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 rockondon

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:55:17 PM

I once had a guy tell me he was thinking of me when he masturbated

as tasteless as the comment was, it would have been meant as a compliment.
 kkiirrkk

Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:57:23 PM
LOLOL at junipermoon!

Id be glad that I can get their rocks off by being elsewhere, but annoyed that I wasn't there to assist in the fun. Really, no biggie in my boat.
 sac_suga

Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/7/2007 10:21:11 PM
ive had guys say that to me as well. its only creepy or gross when the guy is someone who ud rather run into a lion's den wearing beef jerky panties than ever think of making out w/. (believe, ive had those too). but to be quite honest, i am flattered, and even a bit turned on when a guy i'm dating/in a relationship w/ calls me and tells me this, or better yet, calls me mid-act.

i think its the ultimate compliment because the body doesn't lie.
 hapeenurse

Joined: 5/5/2006
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Posted: 6/7/2007 11:43:24 PM
^ what she said (haha especially the part about the beef jerky panties hah!)

wait, who was the guy? was he your boyfriend or just some random guy you know who said that? it definitely depends on who says it.

If the guy I'm dating says it , yay for me! (and it is a bit of a turn on!)
if it's the weird guy I see on the subway on the way home from work every morning - not so cool!
 autofocus

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/8/2007 9:43:38 AM
If the woman told me she thought of me while masturbating...and she was using a toothpick or a thimble - no, I don't think I'd be flattered at all.
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 6/8/2007 10:16:03 AM
I think he was asking if you might give him a hand.
But look at it this way: you're good-looking enough to be in a porn mag.
Now that I've seen your close-up, I can understand it. You're very, very pretty.

If someone told me that, I'd take it as a compliment. But it kinda creeps me out, when I get told this sort of thing and then get hit on by someone who I really, REALLY am not attracted to. Anyone who thinks men are more aggressive when it comes to sex, hasn't seen a woman when she's gunning for a man. Some women just won't take no for an answer!
 justmeandmax

Joined: 6/4/2007
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Posted: 6/8/2007 11:41:19 AM
[I would have to tell him if it only took him 5 minutes, he wasn't doing it right... then walk away. "Priceless" Mominatrix

Besides, if he only takes five minutes he must be just a boy. Your not a man until you have felt a woman quiver in your arms. So sad for his girl friend...

I've had this happen to me a few times. A couple were before they had me and yes shortly after they got the real deal. (who am I to deny them the pleasure) If a girl was to tell me that, and I wasn't with someone else I would have to ask if I could watch and then join in after the first arch of her back and get alittle quiver out of her just for good measure.
 Cort1295

Joined: 12/26/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 6/8/2007 11:53:07 AM
It really depends who's giving said compliment. I can only think of two women I know that I'd almost expect to say something like that, and with them it wouldn't weird me out.
 Lewisz

Joined: 5/18/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 6/16/2007 2:32:34 PM
compliment to you that he was thinking about you. He wants to **** you. Why not ask him to jerk off with you in the room? See what happens and report back. Could be an interesting session.
 Anazdaddy

Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 8/1/2007 11:03:37 AM
I would take it as a compliment, but in 30+ years of life, some 18+ of masturbation, and nearly 12 of sexual activity, I have yet to hear a woman tell me this. So maybe it would freak me out. Who knows?
 njpuck

Joined: 6/6/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 12:17:13 PM
I don't think its a compliment as much as I guess the truth of the matter. It was a way of saying, "You're sexy" in what, yes, can be an extraordinarily creepy way.

If a woman said such a thing to me, I think I'd be curious more to do with the scenario she had setup. Was I an apple thief in her father's orchard? Was I a marine, cut off from my platoon in her country, our love the only thing keeping us warm? Was I a UPS delivery man with a flat tire, no gas, a father in the hospital, a chance that I was dying from caringtoomuchitis with the only cure being raw hot sex?

Inquiring minds want to know. I want to know!
Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 8/1/2007 12:20:41 PM
I think sometimes some things are better left unsaid.

I had a yucky pig say that to me and I offered him a few less teeth for his next visit to the dentist!

Before offering up that kind of info, I think it best to know the person a bit!!!
 Corvus

Joined: 11/29/2006
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Posted: 8/1/2007 12:30:19 PM
lol

Well, if someone told me that, I'd think they are a bit "too" open with me. I love openness but keep a few things to yourself :).

It could make things awkward while I was around these people, I think, but I don't know. If I was attracted to th... you know what, I don't think I'd want to know. I really dont.
 Nice guys rock!

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 1:31:54 PM

Hmm... sexy naked woman on a horse... covered in roses...

Yeah, I wonder why you get such messages.



HAAA, I was going to say the same thing.



But, If a woman told me she was looking at my pic and masturbating I might offer to help her.


 Nice guys rock!

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 1:34:02 PM

ok...so...i printed out the photos of all the men on this thread, enlarged them and tacked them to the ceiling over my bed...details at 11:00.

anything else i can do for you gentlemen?



Throw out the roses.
 randomstoic

Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 2:13:01 PM
It depends on whether you are far into a relationship or have just met. I would take it as a compliment, but I think it is the type of honesty that nobody wants after having just met someone.
 greaywolf

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 8/1/2007 2:17:18 PM
It was probably ment as a complement, personaly I'd keep that sort of stuff to myself until we were in a relationship.

No I wouldn't be offended I'd be flattered.
 greaywolf

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 8/1/2007 2:41:39 PM

anything else i can do for you gentlemen?


Sell tickets.




Who will you think about first? Because.....well....I'd rather not be second....


I’d rather be last




Anyone who thinks men are more aggressive when it comes to sex, hasn't seen a woman when she's gunning for a man. Some women just won't take no for an answer!


Yeah I’ve been the victim of that a few times. Sometimes you have to tell them you got neutered by accident when the doctor was circumcising you.
 Lyricallady

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 8/1/2007 3:43:57 PM
Once, while in a long-distance relationship, he was told me he was looking at my photo and imagining where my lips belonged...
I couldn't help myself... it became mutual!
Awwwww cum on...I had to join in the fun!
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 70
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Posted: 8/1/2007 3:49:46 PM
they don't have to tell me that...I assume they do it already

And I would never tell a woman such drivvel...what I do in my private time is my business and mine alone.
Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 8/1/2007 4:12:02 PM
Yes, and no.

If it's someone I'm involved with, then it's a huge compliment.

But, recently there was someone I almost met and we talked on the phone a few times. He told me one night he masturbated about 6 times thinking about me, then the next day said he masturbated 4 times that day (yeah, he was a busy boy!).

I felt like he was putting a lot of sexual pressure on me in some ways, as he knew I'd not have sex with him for a while, plus when it finally happened I felt like I had to live up to something in his mind.
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 72
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Posted: 8/1/2007 4:15:59 PM
masturbation is for married men
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 8/1/2007 10:11:02 PM
LOL.....very good "bus"

OT.....Women tell me this all the time.......I just wish they would send money......lmao...

Wait....that was said by a woman needing money before...... I say.....meet and make real......you can "play in the sand" anytime.......

Just my opinion........
 Doos

Joined: 8/5/2006
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Posted: 8/1/2007 10:20:51 PM
Sounds like you've had it a bit rough, why not take your pants off and tell us all about it.
 thatlostmemory

Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 8/1/2007 10:26:57 PM
"Let's picture this please, your alone with Hannah Thumb and her four Sisters, while thinking of someone else? Ain't that like cheating?? I degress."

Is it not, " I digress" ????

Or is it really " I degress" ??
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