| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 7:44:58 AM | | Everyone thanks for the feedback, Ya i know it sucks right, that people should be judged on whats on the inside and nice guys should get the girl right? Couldn't agree more, but in the Real world people are superficial. Most guys will date women shorter then them, and most women will date men taller then them. And if you're the exception to that rule then I applaud you. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 7:53:28 AM | | Height isn't important to me. The most important factor is the girl herself. Personality, looks, attitude, and her outlook on life is what really speaks when it comes to my interests. But... I have always dated a girl that's shorter than me. Coincidence? Prolly. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:23:11 AM | Height is important for the majority of men. I'm laughing to myself at the thought that perhaps women think that men tend to date women shorter than themselves because girls almost always insist on a taller guy. Actually, the preference works both ways.
I have to disagree with this. Based on what I have read on the forums and personal experience, the majority of men do not care about height. One time I read about 50 m4w personal ads. Only 4 of these ads mentioned height. Only 2 ads specifically mentioned that they wanted a shorter woman. 2 ads actually mentioned that they wanted a woman taller than a certain height. Then I read about 50 w4m ads. About 20-25 of these ads mentioned that they wanted a taller man.
To the best of my knowledge, most men who are average height or taller are not likely to date a woman who is taller than them. On the other hand, guys who are shorter than average seem much more likely to date a woman who is taller than them.
The average height of a man is 5' 9". Less than 5% of women are 5'9" or taller. They wouldn't necessary refuse to date a taller woman. It's just that there are very few women that would be taller than a man of average height. Laws of probability. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:33:26 AM |
On the other hand, guys who are shorter than average seem much more likely to date a woman who is taller than them.
^^^^^^^^^^^ Huh? Iam shorter than average and I wouldn't most likely date a women taller than me........I would prefer to date a woman shorter than me | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:59:28 AM | | no, height is not very important! its whats on the inside that counts...that and i have never dated a tall woman i had to go up on!!! | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 4:17:28 PM | maybe im stating the obvious.. there s an old saying 'horses for courses' theres all types in this big old world and if choice wasnt so diverse then the human race woulda died out long ago some woman like big men some small an visa versa come on if i could find a fairly attractive gal fer me ide be more interested whats inside her head than how small or tall she was an to the guy earlier ide rather bend over to kiss an angel every day than a devil whos a bit taller but then im average height 5ft 10 so its not really an issue fer me in closing in my experience normal height guys are not bothered | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 4:33:36 PM | | a little bit but its not a deal breaker. its a little weird on 1st impressions and at 1st meetings. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 6:39:15 PM | | Personally I would never date someone taller than myself. It just makes me feel a little self-conscious. I'm not a tall guy anyway, I'm only 5'8" and I get told from women all the time that I'm short. Oh well, that's my height, take it or leave it right? From my experience, short women seem to love tall men over 6' and tall women don't really seem to care much. Just as long as they are not shorter than them. I just prefer to be taller then her and I think most women prefer that as well. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 7:22:08 PM | | Honey, I'm 4' 5".... I'd give anything to be in your shoes!!!! I wouldn't even care what guys think!!! | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:28:02 PM |
Does this bother men?
No, it doesn't bother much at all, I'm slightly under 6' and wouldn't see this as an issue unless the woman was unusually short (under 4'10) or tall (over 6'2). It is usually women who seem to have height issues with men, often insisting that they are taller than themselves. If it's any consolation, I'd say 5'10" is a nice height, and everything else being equal, I'd go for a woman around this height! | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/11/2008 10:40:55 PM | | To most guys.....I don't think so.....I love 'em tall....I love 'em short.....of course, if she was as tall as Wilt Chamberlain or short as a fire hydrant......that might be a problem....lol.... | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/12/2008 12:04:02 AM | to the OP, don't worry, 5'10 is a good height! Im 5'11 and most of the time don't wear heels because then i feel a little "too tall"...if there's such thing! I dont mind wearing heels, but then i dont want to be towering over people! | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 5/12/2008 4:38:46 AM | | It's not that I "prefer" dating a woman thats taller then me, but it certainly doesn't bother me. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 10:48:57 AM | | I honestly don't have a height preference, but being 5'8, it is excedingly rare that a woman over about 5'7 will give me the time of day. I won't get into the overstated obvious facts, that people are superficial, have their preferences, yadda yadda..but I don't think height is as big an issue for men as it is for women. I have dated women as short as 4'11 and as tall as 5'11 (once..most have been 5'7 or shorter) and have never had a problem with it either way. But I usually just ignore or move past women that are taller than about 5'8-5'9, since the chance that she would be interested in me is somewhere between 0 and 0%, not because I find HER height an issue. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 11:11:10 AM | | Some guys it might. I guess it depends on the guy. I'm really short at 5' 6" and I seem to get girls that are always taller. never bothered me. i kinda like it. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 11:58:10 AM | | Being 6'6" myself. I must say I prefer women who are shorter than me. But I do like tall ones. 5'10" is just about right. I met this one woman who was about 4in taller than me, and it kinda freaked me out. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 2:28:35 PM | Even women worry about this height thing? Haha.
Height is far less of a concern than weight, for me personally. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 2:31:09 PM | | Some men do care about height. But generally speaking women care more about height than men do. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 3:52:42 PM | | Yes. I can speak for myself. I won't date anyone over 5'9". I'm 6'1" myself. Just something about a tall woman. Not attractive to me. I like to be the man and I like to look down at my girl. Not eye to eye. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 7:27:39 PM | | I never met a woman taller than me before. I wouldn't mind at all if I eventually met someone taller than myself. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 8:31:45 PM | I prefer taller women. They are better to slow dance with, easier to kiss, and their long legs look great in skirts!  | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 11:27:30 PM | | lets face it..its not brain surgery..MOST men prefer a woman a few inches shorter than them..and MOST women prefer a a guy who is a a few inches taller than them..so in answering your question oP..i would say your height might be a problem for most guys who is shorter than you..especially if you have to bend a little to kiss them.. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/11/2008 11:29:45 PM | | however i must say though, that womne in general are usually more concerned about height when it comes to dating.. | |
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| Is height important guys? Posted: 6/12/2008 3:47:32 AM | | Youre' actually NOT super tall for a woman of your age. Most guys your age a six foot and then some. People have all been growing taller for the last century. | |
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