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 Author Thread: Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
 ilnux

Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 276
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:56:13 PM
I can't get the really pretty ones to help me shave my back.

Just kidding, anyhow. This is a pretty lame thread. There is such a thing as personality. Mabey that just means that there is hope that people are attracted to things that matter. I have seen hot women with ugly guys too. What does it matter?

I am a good looking guy, I want a woman that will interest me until I am old and wrinkly. Old people aren't sexy, not trying to be mean but they aren't. I want someone to grow old with so I can't use Sexy as the dominat driving factor if I want longevity.


No sh!t
 scarletpimpernel

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 277
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/24/2007 11:53:03 PM
Some of the ugliest people I have ever met have been good looking from the outside.
 sexybaby692004

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 278
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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 12:12:23 AM
Some guys dont care about how the women looks like aslong as they have a good personality and a good heart. The pretty girls are not all that great anyways cause most of them are so caught up into their selves they dont give a shit about anyone else. They use their looks to get what they want. Those guys who go for the not so attractive girls they have already realized that about the HOT girls. So looks shouldnt have to matter to a person well you have to have some attraction for the person but it shouldnt matter if the guy has a smoking hot girlfriend or a not so attractive girlfriend. its all about the attraction that person reflects on them and not other people because their the ones who are with them not you.
And you why would u be so concerned about this? The unattractive girl isnt with you so why should u worry about it? are you one of those shallow kind of person who wont give a not so pretty girl a time of day because of her looks. doesnt personality matter to anyone these ****in days or does it always have to be about the ****in looks. I dont think thats right everyone should be treated equal thin average fat they should all be treated the same. its not what all about whats on the outside its whats inside too. there is you answer byes.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 279
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 1:42:30 AM
Simple: Because they do not consider them "average" or "ugly".
 hapeenurse

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 280
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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 1:45:03 AM
define too handsome, define average, define ugly

I dare ya.

guaranteed what one finds ugly another finds gorgeous.
 PlzDontCallMeDude

Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 281
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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 1:58:07 AM
How about this...

For everyone that thinks they're 'too good looking' to just be with someone 'average' or 'ugly' or the ones that think that they're too ugly to get anyone hot - it's all subjective.

A person that may be hot to one girl or guy is not going to be attractive to another. (We don't all have the same interests so who's to say that some guy is "too handsome"? Or some woman is "too average"?

Dig a little deeper people, could it be the guy is really not that bright and the woman is using him for a short term thing? Or maybe they're just a good match intellectually or like many adults, they see past the physical façade and there's more to the individual before them.

It has nothing to do with whether "these women will be better or easier to do or live with." What an inane generalization.

Could we possibly come up with a better thread than this one? Something worthwhile, possibly?
 serenityCW

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 282
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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 2:04:47 AM
i agree with above. this is a pretty lame thread. why would a man or a woman go out with someone really stupid or heartless or boring or narcissistic or humorless or vacant? some people are better looking than others, but not everyone "shines". it's the energy and the spirit and the way someone moves and how their eyes sparkle and what their voice sounds like and how they touch you...oh well, if you don't get it already, not sure that will answer your question.
 Bornnsyn

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 283
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 2:51:55 AM
Maybe the ugly women are better in bed.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 284
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 3:16:11 AM
Whereas one cannot and should not generalize, from experience, I can say that women who do not fit the society's/fashion's "generic" and most often wrong and ephemeral (temporal) standards for what constitutes "beauty" (see eg Rennaissance standards for women), TEND to be more passionate than those who do. The latter TEND to be rather aloof ... and thus much less fun, during the act.
 fuzzle

Joined: 4/27/2006
Msg: 285
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:00:08 AM
Maybe because ugly is only in the eye of the beholder, same as beauty!

Why do people post such stupid threads?
 Van_loon

Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 286
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:18:33 AM
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women????

Because not everyone is judgemental on looks like you Because he may have lots of things in common with the women you think is ugly.

Because Personality and connection is wat keeps you them together.

Because he loves her for her.

Because he may not want to be with a women that can have any man she wants so she not to the runner on him and hurt his feelings.

Love isn't finding the right person, but being the right person.
 MB58SC

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 287
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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:18:57 AM
Only they really know. I won't speculate.
 Chunky1

Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 288
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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:05:37 PM
Thanx for that one, I needed it!
 classic19

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 289
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:10:01 PM
Most girls that are considered "beautiful" are the Dumber/ B*tchy ones, any normal man dont wanna have that for a wife or girlfriend. Matter of fact what is considered as beautiful? one man garbage is another man treasure.
 *snoogins*

Joined: 12/8/2006
Msg: 290
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:24:26 PM
Just because you think a certain woman is ugly,doesn't mean every other man in the world finds her ugly.Each person sees differently.A lot of women find Brad Pitt the epitome of hunk,I don't find him to be too terribly attractive,give me Matt Damon any day.My best friend thinks the members of Good Charlotte are hot,I find them to be to edgy for my taste.Are you seeing my point here?

Now,as to the opinion that unattractive women don't like men--that is a blatant generalization ,albiet plucked from your own experience,so I won't accuse you of stereotyping--however--rest assured not all 'ugly' chicks are man haters.I'm pretty goofy looking,and I love men hell I love everyone,being b!tchy takes up too much energy and gives me a migraine lol... Whenever I see a couple where one person is much better looking than the other,I think to myself "Wow,they must really be in love,it's obvious they can see something in eachother that the rest of us cannot."

 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 291
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:28:59 PM
just remember that behind every beautiful woman is a ex who thinks she is a b!tch.
 SICILIANKISS67

Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 292
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:37:32 PM
hey my ex(s)certainly have no problem dating not so goodlooking guys and i wish ican say they have a personality to back it up but don't i guess i will chalked this one up to very very low self esteem thats for sure
 atlucas

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 293
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:42:29 PM
Born and bred into a superficial world, the "hot damns" quickly become material girls, and they can quickly become self-absorbed and look for ways to focus on themselves. Any guy as beautiful as them would distract attention from themselves. If the guy is ugly and gives her money, well, that's just a best-case scenario for her. I think the beautiful men may share a similar affliction.

I'd like a hot chick, but it doesn't seem they'd like me.
 Freude

Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 294
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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 2:59:00 PM

some people are better looking than others, but not everyone "shines". it's the energy and the spirit and the way someone moves and how their eyes sparkle and what their voice sounds like and how they touch you...oh well, if you don't get it already, not sure that will answer your question.


Now that deserves being repeated serenitycw!!
 AmeliaEarhart

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 295
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 3:07:39 PM
Because some plain women are fun, kind, charming, giving, sexy and intelligent, and some handsome guys happen to be attracted to that.
 classic19

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 296
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 3:38:47 PM
I THINK ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL. THE " UGLY " ONES ARE NOT UGLY THEY ARE ONLY FACIALLY CHALLENGED.
 punkette151

Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 297
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 5:55:44 PM
guys that are goodlooking go for girls that are ugly because most ugly chicks will **** a hot guy in a minute! no questions asked and theres a higher chance of the chicks being tighter as well as being a virgin... which guys like
 abrethoffreshair

Joined: 2/10/2007
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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 6:06:40 PM
Mind , personality , and they are always have alot more inside,

I have to agree with you there, Val...I've been there/done that with both...the handsome/good-looking ones AND the healthy/ugly ones...no offense guys...but I've discovered that the latter of the two DO seem to have more mind, personality & yes, indeed, they DO seem to have alot more inside. Could that be the reason we see the handsome guys with those ugly women? Well...it could be.
 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 299
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 6:11:58 PM

guys that are goodlooking go for girls that are ugly because most ugly chicks will **** a hot guy in a minute! no questions asked and theres a higher chance of the chicks being tighter as well as being a virgin... which guys like



More likely he wanted to get away from shallow thinking people like you.
 Rhett1

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 300
Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 2/26/2007 6:14:10 PM

guys that are goodlooking go for girls that are ugly because most ugly chicks will **** a hot guy in a minute! no questions asked and theres a higher chance of the chicks being tighter as well as being a virgin... which guys like
Sorry, but is that a joke post? So, let me get this right...a woman who is considered "ugly" is a slut, because she's sooooo desperate? Also, ugly women are tighter and virgins? HUH???? I've seen plenty of unattractive people who are in relationships. So, what is the theory about men who go for dumb women? (Yes, that was an insult...I thought I'd better tell you, in case you couldn't figure it out on your own) This is in the running for one of the stupidest posts I've read on the forums.
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