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 1ducky3

Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 76
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/23/2007 1:39:01 AM
While you may have trouble finding those of us who are single, young, no kids, with morals and a direction in life.... we have trouble finding decent, honest, non-drug users who wont verbally or physically abuse us. Of course, I come from a small town at a very nice distance from the big city. My girlfriends and I would love to find a guy our age that we didn't go to school with, who also has no kids, and wants to start something serious and long term. Us WA Ladies without kids are here, we just only go to the city to sightsee. So fellas~ Try expanding your search to the whole state and not the yuppie single parent capitol.
~Monique
 darkflippy

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 10/23/2007 3:07:29 AM
look this is the thing. alot of the times the couple don't think of what will happen or do know but to naive to care that there bringing a life into this world. comming from a single mother i have to say this. that mother is playing with a life that can turn around and bite her back if she not careful. Yes you are good to your kids but most of the people in the prison system come from single family homes. also they have dead beat dads, some kind of addiction mother weather it drugs chain smoker or alcoholic that male or female mimic there surrounding's and become what they see. to think that the mother or father would be there to teach them everything they need to know in life? no the the tech of the world will. Often i see single mothers that have kids and they go aroufn and think there shit don't stink. but there like reissue goods. Yes you had a Ex that treated you bad. but you chose them not the other way around..... man i'm tired i'm going to sleep now hearing about how more and more single females have kids with no thought of there action make me sick..
 ur_sweetgirl

Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 78
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:59:36 PM
I don't have any kids and I think thats because i am actually responsible and dont have sex with the first guy i meet.
 darkflippy

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 10/23/2007 11:21:05 PM
and see that how it should be. now days it to easy to get laid. omg yes it a great thing but also taking a piss after holding it in for a hour. I know no man who would hold it in just to get that feeling. but still it a great feeling. u do it to often it become dual and bland.
 Lotus_Flower

Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 80
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/24/2007 5:35:51 AM
I don't have kids but I do have sex with the first guy I meet
 aaronsready

Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/24/2007 1:37:35 PM
You GO Lotus! lmao
That was funny!
Poor comment earlier. You don't, well always, get pregnant by having sex on the first date.
Besides, EVERYONE knows that if you have sex standing up, gravity will kick in and the little guys can't swim UP!
 crabstuffing

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 82
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 10/24/2007 7:00:23 PM

I don't have any kids and I think thats because i am actually responsible and dont have sex with the first guy i meet.


If I had sex with the first guy I met my kid would be 24 instead of 9!
Wait.. I don't get it.



BAN LIFTED!
 darkflippy

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 10/25/2007 1:23:52 AM
well aslong as you willing to pay the piper when he come with your gift or cure it all your choice.
 babygirl68012002

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 84
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:11:32 PM
I have noticed almost everyone I know has kids already but I am single and don't have kids!! I guess you just have to look really hard to find someone w/o kids in Wa now days!! LOL
 grrrldreaming

Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 85
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Posted: 11/19/2007 1:08:00 AM
I'm 26 years old and have no children. Often I feel that I'm unfairly treated because of this by some. Ex significant others of mine and I have tried for this, pregnancy has yet to come for me, and is in God's hands. Even though I'd prefer to be more financially stable before starting a family, not to mention at least have a LTR. As other people mentioned, so it may be Washington has a high/highest rate of women with children per capita US? Where I'm originally from it's more fashionable to have a career and home before children, so not sure what people prefer out this way as of yet.
 PNW_girl

Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 86
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 11/28/2007 2:34:23 PM
Nope, no kids here :)
 peppy1um

Joined: 6/3/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 11/30/2007 9:15:17 PM
Dark Flippy you are so judgemental and mean spirited. I think I am not the first to say it in your life. I first want to say I understand if someone makes a choice to not date single mothers. I think that it would be hard for me to date a guy without children right now. We are on different chapters in life. But I am certainly not going to judge someone on whether they are a single parent, especially not to the point of making us all sound like a bunch of tramps.

My husband and I were married for 10 years. Yes we planned on forever. He is a really great guy, a good dad, who loves his kids, and we still have a love for each other, but more a very strong friendship. I am a very driven person, he wanted someone to stay home and be the happy homemaker. I thought I could do it for him, but found myself losing who I was. We were going two different ways. Not planned but it happens. But, we still spend most all of our holidays as a family. Yes the two youngest would like us back together, but not the older ones. They remember what it was like. We are all a lot happier now.

You are entitled to your opinion but you are wrong to be so verbally abusive to someone's mother. Dark Flippy, you have a flippin darkside!
 equinelettyfnf007

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 88
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Posted: 12/12/2007 1:34:34 PM
Yup, I have thats why I'm a weird one Straight, Never been married, never been pregnant lol and I grew up mostly in WA.... crazy ;)
 tanzanite99901

Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 12/12/2007 10:32:52 PM
join the crowd...there ARE a few of us who have never been married, straight, never been pregnant and KNOW HOW TO USE BIRTH CONTROL! And yet....people are still shocked when I say all that and I'm 29...and have lived in WA for a huge chunk of my life........go figure.....
 sweetone445

Joined: 5/27/2007
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Posted: 12/14/2007 4:19:37 PM
I don't have kids! Maybe I am the exception to the rule, but I think that a lot of guys that are my age already have kids, not just the females- it takes 2 to make a baby!
 Cupid Is Blind

Joined: 11/17/2007
Msg: 91
Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 12/15/2007 12:51:20 AM
Naturally...It's not til I give up pack up and head out of WA that the single ladies w/o kids step forward! Might be time to change my screen name from CupidIsBlind to CupidRidesTheShortBus! DOH!! (Thanks to all of you for replying to my post...now if I could just get some visits to my profile page...apparently being 38 in CA = Kryptonite to ALL women using POF in the state) hehehehehehe
 Lotus_Flower

Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 12/15/2007 1:48:10 AM
Best of luck to you, Cupid
 tanzanite99901

Joined: 7/10/2007
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Posted: 12/15/2007 7:57:43 AM
LOL Cupid..no, it's just that you're in Sacremento. But good luck!!!
 nerdra1962

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 94
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:08:42 PM
I don't have kids and not looking to have any. (I wouldn't be good for them.) Also never married; 18 years in the Bering Sea fishing industry had something to do with that...I find that every woman that I know my age (45) has kids grown up or in the home...I've been noticing men that want to have children in their 40's and don't have them yet.
 nerdra1962

Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:17:26 PM
I beg to differ with your ideas about women in this state. I was born and raised in Seattle, worked in the Bering Sea fishing industry when there were no sexual harrasment laws and I welcome some friendly "play". I've never attempted to sue anyone for "sexual harrasment"; quite the opposite. I tolerated it and considered the source. I don't need to sue anyone to earn my money. I'm 45 years young, seriously independent, child free, drug free and looking for a man who isn't intimidated by a strong woman. (I've scared off one date by being able to start the gas powered hedge trimmer when he could not...)
I will never scurry away quickly with eyes and head cast down. I'll return the look with direct unwavering eye contact. Please do not categorize Seattle women. I've been living in Tacoma for 8 years, but spend alot of time in Seattle. I'm a Seattle native.
 circy

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 12/18/2007 7:26:12 PM
OMG......This state has the most single moms.....Why did I not get the memo. Crap....Now I'm going to have to get one to stay trendy

One thing I have noticed is that you all are in the (what the city folk call) the boonies/ B. F. E. Of course they are going to have kids.....they moved the BFE (most likely with the person that gave them the kids) to raise a family. If you want to find women without children then you might want to come to Seattle.

Also this is a two way street. There are ALOT of guys on this sight that also have kids and I feel the same way about them. They are cute but I don't want to be a mom for them. A cat is enough for me.
 tanzanite99901

Joined: 7/10/2007
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Posted: 12/18/2007 7:41:50 PM
hey now, I'm in BFE and no kidlets..lol
 DoveOrchid

Joined: 2/12/2007
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Posted: 12/25/2007 3:29:47 PM
No kids here either. I have several girlfriends my age who are childfree by choice, not because they're infertile or crazy, as an earlier poster suggested. Luckily I like kids or I'd have a hard time dating in my age group. As someone mentioned earlier, it seems like a majority of single men 30ish and older have kids. There's nothing wrong with that as long as they acknowledge their responsibility. It's a shame people don't give single Moms more of a chance. If they have custody of their children then obviously they're doing something right and taking responsibility. A lot more than you can say for some of the single Dads out there.
 susu_1wa

Joined: 2/17/2006
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Posted: 12/26/2007 6:04:21 PM
I never had children by choice but I had the strangest dream the other night. I walked into a general mercantile type store, there was a man there going through some sort of records, mine, I believe. Maybe Akashic records. He looked at me and said, you do realize you are pregnant, don't you? I just shrugged my sholders, like "whatever" and picked up my coffee and walked out the door. Strange Huh?
 DoveOrchid

Joined: 2/12/2007
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Posted: 12/27/2007 11:22:11 AM
Susu~I would freak out if I dreamed I was pregnant. After I finished freaking out, I'd remember that it's not possible for me to be in that condition Are you nurturing a life in a way other than pregnancy? Are you ready to give birth to an idea or an invention? Maybe "whatever" it is, you're not ready to acknowledge it. That's my crack at interpreting your dream...how'd I do?
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