| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 8/1/2007 10:39:10 PM | | Women do this sometimes as well. Have you heard that song years ago by the Divinyls (spelling) that goes something like this "Everytime I think about you... I touch myself...". You get the picture. I would be taken aback if a girl said this and I barely knew her. I wouldn't expect it. It depends on how long you've been talking. It is mean to say you stimulate me, I want you. If a woman is saying that stuff to me it is her way of complimenting me, I am turning her on... I would want it in a certain context, but some women also do this if they are very sexual. It is normal for me depending on context, though I wouldn't say this stuff to a girl I've barely talked to. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 8/2/2007 9:16:46 AM | I can't do that about every girl I know. I cannot do that about porn stars. I can't do that about women I'm not very attracted to. I cannot do that about a b*tch. I can only do that about a really attractive women with a really great personality, or at least someone who seems to be all that as far as I know about them.
If I give a woman anything less than a 9.5 in looks, personality or anything else, I'll stick to the porn. Massive compliment, in my case. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 8/2/2007 9:37:21 AM | My opinion is what does it matter? Repulsed or flattered, it's not going to stop them. Hell, I probably have a legion of 50+ year old homosexual men (Okay, maybe only 2... scary) and 16 yearold school girls (It happens when your slightly effeminate and love anime I have noticed... scary too) all have masturbated with me in their thoughts.
Masturbation is a pretty regular thing... and nothing is going to stop them from doing it, and who they think of while they do it.
Do I think any less of them for it? Not at all. Am I flattered? Well, I take it as a compliment, like I would from anyone else. It means that I am sexually attractive to someone else.
But, I think I know where the difference lies. It's obvious that a good amount of women put a lot more thought into their fantasies, and they very well could be possibly be special thoughts to them (I have a few like that, which I cherish... mainly memories, other's fictional.). Where as a good portion of my sexual thoughts, and from what I know, other men are the same way, it could be with anyone that we are a little bit attracted to, just to change up the flavour a little bit. Haha
So when a woman thinks of these random men off the internet having 'deep sexual fantasies' about them, the behavior could almost be viewed as stalker-like.
So, take it as you will... you're one in a (insert denomination here), but I would still take it as a compliment, and do often.
Now, my question is that how do these guys gather up the courage to tell you this?  | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/26/2007 6:31:44 AM | I masturbate to thoughts of guys I like. It's just fantasy. I'd think it was a big compliment if some guy was thinking of me while he beat his meat.  | |
|
| |
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/26/2007 7:06:11 AM | It all depends on whether I find that person attractive...honestly
If I don't think of him in a sexual way...it creeps me out, especially if I have given him no indication that I am interested in him.
If I do find that sexually attractive it's a compliment, it means he finds me attractive also.
Having no control over what another person thinks is reality, but in some wierd way it almost feels like an invasion of privacy. I surely don't understand that, but there it is. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/26/2007 7:11:31 AM | I wouldnt give a toss (pardon the pun) eitherway
If someone wanted to do that it doesnt affect me one way or the other and if they instead wanting to make potato voodoo effigies of me and stick pins in it that wouldnt phase me either
The actions of irrelevant strangers are, by proxy "irrelevant" | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/26/2007 7:16:10 AM | | Not offended at all... assuming those thoughts fell into the realm of normal and didn't involve interspecies erotica or something other sick act. | |
|
| |
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/26/2007 8:05:30 AM | I think its much fairer to just pick a member at random to milk yerself over
The only downside with that is it can be a bit more difficult when they dont have a photo | |
|
| |
| LOL!
Posted: 10/27/2007 9:59:52 PM | I'm masturbating to that photo of the elephant right now. If the elephant is offended in any way, I apologize.
That's a good one, lol. | |
|
| I love it, hahaha
Posted: 10/27/2007 10:09:20 PM | I masturbate to thoughts of guys I like. It's just fantasy. I'd think it was a big compliment if some guy was thinking of me while he beat his meat.
finneganne, you are a funny lady, let me add my 2 cents here as well. I would think it a nice compliment if I guy thought of me in his fantasy, just don't pass the line with me if the feelings aren't mutual on my end. | |
|
| |
| |
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/28/2007 6:42:29 AM | If it was just some person that I went out with and nothing developed, I would find it kinda creepy. I wouldn't be offended, just weirded out.
I would also be insanely curious as to what they visualized. lol  | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/28/2007 7:26:02 AM | Had a friend, she was talking to what she thought was a group of women, about the toy breaking down. A overheard the conversation and offered to purchase her a new one if she would let him watch. Now that is creepy.
A compliment until it is stalker like behavior. And if the dude told you that and it gave you the creeps, go with your gut on that one. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:46:54 PM | FYI-Dogs don't hump the leg of those that stimulate but rather of those they want to dominate. I am really getting a chuckle from reading this forum. I am new to this. I didn't realize strangers could be so entertaining. Thanks, People.
1a | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:28:25 PM | Would you rather a guy tell you That thinking of you helps him abstain from sex? just a thought.  | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:43:06 PM | | I had a girl once tell me the same thing. I could't act on it cause I was taken at the time. Such is life. BTW, it's a compliment. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:58:36 PM | Think what you want while you pleasure youself, your thoughts are free but it may be best to just kinda leave it out of the conversation when you talk to the CEO of your spankbank. You can really only gain uncomfortable silence from these comments. I don't mind if a woman thinks about me when she is masturbating. As long as her fantasies don't include painting her livingroom or putting a new deck on her home. For any of the ladies out there who are actively thinking of me while reaching self- satisfaction, Thank you!!!!
| |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 12/8/2007 2:51:01 AM |
As long as her fantasies don't include painting her livingroom or putting a new deck on her home.
Now that's a fantasy!  | |
|
| |
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 12/8/2007 11:11:44 AM | I agree with Pleasuregirl on this one....I had a guy friend tell me once that he fantasized about me while at work all day and after I picked my jaw up off the floor I was extremely flattered. But some random guy not so much flattered as a little creeped out.
I told a guy that once and after his eyes uncrossed he said....show me! He said it was one of the hottest things anyone had ever said to him. | |
|
| Masturbation to thoughts of you
Posted: 12/8/2007 5:19:46 PM | | i never masturbated to any fish photo,but i guess i would be flattered if a women told me she did | |
|
Home
login 
