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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:25:05 PM | Kids all grown and have left the nest, was wondering if it would ever happen as my oldest is 38 and youngest 24, once all moved quick changed the locks
Now life is all about me, been a daughter, wife, mother, business owner, husband finds a girlfriend after 26 yrs. (trust, the best thing that could have happened, I replaced him with a convertible Mercedes 500SL, I got the better deal
Fired myself, took a year off and played, spoiled my three grand daughters, now finally going back to college, one of my license plate frames says, YES IT IS ALL ABOUT ME, and it was adult children who encouraged me to get on one of these sites, with their blessings, they wanna see their mama enjoy life, and that's exactly what I'm doing. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 12/30/2008 5:10:59 AM | You go girl!
We still need to party one of these days - but I'm no longer in the market for one of your Fiats. I got a CTS instead. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 12/30/2008 3:13:34 PM | Vax,
That's okay because I can't seem to part with any of them, they are all different colors, so I can color coordinate what I'm wearing with the car that matches best
Just won't let myself check e-bay or buy the auto trader anymore, I can't trust myself, there are still a few colors I could use | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 12/30/2008 3:15:54 PM | Whoops, forgot, whenever your ready to party write to my person e-mail, I only work
12 hours a week,don'twant to over do it, besides would like to be here as my house is being torn down. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 1/11/2009 10:41:20 AM | | Wow where do I start, I met a wonderful woman with three grown up kids 18-30. here is what I found they hate me not because they even know me,, but they see moms free hot lunch counter disapearing. she pays there bills sometimes, they live there when they can't afford thier own place and so on. I finnally ended the relationship because I could see them draining her and me being made the jerk when I suggested that she cut the apron strings. she dosn't have toilet paper so here kid can drive nice cars and work part time. Enuf said... hey I really respect the guy who raises some other deadbeats kids ,,, my stepfather did that and he is the MAN | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 2/26/2009 2:28:07 PM | Remember this........
For every single woman raising her kids alone, there is a man out there
that "fathered" (donated sperm to make) these kids.
So, I ask you this, where is the father and is he paying child support? If he
is paying child support, that's a plus. In the state of Washington, if you are
a step-father and then divorce the Mom of the kid you were housing, then you
are also responsible for that childs' welfare.
So, if you are looking for "long-term", you best check out the whole
situation, ask questions if you think he/she left something out. You
don't walk into dynamite factory with a burning match!
If you are just looking for "dating" or "hang-out", rethink that too....dating
leads to intimate opportunities. Protect yourself and protect the person you are intimate with. I know, "like taking a shower with your clothes on", But, you may prevent an umwanted pregnancy.......and that is a good thing.
Be fair, and don't blame the woman entirely. And, God doesn't make
mistakes either, God don't make NO junk!!
Keep on fishing for "The One".........make an effort to get to know the person, one
date doesn't do it, and try to leave sex out of all situations, I know that is the #1 topic for guys....just try to behave like a gentleman. You will catch more flies with honey, and you can use the flies for bait!! Really make an effort, give it 3 weeks, and if she/he looks like misery for the rest of your life, run like hell and find another fish to fry!!
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 4/10/2009 10:20:28 PM | My primary reason for not wanting to date a single mother, as I've stated in my profile, is a matter of priorities in her life, and my general lack of want for children to begin with. I typically like children in small doses, I almost never hate children (though they often grate on my nerves; I'm an adult, I can be patient and vent where the little ones' psyches won't be permanently scarred...), I just don't want them.
If I'm dating someone exclusively, she's #1 in my life. In issues where I have to make a choice between her and someone/something else, I choose her. She's my primary consideration, because she's the woman I love.
A single mother cannot provide that same consideration to a man. Every single mother you find, whether on this website, another personals site, or just in general every-day conversation, is going to say that her children come first. This is logical; the children can't care for themselves, they need someone to care for them until at least the middle of high school (and legally for another couple years past that). But to me it's unacceptable to come in #2 when I make her #1.
Likewise, it's nice to sometimes do things on a spur of the moment, and single parents just don't have that kind of luxury. Everything they do has to be planned around their children. It's just too much hassle. I don't think single mothers are remotely "bad", I simply think they're bad for me. | |
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Sorg85
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Joined: 2/22/2009
Msg: 143 | |
| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 4/16/2009 3:27:57 PM | I think it's just this site rather than the state itself. I've come across profiles of single mothers of the age range 20-26 years.
Maybe it's just a single parent friendly site or just some coincidence? | |
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OB71
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Joined: 4/6/2009
Msg: 144 | |
| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:17:49 PM | I think it should be quite obvious why online dating has a disproportionate amount of mothers. When you have children in two you can't be galavanting around the hot spots easily unless you have a built in babysitter.
I recommend those who are looking for childless women to spend more time out and about rather than at home in front of a computer. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 4/24/2009 1:21:37 PM |
I think it should be quite obvious why online dating has a disproportionate amount of mothers. When you have children in two you can't be galavanting around the hot spots easily unless you have a built in babysitter.
I think you are right on that one. Kids can have a hard time sharing mom with her dates and that makes it difficult for guys dating single moms too. I think every challenge has its rewards and sometimes they are proportionate!
Now if it was your kid that got you on this site and then searches prospects for you...they probably won't give any potential dates a hard time!  | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:30:51 PM | | lol I can't believe how many judgemental men there are. Just because a woman is raising the children on her own does not mean its because shes a bad woman. It's called lazy pos men who can't be mature and responsible for their part. I don't date guys for them to help me with my kids. I have managed that just fine on my own in the past and will continue to manage that on my own. I'm a very independent woman and a damn good mother. I don't need to rely on any man to provide me support financially. It'd just be nice to have a man be there for me emotionally and physically. I don't give a damn about the money. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/27/2009 11:11:43 PM | Personally I feel a parent should give 100% to raising their children (especially younger kids) without adding the dynamic of dating and trying to establish a relationship.
Nothing prevents a parent from waiting until kids are out of the house. Is it really possible to divide ones time with dating, while still providing an acceptable parent/child relationship? Parenting is a full time job, and some of us refused to neglect our kids just to go on a date.
Why would a single parent spend time with someone that has absolutely no input or concern for their kids, when that same time could be spent enjoying quality of life pursuits with the ones they love?
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:13:02 PM | hmmmmmmmm,
Well 35 here no kids, been in some relationships with kids and had both
good and bad experiences, it's tough to raise another mans child.
And, i'm discovering in this dating age bracket most women do have children
of some age, and ... Well crap I love kids, I work with kids for a living, but
I just got out of a relationship with a woman with a teenage daughter..
She was sooo mean to me, bitter about her ex, bitter about her spoiled only child
and took it out on me..
Anyway, I put that i want to have fun on my profile, and the girls im talking
to think i am just looking for that one thing, well im not! I wanna socialize
and have a great time, I love kids but since i dont have my own in no particular
hurry to commit to someone with kids, its a lot to take on | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:32:02 PM | You took the words right out of my mouth girl! Im not looking for a baby daddy or a sugar daddy.... im looking for an equal for ME. My kids have a dad and I am capable of supporting them so I dont need someone to do it for me.
Honestly I have ran into a ton of single dads that have never been married on this site... what does that say for them? scared of commitment?
My kids are 6 and 9. They know they have a dad. They just want to see mommy happy in a relationship. Kids are smarter then we give them credit for being. I also think you can put your man and your kids in the center of your universe.
There is my 2 cents. | |
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