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Fwens
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Joined: 5/18/2007
Msg: 77 | |
| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2007 7:36:20 PM | I went out with a good-looking guy once. Before that date, we had talked online and on the phone a few times, and we had great chemistry. Alas on seeing what a good-looking guy he was, I retreated to my shell, and was quiet for most of the date.
Vancer, one of the earlier posters, had "diagnosed" my "condition" to be "low self-esteem". I think I'm just not used to such blaring beauty. My prescription: hang out with gorgeous people more often  | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2007 11:08:38 PM | Hey
Well, I don't know if it's because im good looking or if there is something wrong with me, but I rarely get men that approach me and ask me out in real life.
Maybe this is so, because I never go to bars, or social gatherings much.
I am still very single and have been for the most of the last year. When men actually approach me, it seems like all they care about is having sex.
I date here and there but no man will ever take me seriously.
No intention to whine and complain here, but just telling it like it is.
Maybe this is so because I am younger. Maybe it's because I actually have a brain and a head on my shoulders. Also I enjoy life most of the time, i'm very goal oriented and have a few passions and hobbies in my life.
It has really been a huge mistery, so someone please enlighten me!
Justyna | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2007 11:16:48 PM | Its so silly guys, missing out like that, because most women in general, and I am a woman who can attest.......most of us will give a guy a chance...looks dont play into it as much as it does for the men. Beautiful women and plain looking women pretty much are the same in this (of course there are always exceptions to anything lol)
Havent you ever seen a beautiful woman and asked yourself , "gee why is she with HIM?" (because her guy didnt have movie star looks and she did???)
Shes with him because he had the confidence to know he can
Confidence is sexy and attractive. Its has lot to do with a persons "looks"
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/26/2007 11:55:03 PM | OP,
I recently met an extremely beautiful woman on another site. We were both physically attracted to each other, (she didn’t object to my few extra lbs). Turns out that while we got to know each other, I simply didn’t click on some of the other levels. We remain friends to this day.
People are people. Most women look at your true qualities as more important than simply your looks. Be your self and if you think there might be a click, find out. Not all beautiful women are insecure, (many in so cal are though). And we’ve all herd the stories of the pretty girl that cries alone at home because no one will ask her out. She may be waiting for a guy just like you.
Just one guy’s opinion.
John | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/27/2007 6:08:24 AM | | i like to look at very pretty women , but i would not dare approach one and chat to them this i know is a lack of confidence in myself as i can be a bit shy. even on here i find it hard to be the first to send a message if they are really pretty. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/27/2007 8:35:39 AM |
Men are their women who you think are so beautiful that you would be wasting your time if you asked them out?
Absolutely not. I even approached a woman who was the 1998 Playmate of the Year, even though she was a few years out of my age range.
Michael | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/28/2007 7:00:46 PM |
I imagine I intimidate some men. But then, why worry about that? I wouldn't want to date a man who is intimidated by me anyway.
Intimidation isn't all bad. A little intimidation could be a good thing if used with discretion. At the very least it can help one keep from being used. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/28/2007 7:06:47 PM | I have this problem here at work. Is an absolutely gorgeous gal who could be a model somewhere.
Sad thing is she comes up and talks to me all the time about her work. Then proceeds to tell about her latest boyfriend.
Only thing more crushing is the next most attractive woman at where I work came up to me the other day and mentioned her husband.
Im begining to think all the attractive women here at work are gone. | |
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joe316
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Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 86 | |
| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:04:28 PM | | I've heard of beautiful women having trouble dating cause guys don't want to approach them because they think a woman that looks that good can't single. But there are usually guys out there that will try to pick up anything female with two legs as well though. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:15:25 PM | It's a funny topic. I was in a bar once having fun with a girl friend (friend) waiting for some other friends to arrive when I looked up to see this woman looking at me. I think my jaw hit the floor. I remember looking behind me to see who she was looking at because it couldn't have been me. Of course it was and I was just too bone-headed to think it was.
At the time my friend and I were having a lot of fun. We were out dancing on the dance floor when very few others were willing. It seems she was probably attracted to the fun we were having.
It took a lot of stones on her part to come down and ask me to dance because I probably looked like I was attached, when my friend was just a friend.
Now I just say dumb things around people I like ;-) | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:40:38 PM | | Yeah I would tend to agree that if a girl is too good looking there is no way I would talk to her as much as I would want to. So yeah, its intimidating. I feel like its bad for me to say that because girls that I would go up to and talk to which aren't model type girls but I find equally attractive seem much more easier to approach. Its kind of a strange problem. A lot of guys I would think just assume that they wouldn't be interested. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/29/2007 12:20:21 AM | | yeah, now and then i meet a woman so beautiful i feel frozen to the spot. after awhile, i get to know her and she's just like everyone else...and often really really nice on the inside cuz she's lonely too. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/31/2007 10:44:15 AM | Please, flame me 
It makes me feel that much happier knowing that somebody out there doesn't like what I'm saying.
To the guy who posted after me: Yes, I know D'eangelo, and no, I haven't read his e-book.
I'm talking about YOUNG women. As in Under 30. As in the immature, little attitude, holier then thou, stuck up snob types. Their are lots of them where I live, I find them hilarious. The people that think because they are physically attractive they can treat people like shit.
I tool them mercilessly, and walk away. I don't have time for snobs and idiots in my life. If I saw a woman who was very beautiful, and seemed like a good person, healthy self esteem, no bullshit kind of gal?
Of course I wouldn't use any tricks on her. Tricks and routines are for people who pull the same crap back. It doesn't work on healthy confident people. I would simply approach, talk to her on a mature level, and let it be known that I find her appealing. Not in an "Your so beautiful, I am in awe, I cant believe your giving me the time of day" way. In a "your beautiful, and I want to see if you have more to offer then your looks" way.
And THAT'S the reason cougars keep approaching me at bars. I'm fun, down to earth, and a big tease. I also have a big heart that I like to share. But only if you can be real with me....older women (30+) dont have that game garbage. I wish girls would mature faster that way : ( | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 4:00:02 PM | I don't consider myself beautiful however there are times when men don't approach me because they think I am younger then I am... You can not help how you are precieved... Just how you present yourself... Should I act older? Should I make myself look older? Hell no... If you attracked go talk what do you have to loose you might meet a wonderful person... Then again you might get lucky...
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 4:06:49 PM |
Men are their women who you think are so beautiful that you would be wasting your time if you asked them out?
If she was super hot/attractive... i'd look once... say "hey, shes hot.. right on. good for her!" then go back to whatever i was doing.
looks don't really phase me anymore. u seen one hottie u seen them all. just because shes superhot doesn't mean she's more worthy of attention than anyone else. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 4:16:44 PM | | I know a lot of really beautiful women who think themselves plain (and that makes them even more beautiful, really) and a lot of plain women who act like they're stunning beyond belief. You can't find out what someone's like until you're chatting so we need to forget all the 'beautiful this beautiful that' and just talk to them like they're regular people you're not really interested in anyway. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:10:11 PM | Yep. A friend of a friend. WAAAAAAYYYYY to hot for me. So I didn't even bother, didn't give her the time of day or didn't really even look. Again. Why bother. Sometimes you know someone is waaaaaayyyyy out of your league. "making the swoosh thing over my head with my hand"
Finally got a bit of chit chat going through the evening. Long story short, ended up dating for about 3 months. *shrugs* I didn't bother "trying" or putting my best foot forward, I was just me, because there was no pointin trying, and she liked that.
So you never know. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:22:30 PM | Oh yes ...it's the old too beautiful to get a date thing...
I'll tell you what ......
I'll come to your rescue!
If there are any poor lonesome beautiful women out there (who can't get a date 'cause guys are intimidated)
and you live in my area and you are within ten years of my age .
Feel free to mail me .......I'll ask you out.
And...I promise, I won't let you intimidate me.
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:46:08 PM | [/It has really been a huge mistery, so someone please enlighten me!]
Has it ever occured to all the beautiful women to sometimes make the first move...and I don't mean throw yourselves at anyone....just look someone in the eye and smile. Usually we guys need some signs or else we always assume you are taken. Good luck | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 7:16:03 PM | I can's sing
I ain't pretty
my legs are thin
(Stole that from a song,I did)
and I get contacts..
but I am also everybody's buddy..
where ever I go in life.
Had a good looking husband
have good looking kids
and have dated good looking guys..
well,
sorry you beauties,
ugly ducklings just dive in and swim, I guess
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/10/2007 10:49:31 PM | TheGoodMan wrote:
Two things I think of when I see a beautiful woman:
1. She is most likely taken, married or has 50-100 other men lining up to talk to her.
2. Why would she waste her time talking with an average looking men like myself when she could be talking to another guy who is a "perfect 10"?
Im guessing those two reasons also come to mind to some men who see a beautiful woman. Not trying to sound negative but why should I set myself up for a major rejection? Not worth it at all.
Please guys/gals don't assume! Simply walk up and say hi! That's all it takes.
Thousands of women/men (not bad looking) are sitting in front of their computers, at home all alone, and lonely. It doesn't make sense. | |
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