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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/22/2008 8:16:36 PM | You know I've been told that's the reason people don't ask me out, but honestly I've never seen it that way. Just say "Hi" it's that simple. either she snub's you & wasn't worth talking to anyway's if she's rude like that or she say "Hi" back to you & then you can start talking about whatever come's to mind. Nothing ventured, Nothing gained. The worst to come from it is that you still don't know the lady of your interest, but the Best is that you just might get what you want- the girl.  | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/22/2008 9:42:20 PM | | Hmmm.........I'm usually a bit slow to notice if a man is hitting on me....unless he makes it so obvious even someone like me can't help but notice it. With barely noticing my surroundings, I couldn't begin to tell you whether or not your looks are having an effect! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 12:20:04 AM | Dude, they put their pants on every morning just like we do, just like cops do, etc...
If you can't deal with pretty women or cops without realizing there's something wrong with the ones of both groups who judge you for how you put your pants on yourself, chances are damn good that you need to go ahead and revise how you put your pants on, know whut I mean, Vern?
I'm just sayin'...
-damoN- | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 12:24:31 AM | I usually get to know someone first and then I can see the beauty in that person or not.............LOL
Vancer you are cute and I would imagine that you would be too snobby to talk to. SO there you go. We all think in a certain way that the person we like won't like us. If that made any sense. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 12:37:23 AM | A......sensitive issue. If a beautiful or attractive person possessed a great deal of
vanity; then it could very possibly make another feel intimidated .
Yet we must remember that vanity is an issue of a hidden wounded ego,
Not all attractive people are vain 
But always remember abeautiful person inside is always beautiful on the outside!
your sensitivity to the issue is purely a superficial approach. If you reach deeper
within your own self, you will see the beauty inside someone....first. before
shying away from the outside. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 6:32:01 AM | Ya know, it's odd.....but we're ALL made up of the same biological material....so.....what the hell, why not? Approach them.
Maybe not though......is a moose the same biological material too? I think I just put my feet in my mouth. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 6:50:59 AM | See I'm horrifically shy if I meet a girl who's absolutely wonderful in my eyes. There was one time I met this awesome girl. We have the same interests and everything, minus a couple of differences (she's a sports nut, but I have no problem with that) and by the time I got the guts to ask her out she was already scheduled for a date with another guy and now we're just friends.
I always get stuck in the "friend" bin. lol. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 7:58:25 AM | I've dated two women who are "10s" by any measure.
The problem is a stunningly beautiful woman doesn't just wake up one day and is beautiful...she's probly use to being treated special because people have treated her that way her entire life. I don't approach "10s" anymore because its just not worth the effort even if you do get the date. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 8:33:01 AM | | Most beautiful women's heads are so blown up where they KNOW they can get any man they want. Men put them on such high pedestals and as a result, they become stuck up and full of themselves. So I can see where it's a waste of time....they will not give most men the time of day. It's their world and men mere squirrels trying to get a nut.....so I've been told! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 8:43:03 AM | That's a good question..I often wonder. I get added to favorites but not asked out. I sure hope not thought. I love getting messages but in the real world, I get a lot of stares but not approached..I sometimes am left wondering if my shirt was on backward or toilet paper on my shoe..
Life is short, when I see a really handsome man I do let him know it..Sitting around 'what-ifing' certainly isn't my style. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 9:04:08 AM | Maybe you have features that she thinks are beautiful, like your eyes for instance. A kind demeanour is hard to overlook.
No doubt a good looking woman has her share of dates with good looking guys. You have to admit they have a lot going for them, having both a good dose of confidence and pride. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 9:22:54 AM | | Pure nonesense as beautiful people have nothing to prove and are secure and therefore very nice and have great manners and compassion Only an ugly person has to prove they are worthy. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 5:29:59 PM | | More than not, beauty usually only suggests skin deep. They've been spoiled and had so much attention, they figure they're above others or entitled. That is the extreme case but it's quite common. At the other end, many feel like they if they do a few good things, they're a good person and oblivious to anything else. Many beautiful people think they're not taken seriously but go right back to a superficial mentality. When is this ever wrong or applicable? Rarely. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 5:43:42 PM | Walk upto her and fart!!!!!!!!!
That will give all the information that you need!
Does she giggle? Or does she give you this horrified look???
Makes it black and white whether or not it's safe to proceed!
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 6:37:24 PM | Well, I can tell you that I've been intimidated from approaching certain men, even if they show an interest....but its changing now....this website has made me stronger and my skin is thicker from experiencing rejection...(red heads....so deeply sensitive...lol)
Friends of mine have emailed me and told me to look on Craigslist "Missed Connections", and said some guy posted an ad about a girl who fit my description..
I was skeptical, til I read the ad... I was exactly at the location, on the date and time posted in the ad...I remember the guy....I remember thinking how gorgeous he was....we traded smiles a few times and even greetings, but my heart was beating so fast, I couldnt even look at him anymore and got into my car and sped away...I know how lame....anyway, we got together, through CL, but he had the spiritual depth of a
thimble it seemed...and a certain topic kept coming up.....hmmm, what could that be??
IF YOU'VE NEVER READ CRAIGSLIST MISSED CONNECTIONS...CHECK IT OUT...FILLED WITH REGRET AT NOT APPROACHING SOMEONE... DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE. DO YOU WANT TO LOOK BACK 20 YEARS FROM NOW AND WONDER WHAT IF???? TAKE A CHANCE FOLKS!!! (she steps off the soapbox)
Im not all that and this town is full of gorgeous women, but from my experience, the men who approach me the hardest, are the ones I'm not interested in...but I ALWAYS thank them for their compliments....I know it takes guts to approach someone in real life....and I know what it feels like to be shot down...so Im never rude...just remember, guys...if a woman says "thank you, but Im sorry, Im not interested"...be cool about it and walk away gracefully....trying to convince her after that is just embarrassing.
(The same goes for online dating.)
the ones Im very interested in, smile and stare from a distance...but don't usually approach!! When out with these guys, they tell me they usually get approached by women....so.....
I've actually practiced with a girlfriend of mine, approaching males with all kinds of silly reasons to break the ice.....
To me, its often scarier than surfing big waves....but its part of being human...I think we all can benefit from experiencing rejection, handling it gracefully and not taking ourselves so seriously....that's why I like this site...its practice....
its good experience, but no mistake about it... I DEFINATELY prefer to be asked out!!
Peace, SurfDancer
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 6:47:36 PM | Most beautiful women's heads are so blown up where they KNOW they can get any man they want. Men put them on such high pedestals and as a result, they become stuck up and full of themselves. So I can see where it's a waste of time....they will not give most men the time of day. It's their world and men mere squirrels trying to get a nut.....so I've been told! .
Wow....so you've been told??? Do you believe everything you've been told?
What about walking up to her and actually talking to her like she's NOT stuck up and
revealing that you're (GASP) actually interested in her and see what happens?
Why not be the one to prove your friends wrong??
What have you got to lose? A bit of pride? The arrogance of your heart has deceived you my friend... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/23/2008 7:01:24 PM | | This just happened to me about a month ago, this guy is a client of mine,, we were good friends,, then he says,, Im too high maintance,, then when we talked another time, he said I was a beautiful girl and if there were 3 girls walking down the street he would not approach the one that was pretty,, thats crazy to me and it seems he is insecure about his own self worth,, | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/24/2008 4:53:02 AM | The success isn't in the results, it's in the effort.
Sure, there are some breathtaking men that I second guess myself about approaching...but in the end, the fear of wishing I did overrides the fear of making the move.
I'd rather know a guys not interested in five seconds than wish I had said something for 5 weeks, anyday.
Don't become one of those "next time" people...."next time I'll talk to someone" - it becomes a mantra, and you'll keep saying it and never do it. Break the pattern. What do you have to lose? If you don't talk to that woman, you'll still not be in her life - at least if you try you know it's not cause you eliminated your chance. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/24/2008 5:06:55 AM | ^^^ well-said.
I contact women in whom I have an interest. Period. Sometimes I get the dreaded "unread and deleted" notification, more often the "read" without a message back, but sometimes it's a nice note back.
Nothing ventured, ya know...
Annudder | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/24/2008 5:27:35 AM | I have, in the past, attempted to send a note to a woman of interest, knowing full well, she is out of my"league", and I was not going to get a response. And I sure as hell won't do it in a public setting! And it's from a lack of self-confidence. Let's be honest here, some women will take one look at a guy and think: "NO WAY"!
JMO | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/24/2008 5:56:00 AM |
Let's be honest here, some women will take one look at a guy and think: "NO WAY"! Yes, and it is the same with men. There is nothing wrong with having a preference. Shrug it off and move on.
Annudder | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 8/24/2008 5:59:51 AM | Hey pinkytoes! Can you tell me where? I mean seriously, I live where its hard for women over 30 to get a date, pretty or unattractive...Talk about a bad news dating scene, yikes! I'm seriously going to move anyway, I'm tired of the local weather... | |
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