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 sandy46blueyes

Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 26
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Unethical Proposal
Posted: 5/22/2007 2:21:52 PM
Absolutely not, just the issue of not being attracted is enough, but for him to offer you money is downright insulting. If he had asked without the money thing at least you could have a laugh together, well it was worth a try. It would not matter how much he had to offer the answer would be no, no, no....

Sandy:)
 vakarazz

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/22/2007 2:28:23 PM
What would you do if you were set up on a blind dinner date, you never seen each other prior to the date. When you meet you see right away that you are not attracted at all to this person but being a nice person that you are you stay and have dinner with this person. During the dinner you mention that you really think that there is no future between the two of you. After the dinner your date mentions that they haven't had sex in a long time and would still love to have sex with you even though there was no chance of a relationship and offers you money to sleep with them. They ask you to name your price. Would you sleep with someone that you are not attracted too for money? and if so how much would you ask for?


now if i was desperate i would probably do it for free.
i've had sex with girls i have not been attracted too. girls that im normally attracted to never approach me and all so i never get a chance to get frisky with beautiful girls.
so i take what i can get, and most of the times i've had sex with girls ive had no attraction too.
so, yes, i would have sex with a blind date i was not attracted to if she offered me money.

but hey if they offered me money, even better!
 Arugula

Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/22/2007 2:41:37 PM

As long as the persons all woman, not over a certain age and not to battered, im sure i could soildor my way through the experience.


at mrskeme745!! I'm sure I could too. I'd make sure I had the money deposited and verified ahead of time too. Everyone has a price. Some people just like to pretend they don't. Wasn't it Demi Moore who did this in a movie?
 Hires

Joined: 5/14/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/23/2007 1:24:33 PM
You know you can't read a book by its cover, however the no one reads those thick books with no pictures
 BadMonkeyFinger

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/23/2007 1:55:27 PM

come on now!!! sex is a good old time! we all do it with guys were dating for free (there is an exchange- dinner/companionship/ presents= for sex)....why not for money....LOL i totally should get into escorting...anyways is JUST sex, i guess for those of us that can separate love and sex its easier....


Woah. Just as i suspected. Sex is taken FAR too lightly these days. No wonder std's et al are running rampant.

gotta say...this response made me go 'ewwwww'. And I'm a GUY, even! haha
 jeepgurl82

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/23/2007 1:59:43 PM
Ok, I have to say. I being a girl can differentiate the difference in sex and love. Which surprises most people I know. BUT, I just b/c someone can do that, doesnt mean that they should lower their standards to sleeping with anyone just to make their numbers higher, money, pity, etc.
 rdy2dt

Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/24/2007 12:54:03 AM
So in your beliefs money is a short term encounter,and a credit card is worth a life long commitment....
They both seem unethical to me..
 lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/24/2007 4:49:16 AM
Would you sleep with someone that you are not attracted too for money?

Nope not for any amount,cus you cant buy this.
 curlygrl

Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 5/24/2007 1:36:34 PM
Sleep with someone for money -

Okay I am not going to be moral Vivian here or ethical -
If the price is right - I will negotiate - lets just say - never say never.
Everyone has a price. And the seperation between sex and love is large-
 Mainegrad

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/1/2007 5:30:14 PM
I'm sure plenty have slept with those they would not normally be attracted to for free. IT'S called BEER GOGGLING!
 Ender

Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/1/2007 6:21:09 PM
I'd totally sleep with someone I wasn't attracted too for money. Depending on how drunk I was I might do it for free.
 Crane Man

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 6/1/2007 7:34:38 PM
Funny thing is, I'd be willing to bet that this happens more often than we think it would. I was once told the Engagement ring was a downpayment on a long term debt!
Needless to say I had a good laugh.
 HulaZombie

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/1/2007 7:48:34 PM
lol, I'm sure I have my price. It would differ depending on the guy, I'm sure.

A friend of mine jokingly asked me once how much I would charge for him. We settled on $300, but that was the friend discount ;)
 Rev.italianviper

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/1/2007 11:24:23 PM
cant be bought, isnt but one reason to be intimate, and money isnt it.
 jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/2/2007 9:03:11 AM
i've had sex with girls i have not been attracted too. so i take what i can get, and most of the times i've had sex with girls ive had no attraction too. so, yes, i would have sex with a blind date i was not attracted to if she offered me money.

WOW, I'm very confused. Since this user said he had never been on a date (ever) in his whole life..... but now he says he's had sex with random girls?
oooooooookay....... did you have to pay them???? If so, they were called escorts or you've found the jackpot in random casual sex.

Either way, kinda strange.
 messalina21

Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/4/2007 6:08:10 AM
I can't believe the amount of people saying they wouldn't sleep with someone for any amount of money. In a real life situation, with someone offering you enough money.....be it enough for a new car, a house, financial security for yourself, and your children or family I believe everyone has their price. I know I do. I'd definately sleep with someone for money, how much would depend on the situation and the person making the offer. I don't believe my body and my mind have to be in the same place at the same time.
 SapphyreSkye

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/4/2007 6:14:36 AM
Nope. Too weird !! I'd be wondering what other kinds of things they'd be willing to do or want to try, should they persuade you to place yourself in a vulnerable situation.
 stay.bamboocha

Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/4/2007 6:22:34 AM
is there such thing as a male escort service? i could use the quick cash.. a lay here, a lay there and i've got enough to buy a new car :)
 lisalushbabe

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 6/4/2007 6:34:26 AM
Yes, would definitely consider it. I can't really see what the issue is here.... Afterall a lot of women are having sex with guys so that their mortgage gets paid. Whats the difference? At least its an upfront, honest transaction!
 Texican940

Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/4/2007 10:30:23 AM
I don't see myself being in that situation, however to play your hypothetical, I'd be an honorable man and tell them to wait for someone they care about. Or you can trade your self respect for whoredom and a few bucks, your call.
 jst_a_mskgn_grl

Joined: 5/14/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 6/5/2007 6:08:38 AM
Am I desperate?
 januaryrain

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 6/5/2007 6:31:01 AM
I think most people have a price, just haven't found anybody that could afford mine.
I guess the answer would be depends on the amount, but it would have to be a life changing amount as sleeping with someone for money would be life changing for me.
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