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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/7/2009 8:43:21 AM | | wow the stereotypes in this thread are alarming. not all men or women come from the same circumstances. and not every woman that happens to be a parent without a partner is like the few that you may have dated. some really bitter voices in here. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/7/2009 12:19:04 PM | | I have a child. I didn't ask to be a single mom. I actually though my marriage would last forever. It didn't. So now I'm to be ridiculed by some pansy ass dip shit on a DATING SITE because I chose to better my life and that of my child by leaving my drug addict husband? Some Latina **** that probably isnt even a citizen is gonna tell me I gave up too easily and that I have "no family values" because I'm not Catholic? I'm a money hungry gold digger looking for a meal ticket? I'm a control freak? I'm on Welfare? All because I'm a single mom in Wa state. Nice, people. Remember, we are all here because we are lonely, bored, or missing something. Why do you want to close so many doors? | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/7/2009 12:31:58 PM | | Sorry. I guess that was a little abrasive. I'm just so sick and tired of people stereotyping single moms or refusing to date them. Some of us are not in that catagory by choice. And guys, why do you think we are all desperately searching for our next victim? How paranoid... | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/7/2009 2:08:01 PM | strange because what i read in this site, the women that have kids seem less desperate and more secure cause they do have kids...........and seem to want to meet someone but if they dont they sound pretty happy with their lives.
so sheloki, not all of us think that. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 2:45:47 PM | Sheloki,,,,, amen sister... there are a whole lot of stereotyping going on here. I applaud you for standing strong, taking responsibility for your children and going on. Pffft to the ones that want to degrade all single mothers, or single parents for that matter...
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/19/2009 2:45:11 AM | I don't know for sure if you are getting the information about how many woman have kids here by pictures or by actually (this seems to be a rare thing for both gender classes) reading the profiles; however, I would like to point out that not every one with a kid in the pictures is a mom I for example HATE cameras and the only picture of me that I have that is after I turned 13 is with me and my nephew; however, I do NOT have kids of my own. On the flip side of the coin I have also noticed that most of the guys profiles I look at either have kid listed or it just does not say which for me says they have kids but don't want to scare people off by admitting it to early we all might also want to consider that one of the reasons that parents of either gender use sites like this one is because of how hard it is to pick up on the guy/girl you like with kid in tow. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/19/2009 12:42:28 PM | ))
some of us are not against kids, but at 50 if you have never had them around its confusing to know anything about it since you have no experience at all.
i am 52 , 1 time.....someone i had a summer romance with that had a 4 month old baby who i let move in because we got along great and she really needed a safe place to stay and some help, but then she wanted to move back home to be with her family far away and that was not great for me because i really liked that kid, but i understood and was not moving to indiana......thats it.
so i just wonder what woman with kids wants someone with zero experience. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/22/2009 3:57:50 PM | Good job picking a drug-addicted husband... or did he start drugging in secret after the nuptials and you didn't know? 
Nice bit of racism there too... but hey, who doesn't like to stereotype people? | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 10:44:35 AM | thank you fleur......I thought she was talking to me and i read and read to see what i had said. I see what she was referring to now. but now I cant find the original poster....oh well i seem to be lost, lol
i think this moving crap just has me too stressed and worried........somehow getting here sure seemed a h-ll of alot easier.........i am mentally exhausted,
its pretty overwhelming. | |
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/28/2009 1:40:12 AM | tyeh, it was the blonde chick complaining about her drug-addicted who she decided to have a child with... IDIOT!
STAY AWAY MEN
Its really easy to NOT BECOME PREGNANT... somehow I'[ve been on this earth 30 years and not had any children... they're kind of a bummer on the lifestyle...
Plus, who would want to be responsible for someone elses 'mistake'... Gotta love that... I had a child with a druggie, how was i to know!
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| Are there any WA Ladies without kids???
Posted: 8/31/2009 1:58:06 PM | | I'm single attractive with no kids and have the same kind of female friends too. Moral of the story is: If you believe you're defeated, you will be. Whatever you choose to blame as your reason for remaining single will become a self- fulfilling prophecy, and possibly even push contenders away who want winners and optomists over blamers and losers. I say -check your beliefs, look for absolutes, especially statements such as 'All women.'.., or, "all women where I live..." | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 11:19:20 PM | Block9buster,
Of course I didnt know he was a druggie when I married him. But once I found out I left. If that makes me less in your eyes then you must be blind. But then, I really dont give a flying F what you think. Get a haircut. MORON, lol. I'm so insulted!
And the "racist" comment was earned. She was ripping on non-catholics. But, you probably didn't even read it.....
At least I dont have 5 kids with some loser because I dont believe in birth control. Oh but if I did, I could drive my escalade to the welfare office. I wouldnt even have to swallow my pride. What pride? If you cant feed'em, dont breed 'em. Rocket science! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 7:53:22 PM | | But do you seriously expect me to NOT say anything when someone calls me a "moron" and an "idiot" ? I'm the kind of woman who sticks up for herself! Maybe you prefer those who are meek and never outspoken. It's all just a matter of taste. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 8:11:52 PM | I do expect you to stick up for yourself most of the time.
These forums aren't worth getting into a bickering match over especially with someone you don't know and will most likely never meet.
To me Shituff like that puts a damper on my mood and it isn't worth it. JMO | |
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Sheloki! I agree way too much stereotyping in here.
