| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/10/2007 9:33:16 AM | Statistically it is the capital of the SINGLE WHITE WOMEN with CHILDREN in the United States...other races fall short...there's way too many white trash women here that think men are walking wallets...
As a wise man once said...don't, don't, don't date a single mom...you're only going to be next in line to be that donor with the wallet.
Don't get me wrong, I love kids, mine, not yours...LOL. I tolerate others kids, but I'm not going to pay their way, not unless I'm married to the mother and there's a certificate of adoption (not going to happen in this lifetime as I believe the previous donor should be on the hook until their 18).
Anytime you date a single mom, if you get serious it ends up costing 2, 3, 4x what an outing should be since the "kidlets" are included. Also, you are going to take back seat to the kids everytime there's a crisis...grades...drugs...sex...all of it is part of the experience here...do you seriously want that? Not me...furthermore, any mother that would put you ahead of their kids is whacked (I know, I married one and she's certifiable heading on marriage #6)...I can tell you where she is, where she works and if you're looking to be #7...get in line, it's only a matter of 2-3 years with her 
As a veteran of marriage (more than 2) I can vouch for all of this from personal experience here in Washington.
The best rules when dating in Washington are:
Single - No kids
Divorced - No Kids
Divorced - Kids grown
Widowed - Kids grown
All else...run, don't walk...to the nearest exit.
Other than that, you're looking to waste a lot of time, money and effort, IMHO.
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/10/2007 9:38:34 AM | Specifically Seattle...the rest of the state is a close second ;-) by an order of magnitude...something about Puget Sound in particular and the very liberal court system that makes it PROFITABLE to divorce the dad...
I had a good attorney and based on what I hear...I got off decent...but still pay for 3 more years...I'm counting my blessings that I found out early and not 2, 3 or 4 mouths to feed later...
Of course, your mileage may vary,
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/10/2007 1:17:27 PM | | hey whats wrong with woman that have kids . that just means they have to be more mature and straight foward from the beginning with what they relly want. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/10/2007 2:45:10 PM |
crabstuffing on 6/1/2007 7  45 PM Message: Do you think all women who aren't married and have a kid are attached to a deadbeat dad? I'm good friends with my ex, he's a good person, pays child support and has his boy every weekend.
Living the American Dream huh?
The problem with society today is if a man has his kid every other weekend and pays his support, he is a good dad. What happened to the 2 parent family that dad was home every weekend? | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/10/2007 11:15:23 PM | The problem with society today is if a man has his kid every other weekend and pays his support, he is a good dad. What happened to the 2 parent family that dad was home every weekend?
What happened to the 2 parent family is that my ex didn't do ANYTHING with my boy at all when he was a baby. No playing, talking, changing, feeding.. nothing. Unless he had to when I worked 16 hrs per week. We drifted apart and that's that. He is a good person, just not the dad I thought he would be. As my son grew older and he could communicate with him more, it got much better.
There are many many fathers out there that have their kids every other weekend (mine is EVERY) that are horrible fathers. Do I need to cite actual stories from mothers? I don't think so.
My ex and I were good friends/buddies/mates/pals but as a parenting team it all fell apart.
Anytime you date a single mom, if you get serious it ends up costing 2, 3, 4x what an outing should be since the "kidlets" are included.
Who says YOU have to pay for anything? I never expect ANYONE to pay for a date with or without my kid. ANd if you are on a date with my kid and I, you have entered the territory that rarely comes about. That would mean you are a fabulous and trustworthy person and I like you bunches.
You men assume SO much about women. I'm sure there are a lot of what you think single moms typically are but do NOT put us all in the same category.
Don't assume because YOUR ex-wife is a bitch, that we all are. Please. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/11/2007 7:00:24 AM | Don't assume because YOUR ex-wife is a ****, that we all are. Please.
My first Ex wasn't, my second ex was. At worst I figure I have a 50/50 shot LOL!!
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/16/2007 6:26:10 AM | Waiving hand - I'm here - no kids at home - raised 4, only one biologically mine - and he is very independent. I do love kids tho and wish I had had more..... Go figure!
Maybe it is the "age" range that you are looking for? | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/20/2007 6:12:48 PM |
You men assume SO much about women.
i love when the old assume word comes out:P both sides are guilty when it comes to assumptions..right?
i dont care if a girl has kids or not...would be nice to start fresh with a lady with out kids..but i really dont care long as there good kids and if she is worth the time...mothers that i have dated,there kids have never been a issue....and usualy in the states..if there a good lookin gal or just out of highschool..most likely some guy is going to try and knock her up..or they wanna be knocked up by some successful or good lookin dude..thats life...people wanna pro create and do the nasty..lol..so ya it will be hard to find a gal {or guy}in any state with out kids unless there super young..cant have any.. choose not to have any...or mean reasons such as looks.
if you narrow your view down to women who dont have kids..well good luck...you just eliminated millions of good lookin single girls just cause of there kids..somtimes tunnel vision will make ya end up alone...i dont tunnel vision..{or try not too}..lol..best if your single to leave as many avenues open as possible.:) | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/21/2007 10:01:25 PM |
Now I just love the concept of saying: Women here are more ‘independent’. This is incorrect. The only way this would be correct is if the woman did not receive child support, welfare or any other support other then her own earned income. I know lots of women that are truly independent. I am a single mother of three, I am the full support of this family. I do not receive welfare, or child support or any other type of money/income. I do not have anyone else paying my bills, and I rent a 3 bedroom house with a garage all on my own. You shouldn't lump everyone in the same group, it's not ever correct. Like someone said in a post, that everyone has their own story. Since this is generally not the case then this concept of independence just means the woman wants to hold position of control on any and all situations. Being single mothers force women into a position of control and authority over their children. The problem is, this control spills out to every day life even out side the home. The hard part is for a woman to release that control to anyone else. Most feel they shouldn’t have too.
This is also false. Yes, I have control and authority over my children, but it's because I have to, I don't want to in everything. I would love to give some of it over to someone else in other things going on in my life. One of my things I tell people when I might go on a date is I DON'T want to choose or control what we do for the date, I do that enough everyday, but yet, only one date has taken charge of a date, where we would go, what we would do. But yet, no I will not give control of my children to someone new, that takes time, it's not fair to the new person, or to the children, The new person has to earn the respect and the authority.
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/22/2007 12:02:25 PM | Not on this website . And the ones that dont have kids eat them for breakfast so unless thats your thing ya still shit outa luck ... LOL I know you all wanna be a Scab Dad. just let it happen   this site retarded
IT was an accident ! i swear i just tripped slipped and landed on his****. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/22/2007 3:28:54 PM | | It's all about shifting demographics. It used to be that fat women were totally undatable, and now fat women have no trouble getting dates. The next demographic to become 'acceptable' totally is women with kids. Because eventually more than half of all single women over the age of 18 will have at least one child, and men will pretty much either have to put up with it or be single. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/22/2007 5:37:13 PM |
As a wise man once said...don't, don't, don't date a single mom...you're only going to be next in line to be that donor with the wallet.
Seems you have made some bad choices on the women you have dated, doesn't mean that all women with children are like that. You are being small minded if you think that everyone is like that. I have had many bad relationships with men, but I'm not going to say that all men are ***holes or abusers or lazy bums or dead beats.
My children have never been supported by some man I dated. I have always taken care of my children, as I work my ass off to make sure they have everything they need. When my mom divorced my father, she worked 2-3 jobs to make sure we had everything as well. She never dated again till we were both grown up and out of the house.
Two strong women that raise their children on their own.
There are many out there, you just are a sucker then if you keep getting the ones that are just in it for the money, it's not every single mothers fault, thats just your own bad judgment on women.
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/7/2007 1:13:49 PM | | There are plenty of us older gals that have kids but are long gone. It just so happens that we are much to old for you young guys. Now, my daughter is 44 on this site and by choice has no children. I'm not at liberty to give her handle out but you sure could look. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/10/2007 7:26:42 AM | Yes, besides myself ..a few of my co-workers, nieces and former step daughter who all range from 19 - 35 years old. The ladies are out there, they are the ones who are very active like learning how to salsa; going out with gal pals, the gals in groups at a movie theatre or play...etc.
Be patient; you shall find one. ...
Warm regards,
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/17/2007 11:28:35 PM | ya know... haven a kid or kids isn't all that bad people!... you just have to pick the right guurl! or the right guy even. if you know shes on wealfare, you know she sits on her butt all day, you know that shes not ambitious, or has no goals,looking for a handout, etc... then leave that guurl alone! but there are women out there with kids that are completely independant, support themselves and family, and know how to take care of a career, kids, man, home... ya know.. i dont think anyone should rule out a potentially awsome match just cause one has lived a lil' bit of life!
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/18/2007 3:43:47 PM | DarkRomeo hits it square on the head.
I've only been on here 2 weeks but many many hours in that 2 weeks. And that's exactly the way I would describe the situation. I know that once I discovered the forums, I found about half a dozen super hot ladies in Alberta Province in about 10 minutes. I'm talking country girls, boatloads of charm and very real, intelligent, nice ladies. And a couple of them were outright compatible with me too. But I'm currently talking to a super attractive young (28) lady in Bristol England who is seeming more every day to be the real deal. No kids in her life... Consider the North American Free Range Tasty Canadians (an inside joke, no offense intended) for some long distance friends. It might turn into something if your serious about it. Dont abuse those gals up there though, and dont be teasing them. They are super nice girls.  | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/18/2007 3:53:59 PM | DarkRomeo hits it square on the head.
I've only been on here 2 weeks but many many hours in that 2 weeks. And that's exactly the way I would describe the situation. I know that once I discovered the forums, I found about half a dozen super hot ladies in Alberta Province in about 10 minutes. I'm talking country girls, boatloads of charm and very real, intelligent, nice ladies. And a couple of them were outright compatible with me too. But I'm currently talking to a super attractive young (28) lady in Bristol England who is seeming more every day to be the real deal. No kids in her life... Consider the North American Free Range Tasty Canadians (an inside joke, no offense intended) for some long distance friends. It might turn into something if your serious about it. Dont abuse those gals up there though, and dont be teasing them. They are super nice girls. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/18/2007 8:58:10 PM | According to all you men I should be very sought after. I'm 36 never been married and have no children.
I'm a great person, kind, caring, pretty open minded and yet still alone. I think finding love is a matter of luck and maybe I don't have any? | |
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