| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 10:59:33 AM | | If you think someone is average or ugly the that usually means that you think you are better then them. <<<<<<<<< I beg to differ on this point..I look at ppl and think "their looks" average or ugly [seldom ugly]....that is subjective and my perogative....that *never* means that I think myself better than them..not by any stretch..."Something about all ppl make them beautiful"<<< and we all have something beautiful to offer.... | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 11:03:40 AM | | Ted Danson is attractive. A "leading man" may or may not be interesting. People who make blanket statements that include any group as similar should have all their statements taken with a grain of salt. It is my guess that this is a particularly ugly, jealous person using defence as an offense. Maybe she lives in the same kennel as Whoopee Rotweiler. | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 11:30:13 AM |
Well, good looking galls are way to ****y and demanding, nobody wants them. They are only good for sex and even the sex is not that great. Outer beauty is ephemeral, inner beauty lasts forever.
I wouldn’t put it quite that way, but I agree. Women who are especially attractive physically are far too often domineering, demanding, and self-absorbed. Whether or not we're good looking, many men just don’t find that kind of woman attractive. It’s far more rewarding to be with someone who’s truly attractive... instead of just some who seems to be at first glance.
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife...
Actually, it’s “don’t take a pretty woman for wife”... there’s a difference! | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 12:13:59 PM | | well, i can speak from experience on this one. i was married to a "trophy" woman for not to long but long enuf for me to realize she had some serious issues and problems with herself. so i have now found in being single again, that most really really attractive women have some hangups or some sort of emotional baggage, after all, they have had men drooling over them all their lives so, the attention needed by those women, most men cannot fill; but on the contrary, i have found that more average women are healthy individuals and are usually pretty inside, its not always what is on the outside. sometimes guys need to look a little deeper instead of thinking, mmmm. shes really hot. i waant to date her, because after all, all she is is goodlooking, and looks will only take you so far. so by that., average looking women are usually more beautiful then the hot ones. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 12:30:28 PM | Maybe like me these ppl see themselves as average and find too many stunning birds arrogant, flirtateous, get too much attn from others, conceited etc. Ppl want long term rels with those they would be proud to take home and introduce to family and colleagues, someone who has the right morals/values. Someone they can relate to and will sit there and listen to them and make them feel a fantastic lover and companion.
To be honest beauty is in the eye of the beholder and in their eyes the person they're with could be the best looking thing since sliced bread.
I will say this though... it doesn't matter whether a person is average or looks like they stepped out of a magazine because looks don't determine personality and I have experienced this first hand :) | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 12:57:54 PM | @Laverboy
Ted Danson and Whoopie were never married, I don't think, though they were an "item" for a while. I don't consider Ted Danson to be that attractive. I've only dated and/or been in relationships with extremely attractive caucasian men for the past 20 years, and I would say that I'm average, or that I "look good for my age". They were all much younger than I. Who are you to imply that Whoopie is ugly? Attractiveness is not always centered on a pretty face. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the European version of "beauty" fits very few women, worldwide. There are more people of color in the world. So, your idea of beauty may not be the world wide opinion.
I'm also not attracted to most of the hollywood types who are supposed to be so hot! No one can say what is or is not attractive to anyone else. Some ppl, like myself, look for the whole package. | |
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| I've got your answer, HERE !!!!!
Posted: 9/6/2005 1:18:26 PM | | The Good Looking Guys you are talking about are too lazy to put up with too pretty a woman. "Unattractive or Average Women" might be willing to do more of the work to have the relationship. People are just getting lazier & Lazier is the reason. | |
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| I've got your answer, HERE !!!!!
Posted: 9/6/2005 1:36:16 PM |
The Good Looking Guys you are talking about are too lazy to put up with too pretty a woman. "Unattractive or Average Women" might be willing to do more of the work to have the relationship. People are just getting lazier & Lazier is the reason.
I'm sorry, I had to laugh my butt off at this.
I don't think it's because they are "lazy"..LOL Maybe it's because they don't want to put up with the crap. You could easily turn that around and say, well the woman is so lazy, she requires the "GQ guy" to do all the work. Geesh, where are the rolls eyes smilies when you need them...
Now, are you saying that the "average" looking woman would do more to "keep" the "GQ guy" because he's a "GQ guy"?
Just needing some clarification here | |
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Posted: 9/6/2005 2:35:49 PM | Looks are not everything.....First Place I look is Her Mind....always have always will..
Friends First.......Not everything Has to be based on Looks..... | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 3:31:00 PM |
I am a good looking guy, I want a woman that will interest me until I am old and wrinkly. Old people aren't sexy, not trying to be mean but they aren't. I want someone to grow old with so I can't use Sexy as the dominat driving factor if I want longevity.
You are wise in the ways of the world, Grasshopper.
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 3:50:16 PM | This question makes me think about the NUMEROUS times i have been asked by guys "why are you single"? No, i am not an ugly duckling but i am not beautiful either. If you base your opinion of people on the way they look, you are in for a fooling. A not -so- pretty girl can have a heart of gold, whereas a beautiful woman could turn out to be the biggest bi**h. It's all about the person they are, not what they look like. As the old saying goes- don't judge a book by its cover!  | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 6:43:01 PM |
Who are you to imply that Whoopie is ugly?
Strange that you should say that, because I’ve always thought Whoopie was lovely. There’s something very interesting about her face (and I *love* faces), but it’s mostly her personality, her wisdom... her spirit.
I'm not ugly but i'm no beauty
Based on your few pictures and the flimsly but telling profile, I would classify you as a beauty. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 9/6/2005 7:02:05 PM | I don't know where I stand on the handsome/ugly guy continuum and frankly I don't care.
Once I went out with a 'beautiful' woman, probably the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. All my friends were stunned at my luck. After a few months of her using my heart as a wheelbarrow the relationship ended. Now I don't care what someone looks like. Does she make my heart miss a beat, does she give me butterflies, can she carry on a conversation. | |
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| I've got your answer, HERE !!!!!
Posted: 9/7/2005 9:38:55 AM | | well said dragon! ....i go for someone that has a great personality,thats good hearted,that loves me for me and doesnt want to change anything about me....alot of guys that i know go for average looking women because they dont want every man looking at their woman (if they are down right gorgeous)......beauty is only skin deep...to each their own......go for whats on the inside before the outside....(then maybe later talk about getting some surgery)lol...JOKING.......good luck to all for finding ur true love..... | |
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