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pixiez
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Joined: 4/13/2007
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daiwa
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Joined: 3/10/2007
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 6:50:41 AM | I miss the cuddles too but most of all I miss the "walk up behind you and grab you around the waist hugs" the ones that you aren't expecting but let you know that someone really loves you and makes you feel all wierd inside! Thats what I miss the most! | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:14:04 AM | | OP, I don't know why anyone would miss 'blazing rows' regardless of the sex that followed...I'd prefer to have that type of sex without the rows. Sounds to me like there was more missing in her relationship than just so-so sex. As for me, the main thing I miss, besdies the hugging, kissing and spooning, is the stimulating intelligent conversation. | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:30:43 AM | I miss having someone special to wrap my arms around and hold close to get a nice special hug!
I miss the cuddling and the warm fuzzy feeling of sharing body warmth while watching a movie.
I miss having the intimacy of touch, holding hands, rubbing feet, back rubs... | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:41:17 AM | -The look you give each other that goes beyond just "the look" but deeper inside where you "just know".
-The chemistry and feeding off each other where you just know what the other is thinking or wants or desires, it's just natural without effort.
-The waking up beside her holding her close feeling her breathing, in peace, the comfort of your embrace holding her near.
-The chance to make her laugh all the time, make her smile to show off the beautiful smile she is blessed with.
-Someone to come home to, where her eyes are the first thing you see after a long day of work making the night ahead ever more attractive always.
-The teasing and flirting all the time, knowing that she caught me for good, but doesn't let up trying to flirt and tease and impress me, knowing she will get the same right back, it is so fun!
-The pleasure of going out as a couple and looking like a knockout couple and having the pleasure of getting to see her dressed up just for me and be able to compliment her all night and drive her crazy with it.
-The chance to help her in need when she is sick and stay home and take care of her and make her breakfast in bed and tend to her needs to help her feel better.
-The chance to tell her every day how much you care about her, and having the chance all the time to show it in your own special little ways.
-Having someone who I can call up during the day just to tell her I am thinking about her and I miss her. (Just because you have someone doesn’t mean you stop missing them)
-The trust of knowing you will be there for each other through thick and thin, for better or worse, and it not have to just be something you say at the alter.
-Someone to explore life with, the pleasure, the experiences, the ups and the downs.
-Someone to have there in time of need, or emotional need, to just be the shoulder you need to lean on, and she’s there for you.
-Someone who will tease you with every part of her sexiness and flirtiness, and tantalize you, knowing I will give the same back, and just feed of each other and have amazing nights everywhere, anywhere, and even between the sheets, knowing you are the man she wants nothing more but to drive crazy and knowing she can push those amazing buttons of mine.
I could go on and on and on, but I don’t want to give it all away….I will continue wishing… | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:58:21 AM | | There is so much that makes relationships great. Waking up alone is something I miss, sex, romance, but the think I miss most is having someone there who knows everything about me, and taking care of each other and just being there for each other is what I miss the most. | |
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| There are a few things...and I've noticed them recently...
Posted: 5/21/2007 9:20:07 AM | 1) Waking up with someone - No (real) shortage of people to go to bed with (well...have sex with)...real shortage of people I want to wake up with. Or...you meet someone and their life circumstances prevent it...they just can't stay overnight. I miss waking up with someone I care for / about and planning a day with them in bed.
2) Spending quality time doing "nothing" - You have to be fairly far along with someone to do this, you know? Again...it seems easier to find booty buddies than it is to find someone who is prepared to spend hours of their DAY with you...and you like them enough to want to do exactly that and nothing else.
3) Someone to share your thoughts with without (a great deal of) analysis or hesitation - When you are in a new "relationship" you find yourself editing your thoughts and words, as you don't know how the other person will react, and do not want to offend. Man...that is effort....LOL. Much better to be around someone you can be yourself with...and know that even if you say something they disagree with, it will not determine the future or your friendship / relationship...
That has been my experience so far... | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 9:23:24 AM | …hard to narrow it down, there’s so much… being known and understood, sharing the experience of one’s life. But I get some of that from friends. I’d say skin contact, body contact, touching, physical affection… it’s hard to get enough of that as a single person, even as a parent. Yes, I’d say it’s touch.
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 9:30:37 AM | Having someone to laugh with...Someone who knows me well enough to know when I'm teasing and when I'm not....Having someone around who accepts me for me...Having someone who enjoys the things I do...and who can introduce me to the things that HE enjoys doing.
I really think we all pretty much miss the same things  | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 11:10:20 AM | ~ Doing something special just for them, that lights up their face when they realize you did it
~ Relating is an ongoing process..waking up to them, little notes or calls throughout the day,
making plans together, traveling together, finding places off he beaten path and these discoveries become "yours" together.
~ Knowing that whether you have a bad day or awesome day, that your experiences matter to someone else. He genuinely cares and with one smile makes you forget everything bad, and with a kiss, your heart skyrockets.
~ Not being able to tell him how much he matters and how he has positively affected me.
~ Miss the inspiration he brings. I love men who bring out the best in you and inspire you by example. I have one great male friend like this- but would love this quality in a boyfriend.
~ Not having his hand to hold, whether it be a crowed restaurant over dinner, the movies,
or quietly sitting, watching a sunset and knowing what the other is thinking.
~ His thoughtfulness, with little and bigger gestures. From a single flower, to a card, to a stronger expression, that reveals depth and growth in our relationship.
~ Monogamy in heart and mind. The anticipation of love, not just sex with a partner,
that evolves as you grow as a couple. Relationships are not just sex, the are the results of great chemistry, with great sex as the bonus.
Donna | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 11:29:27 AM | | the one thing I would say that I miss the most is knowing that you have a partner in crime......having someone that totally understands you without explaination is awsome... | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you were single
Posted: 5/21/2007 11:31:39 AM | ^^^^^^^
SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can you say that a little louder please? 
And... if it's just sex you want, and not making love and intimacy, I'm sure there's lots and lots of fellows here who'd be happy to take care of that for you!  | |
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| The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 5/21/2007 12:49:40 PM | | I hear you,,,seems kind of empty,,,no matter how busy you keep yourself! You can fill your life with empty plans,,,but so much better to have someone to fill them with you. A kiss, a look, a smile, a talk,, watching a movie together snuggled on the couch,,,ahhhhhh,,,,,, | |
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