are still out there for sure, some right, some wrong. Interesting how perspective really does mean everything!  | |
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Pete 9
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/21/2009 12:20:50 PM | This is gonna be lame and generic, crucify me if you will. I like a lady in the sheets and a freek in the sheets. Hopefully not a banshee, you can and will get evicted for noise complaints, I swear, 'happened to me. 
<div class='quote'> The truth, most guys like other guys,
Errnmm, ecxuse me but, your nylons are runny .. sir..? But as speaking for the world of straight oriented individuals, most guys like girls, every now and again you find out some bloke or a friend is gay or whatnot, but it still a minority not a majority. Just cuz I was feeling a little randy I wouldn't get Andy my handy buddy to blow me. AIN'T happnin. | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/21/2009 12:44:06 PM | For me, it's simple. I want a sweet and innocent girl in public. A Lady. But one that can be and likes to be naughty at appropriate times and places.
Who says one woman can't be both? | |
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2run
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/21/2009 12:47:49 PM |
I've always wondered what guys like best. Do they like the sweet, innocent, shy, white lingerie kinda girls? Or do they like the dominant, naughty, rough, black lingerie girls? So far in my life I've noticed that most guys prefer the cute, shy, timid girls and I was hoping you guys could give me some insight on this.
A lady in the street but a freak in the bed!
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/21/2009 2:18:56 PM | I think the more confident a guy is the better he can handle the naughty girls.
Sweet and innocent can become old and boring really fast if the woman keeps up the pretense for too long. Insecure guys may need that to feel safe.
Personally I don't care for women who try to be dominate (just my preference), but I like a woman to be open sexually. Don't pretend to be a 40 YO virgin.
Instead embrace your sexuality and let's make it incredible for each other. Forget the double standard and show me what you like.
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EST74
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:25:56 AM | Sweet an' innocent on the outside and naughty on the inside 
Yeah, that's a damn good combination. This woman I was with a while back, was VERY, VERY shy when I met her. She never even had the courage to speak to me, let alone look at me. Anyway, when I had to take direct measures to begin a relationship with her, she was the dirtiest minx I have ever been with. The things we did in bed were beyond the pale LOL!
It's really true what they say about the shy ones... They're the best ones in bed!  | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 5:58:52 PM | I think that most men would like a girl who like to be the way she is no matter if she's innocent or naughty..... I think us girls have our days when we dress to how we feel. We can be innocent as you guys put it and not wear reviling cloths when we are out in public or not grab you in ways that would make people stop and look.
But then there are days when we just want to let our hair down and see if we are getting the attention and see what happens... It's human nature for women to see if they still have it..
There are men out there that would like there girl to be the type of girl they would take out to there parents... lol But deep down inside they would like them to push them into the closet and show them that no matter if mommy or daddy likes them , they will want to enjoy what goes on behind close doors..
So i think it's both... Besides i think innocent is just a sweeter way to say naughty.... We girls can be innocent when we want a guy to seek us out and if we want to be the one with the upper hand then we'll do the seeking...  
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I like the guys profiles that ask for a girl if she's a jean and t-shirt girl... lol and then when you are talking to them they ask if she looks good in high heals..... and a short dress.... | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 6:44:40 PM |
If it's the "normal" condition of women to be a "freaks in the sheets", then why are so many men looking for one? Sexual open-mindedness is not the normal state of most women. Should it be? I don't know. How many men could handle it anyway? If you can't find a girl who is freaky in the bedroom you can blame the name calling that goes along with it. It seems to me that (some) men want the good girl so he can make her into a bad girl and then get rid of her because she is used up..
Then what??? No guy wants her because she is bad now??? Or they get a girl who is a bit freaky in the bedroom and give her the third degree about how she got that freaky and get rid of her because she is too experienced.
men seem to want the naughty, dirty girl in the bedroom but then often will look down on the woman for giving them this. It feeds their 'animal desire' and fantasies, but there's still an oppression about women being sexual. So they go for the good girl and then complain for the rest of their lives that the sex is really boring or they don't get any sex at all because their "good girl" never really liked it anyway.
Thank heavens i'm not a man.. I'd hate to be that confused... | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:44:00 PM | I like a little of both. 50% sweet and innocent ....50% dominant and naughty.
Some guys like the cute shy,, timid girls becaue they are easier to train and control.
Turning her into a total nympho whore wouldn't even be a challenge. LOL | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 9:29:36 PM | Ahh yes of course, almost too good to be true. Thought i had finally read through a post without sexist/sterotypical BS. UNTIL...i got to message 88. So not wearing any panties makes a woman a "tramp".?? And you are going to judge someone for the way they dress. I can understand if going to church, to meet the parents or a professional event, but there is nothing wrong with showing some clevage, legs, or mid-section from time to time. You remind me of one of those type of men with low self-esteem that is extremely controlling and jealous with your girlfriend while bangin and looking at everything that walks, but expecting her to demonstrate angelic like behavior and dress in full body armor....or she is a tramp or possibly a whore or slut. Maybe even a hooker bc she is proud of the way she looks and likes dressing sexy. I like to look good for my man and myself. My type of guy is proud to walk by my sexy azz knowing i am all his. Judging by your message, i would say you come off as a total hookerish tramp! . Put some clothes on boy. And make sure when you and your lady go to the beach or swimming, you bring a scuba suit so she will be fully coverd. We wouldn't want anyone seeing her in a bikini, which is bascially like a panties and bra. But dam , the scub suit is a little too tight. What a slut! ~PS. Class has very little to do with the way someone dresses. Thats superficial. More emphasis should be placed on actions and character! Designer clothers doesn't make someone classy!!!!!!! The clothes don't make me, I make the clothes  | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/1/2009 10:47:16 PM | You know, that smoulderin' bespeckled, hair in a bun, librarian look will get me every time. A little sugar and spice is always nice.
But then I bought, on a lark, for my son's mom (back in the day), " The good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex." IT did not go over very well. Need less to say, I never did get that "bad girl sex" I was fantasizing about.
TK
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/2/2009 1:29:40 PM |
It would seem the author of the above quote has some issues that touch upon this topic because it’s somewhat recurring in several posts I’ve read in the forums. Sorry that these thoughts are part of her life but it doesn’t speak for a large number of women—at least the ones I’ve known or talk with about such things. Thanks for your concern Red Buttons lol. But rest assured, my issues are with the double standard that goes along with being a sexually adventurous women. Not with being adventurous myself.
Maybe one day the right person will help work through that with her and she too will be a proud freaky girl with tons of confidence and discretion too! Already got the right person... And he thinks he's died and gone to heaven. Nothing wrong with my confidence and freakability. Evil grin | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:01:24 AM | Everyone wants someone that can respect, them and who can be sweet but who can have a naughty side now and then.
Meaning naughtiness in the bed sheets, or that she's a fun person or she can have a sense of humor that isn't always innocent.
I don't think anyone really wan'ts someone thats naughty all the time. Just naughty when it's appropiate. | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:12:36 AM | One thing though I think we're still too trapped with the Sexual charicteristics are Naughty way of thinking in society.
I guess that makes it sound more exciting because it implies being sexual is daring. Yet it very clearly seems to come from the old way of thinking in some ways.
Ahh, religion, what you've done to the perception of the natural behaviour of human beings.
Im not saying that there probably weren't strict rules to sexual behaviour before Christianity and other religions but I can't help but wonder if we we're less inclined to view it as bad or naughty.
It's like nakedness if everyone was naked we would make less of a big deal about it. | |
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| Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/3/2009 7:39:11 AM | | Yes, depends on the mood! The important thing is hygiene! Cute, shy and timid makes men feel strong, protective, and worldy as well as horny. Naughty is more for just horny | |
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