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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/29/2007 5:03:45 PM | I'm not opposed to women with children. In my age range though they would be gone or nearly gone from the house. Like I said before I raised another mans Son to Manhood with no trouble. Heck kids are a trip, perhaps I should consider having some of my own to mix with the ones she already has (Provided I can find a she that is)? I'm a decent catch I'd say, not rich or famous mind you, but independent and loving living life.
But of course you realise........
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/30/2007 1:01:17 AM | me being a father, I would rather find a nice woman with kids because they actually understand what it takes. I have dated a few ladies ages 25 and 29 that never had kids, beautiful women but it was never going to work and they wanted a serious relationship. I told them they would be better off with a guy without kids.
I have kids, I am a soccer dad, coach, provider and one hell of a cool dad and that is what it's suppose to be for me. It's my job and those women without kids really didn't get it.
Don't get me wrong. I don't think all single women are that way. Just the few I have dated.
My problem is just trying to find a single mom that wants to be friends first before "jumping" into a relationship first. Seems like they just want to get married or something. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:43:01 PM |
It used to be that fat women were totally undatable, and now fat women have no trouble getting dates.
Thats a bit harsh... but in being on this site I'm begining to see that its so true..
I'm 27 with no children, according to what I've read on here I shouldn't have any problem... but guess "fat" still isn't as acceptable as opticalnoise made it seem..... | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/15/2007 5:23:22 PM | | My children are all grown and have children of their own. I am a bit over weight (wouldn't consider myself FAT) and don't have any dates. No kids at home, work for a living, and no dates. IF fat women are getting all the dates, perhaps I need to gain some weight? | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/18/2007 12:08:32 AM | | I think you are missing something that is very important...a single mom raising a child alone should indicate a special person to you. It's not her that has walked away from the responsibility...but the father. She is the one that is showing the strength and dedication that should be respected...not condemned. This is the person that could have been your own mother had times been different then...women are now showing their strenght and independence by choosing to raise children alone rather than subject them to an unhappy relationship or to a father that does not want them. Why should you oppose them? They show more moral character and strenght in being the single mom than most men would ever care to admit or have the ability to do. So don't flog the single moms....respect them...they have it tough enough. If it were me, that is the person I would most trust my love to because she has already shown that she will be there besides many hardships. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/22/2007 12:29:31 AM | | Here is a warming thought, what arge group you looking for as there are some 18 year olds that are ladies and have no kids, but at the same time I have heard that there are 65 year olds that have none and would like to try. Just kidding. Isnt that question a little shallow and at your age......you must be assamed, ok long enough so now go hug a kid. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:34:26 PM | | Well, I'm single, no kids, and I can't get a date, and in my almost 37 years, have NEVER been told that I'm pretty, and I think my total number of dates I can count on one hand. Because, although I'm single, no one wants to date a fat person, they care about looks, not what is inside the person. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2007 9:54:43 PM | Wow....I am glad this forum seems t have come to a close...I was really losng my respect for men. I can not believe the callouse generalizations here. I wonder how many single moms are out there that had their schmuck of a shallow husband run off with some chick with fake boobs, who found out later...what they do with you they do to you!!!
Or maybe she is trash because her jerk of a husband started to use her as a punching bag...or turned to drinking....or drugs...or...or...or. I cannot believe the shallowness here. Most single moms are stronger than any women I know, and overcome unbearable odds. How dare you belittle them and make them appear as if they were all trailer park. Geeze I wonder why you are all single...hmmmmm.     | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/8/2007 11:05:52 PM | All you Ladies that are single Mom's have my utmost respect and admiration. I doubt I'd be able to do it. Just the time management part alone staggers my mind. How do you get it all done and work as well. At least two full time jobs, one as a Mom and another as a worker. Yep, hats off to you all!!! Oh by the way, I never fathered any children so don't beat me up on that front LOL!!!
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/13/2007 7:56:30 AM | Curious.
I have also heard that Seattle is something of a singles mecca.
I'll admit, kids put me off. If I am just going for a fling with a gal, then it doesn't matter, but for anything long term... I'm just not prepared for that kind of history and responsibility at my age.
The really frustrating thing is I get along better with women who are a couple or more years older than me. Always have. This unfortunately seems to greatly up the chances that they have kids.
As far as other aspects go I'm a bit stuck too - the traits of a woman I want seem to be rare in the combination I desire, including physical. Simply put, I am a man trying to slim down just a bit to stay at a decent state of fitness. I am looking for a partner about the same.
No offense intended to BBW's, god knows I have had know some who were knockouts, but anything more than what I have to contend with, an extra 20-30 pounds, is a bit too much for me now.
It seems that finding a reasonably fit, single, childless women between 25-30 is a tall order indeed. On this site certainly, I pray not at large in the city. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/14/2007 12:01:31 AM | I wish you the most luck in the world Mr. Hat. Seriously.
If I were you I'd get off the free dating personals asap and GET OUT. go to clubs, bars, anywhere. Don't look for girls on here or Craigslist. Don't get wrapped up in it.
The Stranger has good personals but you have to pay to reply, etc. I'm thinking about going that route again. People are too norm on this site for me. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/17/2007 7:20:50 PM | | WELL GUYS, WOMAN DO HAVE CHILDREN!! MINE ARE ALL GROWN UP. LEFT HOME AND NOW I AM ALL ALONE. OH I GET SO BORED I WISH MY BABIES WERE AT HOME, (SOMETIMES)!!!!! REMEMBER GENTELMEN TO MAKE BABY YOU NEED MORE THAN TO LEAVE OUT THE Y AND ADD IES. WOMAN NEED YOU MAN. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:14:02 PM | No. theres not.
but are there any decent men in WA who will take responsibility for their kids??
NO.
and are there any men in washington who are willing to give us girls a chance.
nope
what does your question prove...
nothing. thanks though | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/20/2007 6:04:39 PM |
but are there any decent men in WA who will take responsibility for their kids??
See that? Ever wonder why there are SO many single moms?
Luckily my boys dad is very involved in his life, but I know of SO many women with exes that don't contact their kids or help support them at all.
Granted there is a lot of drama that doesn't need to be there, people need to be involved in their children's lives no matter who they have to deal with. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 9/29/2007 8:11:04 AM | I'm 40-something, single, never married and have no kids. Seems I got a bit distracted by my career and nurturing employees, that I missed out in that experience!
Some guys may like this, but it can sure be a lonely & empty existence having NO immediate family, especially around holidays. Some of my most memorable/joyous relationships have been with single Dads, when we would do things with his kids (typically every other weekend).
I am looking to date a decent, compatible guy, and if he happen to have kids < 18 and is involved in the co-parenting thing, I would support that too, because that is part of who he is...  | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/5/2007 11:44:27 AM | I am with selective , its part of who they are. It takes a special person who can accept anothers children into there lives and love them. I know this all too well, I am just looking for friends right now but I can already see how my number of children is a effecting even finding friends. Am I upset or depressed about it , heck no, would'nt trade my kids for anything, but who and what I am and my self worth isn't based on who I do or do not date and the same goes for who I make friends with.To me it is a plus to have children more of that person to love. and as I sidebar and I mean no offense but the person's name who started the thread is cupidisblind(i think it was) isn't it a bit ironic to ask the question with a name like that , if cupid is blind what do children matter?
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/6/2007 3:01:31 PM | | I dont get it. Knocked up fresh out of school. What a dream killer. I personally wouldnt want to take on the responsibility 0f raising someone elses child. The gene pool in this country is definately getting shallow. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/16/2007 1:23:43 PM | I'd just like to say, I'm single with no kids! Yes I was married. And trust me it wasn't my choice to get a divorce. I loved that man with all my heart. I would have stayed with him till death do us part. But for him it wasn't so easy. I won't say the reason why he decided for the divorce but it wasn't because of me. We are still good friends to this day. And no it wasn't some kind of fling lets get married thing. We were together for 4 and half years before we decided to get married, and then married for another 5 yrs. So my point is there are women out there that don't have kids. Maybe your just looking in all of the wrong places? Personally I would love to have had kids. But we just weren't ready. We would have, but we waited to become more finacially stable, and I'm glad we did, because of the divorce now. I wouldn't want to put the child through that if at all possible. My parents got a divorce and it wasn't pleasant, and still isn't. But, personally if a guy had children, I wouldn't mind as long as he would want at least one more(this way I can have at least one of my own someday). As long as he's takeing care of his responsabilities. It just show's how much of a good man he really is.
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/19/2007 1:49:33 PM | My issue is not with dating a single woman raising a child/children, per say.
I don't care what the case is! I don't care that you made a mistake when you were younger and got pregnant, I don't care that your marriage/past relationship didn't work out, or who left who and now you have the child/children to raise on your own, or even with help from the father because he's still taking care of his business. I don't care!
What do I care about?
You start dating someone with a child/children and things are going good. You BOTH decide that it's the "right" time to meet the child/children, the relationship is going great, why not! Now, most relationships last what, an average of 8 months maybe? (I'm no expert and I don't have stats) Anyway, so in this time, you meet the child/children. Your now a part of their life and spending time with them, getting to know them and like them. Ok, now your approaching that 8 months, the end of that relationship. You break up! Your not only losing a woman you've spend time with over these (say) 8 months, your also losing the child/children you've grown to like/love as well. And the child/children is losing something as well. How many times will you (single mother) put your child/children through this before you say enough is enough? How many times does your child/children have to meet "mommys new boyfriend"? Depending on their age, this can be tramatic! But mommy needs love too..... This is my issue with dating a single mother. There's more than just two adults involved, whom may have an easier time parting with eachother then the child/children. I've dated single mothers before, I know this and so do the single mothers here! I've found it harder leaving the child/children then it was leaving their mother.
Why am I looking for someone without kids? I think you know. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:52:00 PM | Not only have a noticed this, but it seems to be a big problem.
By the time you try to find one that is cute, one that has a decent job and lives on her own. One that has a car, is not a gold digger and not a mental case, good morals, doesn't have kids, or tattoos on her t|ts or metal on her face, and is not a b|tch! Then you have to have chemistry!
It's got to be a million to one! | |
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