| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:59:30 PM | James man no offense but you sound kind of like a narcassistic azz. Why do you assume that response was in direct relation to what you said in the context that you said it? What you said has been quoted a few times in this thread with some really negative responses. How do you know she wasn't responding to those things? Maybe you're the kind of guy who thinks everything is about him.
Is is ignorant to defend oneself when they are feeling attacked or is it ignorant to demean someone for defending themselves?
The only epic idiot here is the one you see when you look in the mirror. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:08:14 PM | Why do you assume that response was in direct relation to what you said in the context that you said it?
I'm just shaking my head at this. Wow. Like, what does it even mean. What context did timegoes take my post out of? She quoted my entire post word for word. There was no misunderstanding here - she claimed that I said things that I quite obviously didn't. Lord.
What you said has been quoted a few times in this thread with some really negative responses.
uglybetty (msg 290) and Sardonis (msg 292) are the only other people who've quoted what I said, and I didn't see any negative responses aside from timegoes's post. This tells me that you made up what you said here, which in turn tells me that you're a moron.
You've managed to sink below the already low expectations I had for you.
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:49:14 PM |
pay attention to the beautiful late teens / early 20's girls and just copy the lifeless facial expressions of utter disgust and boredom that they wear like a badge of honor.
1. I never said beautiful girls always look bored, lifeless or bitçhy.
hmmmmmmmmm... yep you're a moron. With intelligence like this I'm amazed you're still single. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:44:49 AM | timegoes, msg 306:
pay attention to the beautiful late teens / early 20's girls and just copy the lifeless facial expressions of utter disgust and boredom that they wear like a badge of honor.
1. I never said beautiful girls always look bored, lifeless or bitçhy.
Good god. I can picture you, sitting there with your arms crossed, all in a huff and thinking "man, this'll show that jerk on pof!" But in reality all you've proven is your own stupidity. As you've just shown, I never used the word "always" in my post. Anyone can see that I didn't, clear as day. You pulled that one out of your ass when you were projecting your own bitterness.
Seriously, you're actually much dumber then I thought. I wasn't expecting this much mental retardation. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/9/2008 8:49:05 AM | | I don't know that I'm "all that" but I think guys figure I must be married/taken because I am pretty. (I'm Indonesian, so I'm "exotic") I rarely, rarely get approached for dates. That's why I'm on POF because at least this way guys know I'm available. I try to be approachable with my body language; I'm very outgoing too. Any advice would be helpful! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:08:16 PM |
I also didn't read anymore of your response beyond what I quoted because I can only assume that the rest of it is just as ignorant and idiotic.
LOL
so far speaking of ignorant...
I'm just shaking my head at this. Wow. Like, what does it even mean. What context did timegoes take my post out of? She quoted my entire post word for word. There was no misunderstanding here - she claimed that I said things that I quite obviously didn't. Lord.
Well, she asked you "right" even putting a question mark at the end just to be reassured that she got you right. Someone who really claims something wouldn't ask you back that way.
Can't help but it looks you're trying to make your problem hers.
timegoes only picked up what you wrote and gave people a different view at it. All she said was not to generalize something.
When reading your post I also thought you never really know what's on someones mind causing facial expressions, ...unless you ask. From what I noticed... this doesn't only count for beautiful ones (and I am aware of you didn't say that nor do I claim you did). I don't deny someones experiences but I can't really see a link here. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/9/2008 6:04:44 PM | restlessmind, msg 311:
LOL
so far speaking of ignorant...
I definitely prefer to be "ignorant" of the mindless yammerings of retards.
Well, she asked you "right" even putting a question mark at the end just to be reassured that she got you right.
Nope. Hers was clearly a rhetorical question.
>Someone who really claims something wouldn't ask you back that way.
They would if they were asking a rhetorical question, which she clearly was.
All she said was not to generalize something.
And I didn't, so why the hell is she telling me not to? Oh right, cuz she's projecting! | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:17:17 PM | | Men tell me all the time they are intimidated by me. Either by my personality,bluntness,or looks! I say no one should intimidate u! U should always try to reach for what u want. If u don't get it oh well at least u tryed. U have a 50/50 chance. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 10:19:18 PM | I INTIMIDATE MEN!!!!! There.. I've said it...  But it's even funnier to see men run at the sight of a pic... which BTW you can't see the BIG posterior following that Chester Cheetah smile!!!  What noone can see is my insides, and when I do find the zipper, I will show you... Funny enough, because of that so called intimidating "pic", they just say "aaawww heck with it I don't stand a chance". Am I full of myself to think I'm all that? Not one bit! I worked hard to be who I am today. At least I get up in the morning knowing someone loves me! That is more than alot of people can say! So if you think you don't stand a chance, that simply tells me you are insecure. You will have to work on that. AND YES... I've been on here on and off for the past 3 years and I've only met 3 men... what does that tell ya! There loss... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/10/2008 10:29:03 PM | I've never had an issue like that.
The worst that can happen is that whoever someone wants to get to know will say they are not interested, although, hopefully, politely.
The old standard, you have to be in it to win it, so to speak.
And if someone that might really be right for you isn't interested, then it's their loss - not yours.
Just IMHO. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 1:02:29 AM | hazeldreaming, you said--
"One gentleman that I see regularly points out the glares and stares. I used to catch glimpses, but had no idea how much worse it was than I thought til he came along. My ex was intimidated and wouldn't discuss it."
now, that's a phenonomon i can relate to! people--men and women--stare at me whever i go. seems like it's always been this way...i rarely say anything, to my friends, to the rude people staring. i don't know why, & i refuse to take the time out to figure it out. the one time i had mentioned this to a friend--i don't like to go there b/c i get too many stares--a month or so later, we're walking from school to a restaurant & he says--i thought you were exaggerating about the stares, but you're not, people just look at you all day long! which, made me feel worse, actually. kinda like, if it was made up in my head, then it's okay...what kind of convoluted logic is that?
regardless, any time i stare at a beautiful man, or woman, i will them why. i'm sorry, i just can't help it--you're gorgeous! and, they usually forgive me. so, pardon me while i stare, hazeldreaming... | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 4:16:37 AM | mid1foru, good post but this made me smile...
they just say "aaawww heck with it I don't stand a chance". Am I full of myself to think I'm all that? Not one bit! I worked hard to be who I am today.
ummm... what did you mean? Which way was it before?
Well, sometimes peoples personality let them appear more beautiful than the look ever can be. They can flood a room with their aura people like to be in and you get captured by their smile, their way to talk, simply the way how they are. And it's really like this... the look may fade over the years but this kind of beauty really has a chance to stand the years and it is the most appealing to me.
@singer_james:
Well, especially as a rhetorical question it is a way to make people (not only you) aware of something that you didn't point out in your post. Rhetorical questions usually pick up a general issue to reflect, so she did! She never claimed that YOU meant something...
Once you wrote
I not only appreciate bluntness, I demand it.
...hmmmm... big words... you're still with that?
And I didn't, so why the hell is she telling me not to? Oh right, cuz she's projecting!
Did she? To YOU? I don't see that. She put a general topic on the spot (still referring to msg #302) giving people some more insights, talking to ALL not only you, also because this is a forum.
Funny that you gave this example of projection...
Misunderstandings happen. Why not asking back instead of getting upset to make the best of it? You don't have to be friends but it's a way to find some. ....just a random thought.... | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 6:45:49 AM | aaaawwww... restless.... that is so sweet... People tell me that everytime...and that is why I don't fret about what people think. I'm easy to get along with, but the getting to know me part is the hardest. People that juge others simply based on looks need to take a step back and really think... I for one need to know a person because ya know... looks can be decieving | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/11/2008 6:48:31 AM | And if someone that might really be right for you isn't interested, then it's their loss - not yours.
This is a great way to move on from an alleged "rejection", but it's simply not true. Someone who you're not interested in and don't know isn't a loss for you at all. It's no one's "loss", it's just dating odds, and part of the process. Some people won't like you back, and aren't going to give it much of a thought, because no wrong has been done.
But if it helps the person who was interested get past it quicker, then it's useful...even if not true. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/11/2008 9:25:48 AM | | If one human being cant approach another human being then the problem is intimidation and is centered between the ears of the one who's afraid. Ask her out!!...I'm sure there are worse things in life than hearing the word no. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/11/2008 12:31:51 PM | ok......I am average, from a large family, and down-to-earth...the only reason I am
on this thread is because I have been really discouraged on weekends (kids older and off)...guys write me a lot on here but hardly anyone follows
through for a date --- O R ---they set it up and cancel out at the last minute...this is
like A L L the time....we go out dancing with friends and girls will come up to me and tell me how I dance good or their boyfriend thinks I'm hot...yada yada yada but I sit
through like EVERY slow dance....my friends say people are intimidated and that makes NO SENSE AT ALL....I just read a thread on how women have it so much better
on here, but that is not true....it is like it has always been ---the men hold the cards ;(
...lol and COL (crying out loud)...;) | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/11/2008 4:52:36 PM |
But if it helps the person who was interested get past it quicker, then it's useful...even if not true.
I agree with this. Even if the reasons for the rejection can be criticized, I always thought the logic behind 'it's her loss' was flawed. It's a psychological trick in order to not feel disappointed and saddened about the rejection. Maybe it is 'her loss' but that doesn't make it any easier unless there was no emotional investment in the interest in the first place.
It might be part of a process, of dating odds, but I think it's acceptable to *feel something* about the rejection. If not, we would all just be unemotional, cold robots moving from person to person and the indifference would make us less human, imho. What do I know, though. Where's the 'shrugging guy' emoticon?!? Argh.... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/11/2008 9:39:28 PM | | A woman wouldn't be "too attractive" for me to approach. What's attractive to me could be average to another man. Approaching an "average looking" woman doesn't necessary improve my chances of her being interested in me. She could be interested in men that look much different than I do. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2008 7:01:47 PM | you should never go by looks, i know looks is what attracts people to one another but you should always approach someone if truly interested....by their personality or smile.....go for what interests you...regardless of the answer you may receive...who knows...maybe it'll be a good one... | |
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Posted: 5/26/2008 9:30:19 PM |
now, that's a phenomenon i can relate to! people--men and women--stare at me wherever i go. seems like it's always been this way...i rarely say anything, to my friends, to the rude people staring.[\quote]
janedoh, there may be something else going on in your case, besides being a beautiful woman. It seems to me you have one of those 'familiar' faces ... that everyone might remember someone who looks a bit like you from their high school or college, and part of the staring might be them thinking, "Do I know her? What was her name? What if she says Hi and I don't remember her?" and so on. Just my .02 | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2008 9:58:35 PM | Sounds like a personal problem.
Self esteem maybe?
There isnt a woman on the planet I would be intimidated by.
I dont care how good looking she is.
Im pretty outgoing socially, confident... Shes only human and Id probably dazzle the pants off her in no time flat.
Its not how good a woman looks I'd be intimidated by.
Theres only one thing that intimidates me about women.
Im 6 ft tall.
If i see someone I have to look up to just to speak to them, and its not just women its everybody... Im makin sure I know what Im talking about before I start talking to em just so Im not feeling smaller lol.
Not sure what they call that.
I just found the question funny sorry.
Im gonna mosey on now. | |
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