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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 1:11:39 PM | | Scarred for life, See these are young guys saying this. Ask someone older, PLEASE. Guys - Girls - Women - Men it doesnt matter, Prince - Princess, Beautiful - Not so Beautiful. We are all the same. I have met BBW - Skinny Women - Beautiful and not real good looking and Im 41 years old. If a woman liked me she brought me to the bed. I was married for 18 years of the 41 but since I have been single it seems like its how much the person likes you. Believe me Goergeous women are just as easy to get in bed as the ugly ones probably easier. Because I find the lesser beautiful or so scared to get hurt that they will usually be more conservitive. Where as a beautiful woman usually thinks love is in the wallet, diamonds, cars, etc. and are really more libiral with it because they think oooooh this rich handsome guy is going to fall in love with my cooch and I got him then. One thing about geaorgeous guys. You cant trust them because they know the georgeous and they know there is a woman around every corner that will give them what he wants on bed. Think you can trust this guy..... You go girl BBW are great...... | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 1:11:57 PM | Everyone does things for their own reasons, you can't lump all good looking people together, some are vain and some are not. Me? I have a vain side to me, I enjoy the attention I get, but I offset that attention by paying attention to the one I'm with. I never ignore her friends or others at the party.
Back to the topic, why do good looking men go out with women who look average or perhaps not even average? I'll tell you why some do. It's because they see more than you can or do in a person. If you have to ask that question, perhaps you should look at the woman and ask yourself, "why can't I be less superficial, and more sensitive?".
People are complex, and knowing them requires that we spend some time and real effort to bring about an understanding. We can't do this if we just lump them all together in little piles, all sorted out. Fat ones here, noisey ones way over there, knockouts in front, rich ones behind the velvet rope and bouncer.
I love who I love, because she is worthy and she believes I am too. Now it's up to me to prove it.  | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 1:15:51 PM |
Because I find the lesser beautiful or so scared to get hurt that they will usually be more conservitive.
I agree with that part of what you said because I do feel that way. I don't think I'm UGLY but guys kind of push me to the side because I am big. So I am more conservative sexually to kind of weed out the creeps from the good guys. | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 1:17:09 PM | | Because Kyle, they not so pretty women have a heart they are satisfied with the man that loves them. They want LOVE. They want a man with a heart. If the man has $100000 they arent gonna dump him for a guy that has Drugs and $150000. Women who arent so beautiful you can trust them not because there desperate its all becasue they have a heart. I come from experiance I have 2 sisters that are BBW and there hearts and trust are un-ending............ You women who arent so beautiful be very proud of who you are. Because your heart covers your whole body whereas a beautiful womans heart is about as big as her french mainicured pinky finger....... Love ya Girls | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 3:28:29 PM | i have never seen a woman so plain that, with a little bit of work, couldn't become beautiful. i have seen ordinary-looking women blossom into dream girls when in love with the right man.
however, i have seen plenty of women deemed attractive by society become hideous through their words and actions. that will eventually show up in the face. an ugly attitude mangles the features, shows up in the eyes and causes the entire facade to deteriorate.
i theorize that plenty of men have more insight than we credit them with. they will select the plain-looking woman because they know what she can become. | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 3:51:54 PM | I've had smokin' hot and babboon ugly and in between. It's about personality, intelligence, and character - not looking like Barbie! People these days seem to think everyone should look and act like people on TV. That's BS.
A better question would be why are people so hung up on appearances! Beauty is only skin deep, and even then a matter of taste. My ex-wife was to die for when I married her and gained 90 pounds before we split- and she left me for another guy!! Be careful what you wish for. You might get it.
One of the best lovers I ever had was truly cosmetically challenged - not her fault, it was a birth-defect. First time we had sex she cried and thanked me over and over for being with her. No thanks required! She was great! She ended up angry at men and turned a page - went lesbian in college. Our loss.
I was with a really hot red-head for a year, moved in with her. Found out she was cheating the whole time and not using condoms either! So... good looking doesn't count for squat with me. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 3/16/2007 4:03:46 PM | There's not such thing as an ugly person, it's just that some are prettier than others.
I have never, ever, looked at someone and thought "I'm too good for you". Like Samuel L Jackson once said, "Personality goes a long way" as we grow older the way that somebody looks pales in significance compared to how they are on the inside.
At least I hope that that's true, if it isn't then I'm screwed. | |
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atlast
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Joined: 2/25/2007
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 4/21/2007 6:03:34 AM | | A lot of very attractive women are insecure about their looks and it affects their personality and sense of humor in negative and abstract ways. A lot of guys would rather be with a woman who is more fun to be around and isn't constantly seeking reassurance about her physical side from everybody around them. I'll take cute and funny over gorgeous anytime. Here is a big difference I have noticed: Cute will hold your hand and look into your eyes and giggle, and make you feel like the center of the universe. Gorgeous is so busy looking around to make sure everyone notices her that you could leave and she wouldn't even notice for a few hours. As always, the fallacy with stereotyping is that (fortunately) not all people are alike! | |
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atlast
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Joined: 2/25/2007
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 5/31/2007 12:30:20 PM | I BELIEVE BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.
SOME MEN MAY JUST BE SEXY AND ADORABLE TO YOU BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE. AND THE SAME GOES FOR A WOMAN. SURE YOU NEED THAT FIRST ATTRACTION. SO YOU GOTTA FIND SOMETHING ABOUT THEM THAT ADD'S THAT SPARK TO YOUR DAY. IT MAY BE A LOOK THEY GIVE OR A SMELL OR THE FACT THE ARE AS CUTE AS CAN BE, BUT I THINK WHAT YOU FIND TO BE ATTRACTIVE MAY NOT BE WHAT SOMEONE ELSE FINDS AS ATTRACTIVE. WE ALL HAVE A TYPE, WE ALL KNOW WHAT TURNS OR HEAD. SOME MEN LIKE BEAUTIFUL BIG WOMAN, SOME LIKE THE SEXY SKINNY BLOND. THE FACT IS THERE ARE PLENT OF FISH OUT THERE SO HAVE FUN LOOKING. | |
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Yvette
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Joined: 1/9/2007
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 5/31/2007 3:17:27 PM | Sexual attraction is NOT the prime ingredient for a relationship.
It IS the prime ingredient for a conquest.
And conquest = ego boost = confidence.
Confidence is NOT a fair exchange for confidence, because it is gaining something you already have. No gain, just loss.
But confidence IS a fair exchange for good treatment, like spending money on them.
So ugly/shy men go for attractive women, and attractive men go for ugly/shy women.
And you thought attractive men and women would always pair up together!
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/20/2007 5:56:17 AM | Very simple answers: These guys are looking for a serious relationship.. That means they want a girl that loves them and doesn't just want to use him to make herself look even better.. Beautifull women tend to be extremely superficial and egocentrical. (whereas normal women nowadays are just plain superficial and egocentrical)
By the way: I've never seen a beautifull woman with an ugly guy, unless he was a well known multi-millionaire.. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:27:59 PM | | Unfortunately really attractive woman often are stereotyed as being "high maintenance" . They are also thought of as being "money hungry" and would dump a guy in a heartbeat for someone rich. Because of this men are unwilling to take a chance and would just a soon date or marry an average looking woman (more stability I guess). I have dated some really "hot" woman that were complete b#t@hes but there are alot of really nice ones out there too!!! | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:39:01 PM | | Yes, those men are not confident and not strong enough for a beautiful woman. A woman is for a man how he wants her to be. When he gives her love he will get love in return. If he is faithful to her she will be the same for him. Women are like dough, and man must be that maestro baker to give the right shape and feelings to that dough. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/21/2007 10:25:53 PM | Sometimes i think it's because she looked like his mother.
Sometimes i think it's because the features that are the most attractive to him happen to be her best features.
Sometimes i think it's her spirit, or her mind.
Sometimes i think it's not what she used to look like when they fell in love.
It could also be an arranged marriage.
Or the fellow might know the verse, "beauty is vain" and the verse 'He had no form nor comliness, and when we beheld him, there was no beauty wherewith we should desire him; He was despised and rejected of men, and we esteemed him not. Surely he has borne our iniquities, and we turned as it were our faces from him.' | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/22/2007 5:45:58 PM | | I can't believe this is actually a discussion! Cracks me up. Are looks really that important? I need to be attracted to a guy but there's alot of ways to stimulate attraction that have nothing to do with how pretty the wrapping is. I'm pretty sure that there are guys out there that feel the same, even if they look to hansome to be real. I do have a friend that I am in the habit of referring to as man-pretty because he is just astonishing to look at sometimes, but alot of that has to do with what he has going on underneath. If he were a dud on those other levels it wouldn't matter how well formed his molecules are. Sure we've all had moments when someone is just too hot not to ****, but if you can't carry on a conversation before or after then their value as arm candy not withstanding, their stock plummets pretty fast. | |
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