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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/11/2007 5:24:39 PM | It's all about chemistry...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one guy considers fat another calls sexy, plastic augmented boobs are the bomb to some guys, others want the real thing. Many times the extremely good looking people like being the center of attention, they don't want a significant other drawing attention away from them. Sometimes the extremely good looking people are so egotisical that it turns people off. There is a lot to be said for confidence, but a lot of people take to the point of being shallow and egotisical. I've found that most people have beauty within, you just have to give them a chance to show it to you. The intimate bond of love .... isn't lust. True chemistry evolves. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/11/2007 8:45:15 PM | Because they are sick of being taken for just a good looking guy or girl (think how many beautiufl women end up with very unattractive men) Nobody wants to be liked or loved just for the way they look, there is more to them and it is possible that inside the "perfect" looking male or female, they feel unattractive and feel more comfortable with a person that is real, beautiful inside.
They dont care what the public thinks about who they should date and realize that after ten minutes of speaking with someone the "real" person shines through and the beauty from within outshines the skin, I have known many people that dont dress up, wear makeup or the latest fashion but if they did, could be just amazing looking, they just dont think it is attracting the best quality people. There is a photo floating around called if you have money, you can look good, it is ten very plain, well unattractive women, then they dress them up with hair, clothes and makeup and they are not recognizable, they are all movie star looking women. It is who you are that matters, not what you look like. Most people that are preoccupied with looks dont really know what is important in life. Money doesnt buy happiness, fame is a drag, power corrupts total power corrupts totally and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Dont judge a book by its cover, looks fade, and on and on,,, anymore???
Once you go out with the model, or great looking guy or girl and find out that they depend on their looks to make things happen for themselves, that they use looks to try to open doors, that they expect special treatment, and want you to tell them how wonderful they look all the time, you will realize how shallow and boring it all is.
We have all been trained to put so much stock in looks,,, every think why??? could it be that large corporations are making billions off your vanity? Clothes, makeup, hair products are huge money makers and the styles change so that each fall we will buy the "fall" colors, then the winter colors, then the new spring collection and the new HOT styles for summer, it will all sink in one of these days...
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/11/2007 9:25:32 PM | | Well these "good looking" guys end up with "average or ugly girls because they do not want just a show man on their arms, or don't want the constant "****ing". Most of the "beautiful" women are just looking for money, or noteriety, or the competition that lies in two attractive people as couple. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/11/2007 9:41:08 PM | It may just be my outlook, but what I see about those who are extra-beautiful, barbies, high-energy, motivated, etc.,
1. They require their brain to be tickled by a guy's wonderful intelligence, social charm, and superior wit. (Their perfect man: ...Bond....James Bond...)
2. Want to be engaged with people alot in general - loving social interaction, requiring people gatherings of various types as often as possible.
3. Get bored easily which causes them want to keep busy all the time (may say their interests are varied, many, or just type "IM me")
4. Want to be courted in a rather "high" style - love tuxedos, long dresses, etc. - or more conversely; on a horse.
5. Dancing must be on the agenda somewhere. (honestly, I wish I could dance..)
Now what am I saying? Well, firstly, it's a bit much for me. But I perceive it as high-maintenance. And not necessarily in the financial sense as most define it. But high-maintenance in the relational/social sense. If you have the time, money, interests, and styling required, then you qualify to keep her happy. Some guys may not feel the way I do because they fit into it personality-wise and can afford it. But that's what it takes, I guess.
I figure guys that look good, yet choose a less attractive woman may feel that she is more appropriate for him because she's less demanding, simpler, easier to accomodate, and may love him on a more foundational level.
Ultimately, maybe they feel that that kind of woman will appreciate them more and not present hoops to jump through to get to the heart. They may find their relationship to be a little less complex and not so metered with effort. If you like those kinds of challenges to deal with, then all I can say is you must be in heaven. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/11/2007 9:42:33 PM | Apparently looks is all that matters to some people....yea I'll take personality, thanks.
It's great if you are good looking, but as a good friend once said: looks will get you in the door, attitude will get you in bed, but personality will get you breakfast! Lol. I love that.
It's not all about looks (well to some people anyway:) | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/12/2007 7:37:37 AM | | excuse me but i think it's the other way round all the good looking guys here go for the good looking girls it's the same on every site i am on they dont give me the time of day because i am not a woman who resembles a supermodel i'm just a woman who has her heart in the right place searching for her dream man but i have never found it because i am too ordinary for those who arent!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/12/2007 8:23:04 AM | Atleast three guy's I know are married to women they are significantly better looking than ....they are good steady,successful, family type guy's and you'd think good looking women would have gone for them...
I think for whatever reason, more attractive women often go for jerks and end up divorced...women often need "hot" to be attracted ...they can't change that....but "hot" often means "jerk" and it's a bit of an epidemic. | |
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mam69
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Joined: 1/16/2007
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 9:47:57 AM | | I absolutely have to make a comment on this issue: first of all as far as i am concerned there are no ugly people in this world. many are blessed, yes, with more outer beauty than some, but---most people, men and women, who are lucky enoughto have this outer beauty or good looks, are usually self-centered, egotistical, arrrogant, and lack a good personality. I believe that we all should look to see what is on the inside of a person as well as their personality. There are alot of handicapped people who are rejected as many people judge on their misfortune. Long story, short, most good-looking people are all about themselves and in the long run, end up alone and unhappy. | |
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Joined: 1/4/2007
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 12:19:13 PM | I think that looks arent everything for some, and that is why. If a women is a really genuine/caring person, looks are only a part of the total attraction and, not everything. I myself though, cant say this totally, I really need both looks/personality to be totally attracted to a women, but there's nothing wrong with it and am glad that it is not all just one way with everybody, Theres more to it then that. .
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 12:19:37 PM | I think that looks arent everything for some, and that is why. If a women is a really genuine/caring person, looks are only a part of the total attraction and, not everything. I myself though, cant say this totally, I really need both looks/personality to be totally attracted to a women, but there's nothing wrong with it and am glad that it is not all just one way with everybody, Theres more to it then that. .
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Joined: 12/27/2006
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 12:53:25 PM | I've dated guys who could be considered more attractive and ones who would be considered less.
How did those who were less attractive happen? Well you see, I was drunk one night and....kiddin.
They usually had other stuff about them I found more attractive than their physical. They tend to have to have more of those things though than someone I'm physically attracted to. So in the end, they turned out to be more rewarding relationships to be honest. I want the best of both worlds though. | |
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 2:24:46 PM | Here's a story: I was at Denny's today with a gentleman that I care for. He is mentally challenged. We were sitting across from a table full of young men who were about 20-24 years old. One sat down and I noticed that he was a pretty good looking young man.
While we were waiting for our order, this guy leans over and says, with a big grin on his face, trying not to laugh, "Is that guy ****in' retarded?" and his friends started laughing. I replied "No, I asked him to do an impersonation of you".
This guy turned beet red and his friends thought that was pretty damn funny...so, how good looking is this guy NOW? This is a perfect example of "in the eye of the beholder", he turned pretty ugly pretty fast. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 3:39:35 PM | Aaaaaaaaah, I often ask myself this question!! In my profession I see husband and wife, boyfriend and Girlfriend partners all the time. Many many times I wonder to mysef how the hell she scored such a gorgeous guy??? Many times too I find that she's usually ****y or very picky so its not her stunning personality.
I came to the conclusion after many a sleepless night that she must suck a good **** | |
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HzChld
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Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 274 | |
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