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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/31/2009 2:17:01 PM | I have experienced being intimidated by men. I am really shy at times. life is to short just go for it. You might let a good thing pass you by. You'll really have nothing to lose maybe a friend to gain. But who am I to give this advice. I should practice what I preach.  | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/31/2009 3:24:56 PM | I have had so many men comment to me that I must get so much mail cuz of how I look....and I hate that!!!
Cuz it does make me feel that some are too intimated by how I look so they don't bother contacting me (hypothetically speaking) thinking that they would rather not be part of the competition....
And by men doing that, they could be losing out on something so worth it for them.
Time and time again ppl feel not 'good enough' for a certain person just cuz of how they look and that urks me soooo much. We all pee and drink water so I don't get how different we are? If I ever come across someone who feels I am beneath them or that someone else is beneath them, I don't fret or argue about it I actuall laugh and wish them the best because to be so shallow and to live is a cave of darkness in the long run is a lonely cold place to find yourself lost in!!!
Just because someone is attractive doesn't make them better then anybody else....There is so much more to learn about someone once you pass the outer layer and to pass that oportunity up because you yourself doesn't feel worthy enough is a crock of sh..it....
Everybody has something to possibly offer in one form or another so in my eyes nobody is perfect or above anybody else!! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/31/2009 5:19:27 PM | No, because I don't see beauty as a value to be intimidated of. A woman can fit the Hollywood profile of beautiful and be a totally useless ****, so why would any self respecting man be afraid of that?
There are a lot of hot women that expect the groveling and when you treat them the same way you would any dude it gets their attention. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/6/2009 8:56:21 PM | Wow, I couldn't have said it any better! It doesn't seem fair. But I realize life isn't necessarily fair, so I just roll with the punches. 
Because of what you've just described, it's no wonder I'm this damned old and hardly get asked out and have never been married. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/7/2009 12:48:20 PM | "How would you know what she's like unless you approach her? If she ends up being a bytch, then count your blessings that it'll be somebody else putting up with her shyt one day!"
Turning him down though doesn't make her a bytch. It might make her a very nice, well rounded, fun-loving person, who simply isn't attracted to him.
Guys, definitely treat good looking women the same as you would ordinary ones. They don't like being treated like some kind of novelty in a freak show any more than you would. If you give it a shot and she's not interested, try not to blame that fact on her beauty or her personality. She might be a great girl, who simply doesn't like you that way. But once again, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Also, how do you know what type she is or isn't attracted to? You don't. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/7/2009 12:54:53 PM | tbuddha "There are a lot of hot women that expect the groveling and when you treat them the same way you would any dude it gets their attention."
Ick I don't like being treated "like a dude".
So given the topic of this thread, are you implying that beautiful women enjoy being treated less like a woman than ordinary looking women do? I am a woman, and a man who doesn't know the difference isn't someone I'd date. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/7/2009 3:04:15 PM | What have I lost by approaching a beautiful woman? The only thing she could do to me, well... here she could do to me is say No, ignore me, or send me a flame mail. The important thing do we share any interests, beautiful women are nice to look at, but evenutally you have to talk to them too. :)
Let me relay a story: I was about 13 at the time. At the time I was the smart shy kid. I had finally gotten up enough nerve to ask out the lovely blonde hair blue eyed popular girl. When I asked her she laughed in my face. It hurt a bit, but, after that it taught me that I wouldn't die if I approached a good looking woman. The worst she could do is laugh, and say no. Since then I've never had a problem asking out a good looking woman. Some of said no, most have yes. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/25/2009 5:17:28 PM | | To the ladies that think guys aren't asking them out because you're too beautiful (And we've read your posts in this thread. Some of them were quite humorous, considering the pics next to the comments.), get over yourselves. You're not being asked out because you have done something that makes you seem not worth the effort. Whether broadcasting arrogance, coldness, anger, or some personality flaw that is unattractive, negativity will turn people around much more quickly than fear of rejection. Put on a smile. Make eye contact. It'll work wonders. Most people are alone, because they are too good for what stands before them... Well, they think they are anyway. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/26/2009 12:44:49 AM | Heck yeah we do...or at least I can speak for myself here.
I had a crush on this guy in high school, but never said anything because I figured he was "too hot" for me. 7 or some odd years later I find out he had a thing for me and wanted to ask me out but was shy..and this came from HIM first.
I still haven't learned from this lesson..guess I have crap self esteem. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:28:32 AM | | If you feel intimidated by asking a woman who you think is very beautiful it's for a reason. It's your instinct telling you that she is at a higher attractive leve and your chances are very sliml. It doesn't matter how funny you are, how intelligent you are or if you have a great personality she will not be interested if she is not physichally attracted to you. That is what i have learnt in my 38 years. The same applies to men. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:26:44 PM | Nickty - travel more, there are hot women everywhere - period. I'm a Vancouverite and I've traveled a lot and I can tell you for a fact there is no place that has a monopoly on hot women. Of course personal preferences may bias you for or against certain genotypes but that's only an individual preference.
Japanese and Philippino women (Philippinas?) are particularly visually appealing to me but then I've seem women of all genotypes that have taken by breath away.
I'm definitely one of those that see some women as simply out of my league. I have no idea if those I've passed up would have responded well or not but the not side is more likely. | |
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