| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/12/2007 7:18:12 PM | I've had many a man tell me that I'm too beautiful to approach. WTF?? I can't help the way I look, but if men actually took the time to come up to me and say "hello" and realized how humble and nice that I really I am, then I'm sure they would be delighted to make my aquaintance. And vice versa.
Guess my profile killed all chances of me ever getting a date again. lol (like I even care.) haha!
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/12/2007 7:20:36 PM | | I see men checking me out. I keep hearing I am cute, have a great smile and pretty eyes, etc. But no one ever approaches me. I am very approachable. I smile and laugh a lot, and will look a guy in the eyes, but they just don't come up to me. I just don't get it. I want them to, I try to look inviting....but pffffff. I understand that people fear rejection but it is still frustrating, especially when I am giving invitations....lol | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/12/2007 7:39:05 PM | ^^^^^^ and this is why we have on line dating...you think it would of helped the boys out a little to be able to hide behind a computer screen....lol
--some take advantage of the situation and take the risk to say hi to a woman they think is beautiful(remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder)
--for some they still find it too hard to say anything..again the fear of rejection factor (like who is going to see that you were rejected at home in your comfy chair)
-- then there are the ones that were shy out in life, get behind a computer and wholla..we have created a monster of sorts..lol
Not sure time and space will ever help us figure out the nature of the birds and the bees....Even Venus and Mars are still confused as ever..lol
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/12/2007 8:01:19 PM |
see men checking me out. I keep hearing I am cute, have a great smile and pretty eyes, etc. But no one ever approaches me. I am very approachable. I smile and laugh a lot, and will look a guy in the eyes, but they just don't come up to me. I just don't get it. I want them to
DITTO, and it's soooooo frustrating!!!
Friends have told me I give off an aloof aura but Im here to say that soooooo isnt true!! I think Im very approachable!!!
So let me extend an invite to all the tall men out there... APPROACH already!! lol
Smiles.....jj | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/12/2007 8:24:22 PM | | I often wonder if I am so pretty, or so ugly that men get put off. I dont think I am all that bad looking, but I dont seem to get the attention that I feel I deserve. I am a very nice, approachable gal, and I never judge a book by its cover. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/13/2007 4:07:30 AM |
Beautiful woman are usually always very insecure.
I agree. Since people usually only see their "beauty" it's the first thing attacked... actually it's that way with most women I know, beautiful or not. Some guy asks you out, you say no, and all of a sudden you're an ugly old hag who's not worth it. You get a promotion, it must be because you're eye candy and/or sleeping with the boss.... and so it goes. For every compliment received, there's someone right behind them with an insult. No wonder we don't know where we stand. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/13/2007 1:39:07 PM | its 2007 and women basically have fought hard for equality! the rules of many centuries ago supossed not to apply..
so why moan in here for being beautiful...... and neglected?
its same as you call men who cant get a woman... the easier and quickier explonation women give about these men is ''they are insecure..etc etc''
so again on the age of equality for men and women , why dont you eye a man and go and chat to him? not a crime is it? | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/13/2007 4:06:54 PM | i'm working on this theory that men my age in my town think i'm too young to approach for anything real because they think i dont look my age. i tend to blend in a lil too well with the college kids in my town, and to some extent, even the highschool kids in my neighborhood. its not til some actually say something to me to get a vocal response that they realize i'm not as young as they think. i can tell this because i see their eyes go wide and jaws hit the floor when they hear my voice because its not high pitched like they were expecting to hear. in some situations people think i'm lying about my age, again believing i'm younger than i say, this is a problem in job interviews and things like it.
eh...thats what i get for being vertically challenged..its cute, but dayng annoying | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/13/2007 4:16:14 PM | "Why? I have feelings too! It seems to me that the unattractive women get all the attention! "
Yeah... and we think the "attractive" ones do... but then, it's human nature for most people to think they're not as good looking as others... then, there are those who think they're god's gift... and, maybe the physical is nice to look at, but they have no personality or are just jerky....
Either way, when we're 90 we all pretty much look the same, eh? | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/16/2007 7:35:54 PM | Oh yes ...it's the old "too beautiful to get a date thing" ...
I think that is just awful , all these beautiful women sitting home every night.
I really feel sorry for beautiful women.
I'll tell you what ......
I'll come to your rescue!
If there are any poor lonesome beautiful women out there (who can't get a date 'cause guys are intimidated) and you live in my area and you are within ten years of my age .
Feel free to mail me .......I'll ask you out.
And...I promise, I won't let you intimidate me.
Ps. This is the third time that I posted this ...and my mail box is not over flowing yet!
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/16/2007 8:02:20 PM | | I've felt that way many times.....seen a really appealing looking male and just hung it up right then and there....even though I think its ridiculous Im guilty of it myself! Weird thing is last time I actually went out with a REALLY GREAT looking guy, he had the intellect of a doorknob....bored the hell out of me.... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/16/2007 8:25:34 PM |
Oh yes ...it's the old "too beautiful to get a date thing" ...
I think that is just awful , all these beautiful women sitting home every night.
I really feel sorry for beautiful women.
I'll tell you what ......
I'll come to your rescue!
If there are any poor lonesome beautiful women out there (who can't get a date 'cause guys are intimidated) and you live in my area and you are within ten years of my age .
Feel free to mail me .......I'll ask you out.
And...I promise, I won't let you intimidate me.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAA | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/16/2007 8:28:02 PM | I have went out dancing with my friends and never been asked to dance. I think a man is just being nice to me, and find out later that he was actually interested in dating me. Am I a beautiful woman, no. About average but I think men, as well as women both have insecurities and approaching someone you honestly think is attractive in a manner that is not insulting or demeaning is a challenge. I get e-mails from men who don't read my profile or insult me in one fashion or another, ask me if I want to be spoiled but it's a rarity to find a really sweet interesting man who would seriously want to get to know me and not just possess or own me. Women are desiring the same thing most men want... to be loved for who they are, to be known for who they are and to be encouraged to be more than who they are .... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/16/2007 8:37:49 PM | Piquebu....SO true!
I have the same experiences and the same problem!
Men...please do more than just look at us....even if were considered hot..pretty..etc...
We might be a little shy and / or old fashioned too and would LOVE for the man to make the first move...PLEASE!
And I am working on making the first move and sending out stonger signals of my interest....
We are all beautiful works in progress... | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 8:44:18 AM | I think its all about if you look approachable,some times you can see someone you like but they give off an unfriendly aura,so people just stare,bit silly really as we should reasonable with eachother - not always the case
I think it works both ways as we get attention of the wrong types
but you look like you have to beat them off lol x    | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 8:57:46 AM |
I agree. Since people usually only see their "beauty" it's the first thing attacked... actually it's that way with most women I know, beautiful or not. Some guy asks you out, you say no, and all of a sudden you're an ugly old hag who's not worth it. You get a promotion, it must be because you're eye candy and/or sleeping with the boss.... and so it goes. For every compliment received, there's someone right behind them with an insult. No wonder we don't know where we stand.
Ca Ching! Great post! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 9:49:48 AM | | I havent seen that. A person is a person. people like to be treated nice and laugh just like anyone else. If a woman is so beautifull and her isides are stuck up, then to me she is no prize. True beauty is a woman who is beautifull and humble and classy-- very rare find. Some girls have told me though they are rude because they get approached so much its a way to be left alone. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 10:09:14 AM | | I would like to think if a woman is beautiful just go talk to her. You have nothing to lose even if you do get rejected. I actually take rejection as a good thing because I am better off without someone who doesn't like me. The more times you approach beautiful women the better you get at building confidence approaching them and talking to them. Eventually you will hit the jackpot with one of them. But the question remains is all that beauty hiding a dark side but you won't know until you really get to know someone. You learn from the past experiences what to watch out for (golddigger, selfish, high maintenance, immoral I what I stay away from so you have to be careful). | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 3:29:26 PM | | ive had guys send me messages saying i was *out of their league* or they wouldnt know what to do with me lol whatever that means. i dont understand that line of thinking.. why intimidated, take a chance and send a message, you never know what could happen. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 6:54:27 PM | I thought that I would share my Story with Everyone:
First, I want everyone to know that I don't see myself as Beautiful, yet I do
Know that I am Full of Compassion, and Very Outgoing, I am the type that
never meets a Stranger.
My EXE Husband that I was married to for 31 years, and I met in a Very Strange
Way!!! He had seen me on a Float from a Beauty Pageant, and was telling the Owner
Of the Place that he Worked, how Beautiful I was. Later that day I walked by where he worked. If his Boss had not Dared him to come out and meet me also calling him a Chicken Sh$$ if he didn't. I don't know that we would of ever met!!! I will never
forget that day, as I was walking back he was being pushed out the Door. I had no
Idea what was happening, and thought the Behavior kind of Strange. He looked at
me with this helpless look on his face, and I said Hello!!! He than said to me I saw
you on the Float!!! I said, Oh that, well I paid them to let me ride it. LOL We laughed and were together for 31 years in marriage and 3 years before that. Most of those Years, were Very Happy Years!!! Plus we had 2 Great Daughters. So the Moral of this Story is Go For It!!! You Just Never Know!!! He thought that he was the Luckiest Man in the World. I also feel that I am Blessed to have known Him in a Very Special Way!!
Plus I Strongly Feel the Imperfections we have are also some of the most Intriguing Qualities, of a Person!!!
Again it's what's Inside that Count's the Most!!!! | |
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