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mermi
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Joined: 4/29/2007
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 5/24/2007 9:00:18 PM | | Amen to that sister!!! Why do men take slight flirting into full blown i want to sleep with you now, sure havent met ya but i will suck on ya no problem. I am really getting tired of the same old crap.....and u guys wonder why we get our dander up sheeeesh, u dont see me showing private things on a web cam......And thats all i got to say about that | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 5/24/2007 9:04:25 PM |
Anyone over size 8/10, what you talking about!! For gods sake! You know the actual UK average dress size is a 16! You need to get with the programme
So just because the average is a 16, does that suddenly stop it from being big? Jeez you ladies that defend anything female just because a guy says he likes this or that. The size 16 women may be great people and wonderful women, but they aren't built for everyone to be attracted to.
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:56:13 AM | Being the loudest person in the room...
talking a lot but never really saying anything worth listenning to....
Constantly using the word"like..."
Using so much perfume that the room for hours retains that sickenning sweet smell...
Posting cliches on the profiles. For ex."I like to laugh and hang out with my friends and have a good time" Come on, most people like that! It's like saying"I like to feel good" be original!
Not having any interests besides dancing , watching American Idol and having a good time. Read a book!Develop an educated opinion about something!
And the final thing: tatoos...
What you may think is attractive and daring to most men spells"I'm a slut" | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/6/2007 5:49:20 PM | MOST MEN???
Count me out.
There's a thread about people's opinion on Tattoos, and I think you will find that most men do not think a woman with a tattoo or many is a slut. I personaly find closed minded idiots offensive. But hey, to each their own.
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/6/2007 9:26:42 PM | A few top ones for me.
1. Not washing hands after going to bathroom! Why? It's just plain sick!
2. Super short hair cuts and wearing pants that look like a man. Why? It's just plain ugly!
3. Unkind to animals. Why? It shows that your a cold hearted person and someone I want nothing to do with. | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/6/2007 9:38:43 PM | A Ladies Response:
1. Shallow: ....I understand why you say this
2. Unhealthy habits...I'm not talking about splurging every once in a while and eating a whole cheesecake, I couldn't pick on that for obvious reasons...as one who could not cast the first stone on that one. However, being 200 pounds overweight, not having any energy, claiming you are on a diet (when its more like a seafood diet). Drinking more than on the weekends. Smoking more than the Marlboro man. ( I feel the same way about men)
3. No common sense..(so no dumb blondes?:)
4. Low intelligence...(I can't stand it if I can't keep a conversation with a man)
5. Racist and or bigoted...( I moved from Kentucky of all places to a seemingly WAY MORE racist town, and nothing makes me ill faster.. I hate racism.
6. Religion freak, thinking yours is the only true way (understandable)
7. Always angry...I think women have a problem with this way more than we realize.. this also goes head to head with "always bi*chy"
8. You flip out major psycho whacko for 7-14 days every month during "that" time.
(7-14????what... I'm only like that...3-4 tops)
9. Lazy (BIG pet peeve with men)
10. Slob(BIG pet peeve with men)
11. Judgemental..(men can be this way too!)
12. Poor Hygeine..(yuck)
13. Hypocrite...(good one :)
14. Won't let the baggage from the ex go. ( I tend to date men that have this problem)
15. Catty (very very good one)
16. Manipulative (maybe because I'm younger, but I have this problem with men)
17. So uptight you have to oil the crack of your butt or else you'll squeak worse than the tin man (wow)
18. Constantly analyzing things 24/7. Stop asking me what I'm thinking, typically I'm not or if I am, I want to think about it before talking about it.
"Whatcha thinking?" ( I have been REALLY guilty of this is the past)
"I'm pondering what the effect on Picasso and Van Gogh would have been if they drank absinthe and smoked weed while painting"
"Huh?"
"See...never mind..."
19. NOT eating at least some of my cooking and not liking to try new things food wise.
( unless it's either way undercooked, or just a gross combination like caviar and noodles....?)
20. Being freaked out and closed minded and not liking travel. ( I hate even girl friends that are like this)
21. I'm a sock dropper...always have been always will be...if my parents couldn't beat it out of me, neither will you...let it go...
(amen)
22. Low sex drive. If I wanted little to no sex, I'd have stayed married.
(I've never been married, but would HATE being in a relationship with a man that had a low sex drive)
23. Jealous ( big problem for females, and males alike)
24. Having more than 3 nipples. (what?) | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/6/2007 9:41:55 PM | | goomba2 im just wondering if during ur recent dates...u actually talked to much..cause by ur posts...u are quite long winded...or is the net ur way of actually getting ur point accross.... sounds to me like ur contemplating switching sides... | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/6/2007 9:55:07 PM | Ok...for starters...its "like" TaTToo....and just because us women decide to "like" get ink don't mean we are sluts...thats just "like" another dumb opinion from some balless man deciding what men think....U wanna see my TaTToo....thats fine..don't mean i wanna "like" **** you...In my "like" educated experience...U Need to "like" read better Books uve been a good audience | |
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Joined: 8/3/2007
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/7/2007 3:11:12 AM | Gum chewing - yeah, spot on
Getting wasted on first date
Foul mouth - tbf that's slightly hypocritical on my part, I can and have been known to swear like a trooper although I don't in front of ladies
Materialism - If we're together I will buy gifts for sure, but my credit card is not an extension of your personal slush fund, I was going to spend that money on a nice meal perhaps in a Parisian restaurant, something we both enjoy, not a Valentino dress. Alternatively, not caring about appearance is a huge turn off.
The inability of some girls not to hide waist flab is also pretty repulsive, I don't really want to see navels. Some girls can get away with it, more can't.
On-Date texting every 5 minutes - how are you ever going to persuade me that I'm the most important person in your life (if I ever turn out to be) if you'd rather text your mate than talk to me? | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/7/2007 3:26:35 AM | Just to name a few...
- Excessive make-up.
- Pink, on anything or anyone.
- Old fashioned views regarding dating and relationships.
- Man bashing.
- Physically inactive.
- Unhealthy lifestyle/eating habits.
- Manipulation.
- TyPing.... ..lIKe...THis.. | |
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| Guys - what are major turn off's for you that we WOULDNT guess at?
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:34:38 AM |
what other things really turn you off a woman quick fast? stuff she might not even be aware of, or aware that you find unappealing????
Finger nails that are chewed down.
Being snobbish to a guy who approaches them, just because they aren't attractive. (Its a huge sign of her personality, how she treats men she isn't interested in. Not lying to get him to leave, like saying she's taken when she's single, then turns around and tells me she's single. Lies are lies, I wont start a relationship with a woman who does it.)
Ripped clothing when thats not the style she happens to be going for lol, no I dont mind bluejeans with the frayed areas all over them. But if she's wearing a dress or nice skirt/shirt and she didn't bother to check it before wearing it and sew it then its a turn off.
Treating strangers with disrespect, unless they deserved it (happens sometimes)
Being comepletely wrong and deluded about political issues, sort of like treehugging far left liberal fanatics ( a few far right ones too)
I love your first choice of obvious's... shows you know it matters even to women and not afraid to say it like many women. I'm wagering a bet you dont bash men for being that way either. I'll think about this question today at work and see if I can think up other little things that matter. | |
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