| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 6/18/2006 2:38:16 PM | maybe the handsom bloke loves the woman for what she is inside rather than what she looks like,maybe hes come to realise that beautifull women think more of themselves than others maybe its genetic,maybe hes not shallow,
how can all women be the same when every human being on the planet is different in there own right,yes where all made up of the same material but not one person is the same even identical twins have different personalities we can never ever judge a person on the way they look,look again look deeper then you will see the person for what he or she is special in there own right talented in there own way and human xxx | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 6/18/2006 2:51:53 PM | | Some of them are beards for gay men. Some guys are simply not self-sufficient and will take a woman that no normal guy would be attracted to. The top 20 percent of males get 80 percent of the sex so the bottom 80 percent of males are left with a horrible choice: abject loneliness or dating a medically ugly female. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 6/18/2006 4:05:03 PM | 'i didnt know that dr.s were diagnosing..."
hm, may not be too far off,actually
there is now talk of (in the A.M.A.) of...
deeming any/all under 5ft2' 'disabled'
and?
have any/all noticed? less and LESS 'special people' to be seen
in zee world?
there has been,IS a RAPID,STEADY increase in FOREGOING simple
medical procedures/measures/operations
on newborns with ANY birth 'defect/s'
-simply deemed as 'life UNworthy of living' by the AMA
OT: perhaps,just MAYBE...
these 'handsome' men-have more depth,strength of heart
than the very nature of
this question
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 6/18/2006 4:44:43 PM | | I know someone who married a girl that was not the brightest crayon in the box ..he felt sorry for her...he knew she would never find a man that would accept her for who she is and she would be devoted to him. There are women that try to get his attention but he tells them is happily married. Security. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:25:44 AM | The average man is after the four big As
50% Acceptance. (what you see is what you get)
25% Affection
10% Ass
5% Appearance.
So plain is not an issue. Not a big one anyway.
(Truly dog ugly IS an issue but I mean so truly dog ugly that she turns more heads than the beautiful ones. Now THAT is ugly.)
So Whats the opposite of these ie what guys DONT want
50% Acceptance. ======== vs ====== minus 100% intolerance
25% Affection ==============vs ====== 50% hostility
10% Ass ===============vs=========== fridgid
5% Appearance. ===========vs ============ ugly
The lousy score in this area comes from a beautiful woman. The hollywood wife.
This is a cliché alright as many Hollywood wives are not at all ****y. but its also a dangerous reality that many young women aspire to be like.
Even if she is a red hot lover in bed her top score is still terrible as she is cold and hostile towards men, hostility being the opposite of affection, and totally intolerant of everyone and everything, particularly men. Once again intolerance being the opposite of acceptance.
Jackie Collins has had the reputation of the Hollywood **** for years but Mike Tysons first wife Robyn Givens was probably a better example of this profile, particularly where intolerance is concerned.
Her most glaring example of this intolerance was her total intolerance of Tysons working class, or more accurately street class, table manners. Tyson regularly used the wrong cutlery on various exotic dishes, in restaurants and Givens, with even less etiquette than Tyson, would throw, decidedly lower than working class, tantrums over it.
Take a profile from the woman who does score high in the Acceptance and Affection areas. What have we got. We’ve got the dumpy little housewife who sprays deodorant in his boots to keep down the smell. She accepts the fact that he is working class, but she also works around it quite well doing her fair share of the money earning and stretching their combined pay packs to give them and the kids as much of the good life as possible.
Somewhere between this is the girl that these impossibly handsome guys like to date.
Now this one is a woman you do know! She’s the little brown mouse who sits next to you at work, who rides the train home with you, who books you in at the motel. And who always seems to be wearing a wedding or engagement ring despite not being noticeably glamorous. But she always has some boyfriend or another.
And nobody can figure out what she’s got going for her.
The answer is that she has nothing going for her. And nothing going against her either! That’s what really counts. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:29:28 AM | Flavia*~
Besides, beauty is subjective.I mean I think Brad Pitt is ugly, but more than half the world thinks he is handsome.So go figure........
I totally agree with you but you know that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have actually seen actors that were very handsome but they just don't get the media press that Brad Pitt does. I also feel that Tom Cruise is another man that is over hyped by the media but again that is my opinion. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:39:23 AM | | Some of the most beautiful guys I've ever seen in my life work out at my gym. The ones that are serious about the sport of body building are some of the most humble guys I've ever met too and many of them have a problem with their self esteem. Most of them have girls that they think are really hot, yet I look at them and wonder...hmmmmmm...wonder what that gorgeous guy is with the plain jane for...wish I knew her secret. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:14:59 AM | Ever hear the saying that "a 7 is a keeper"? IMHO anyone above a 7 is either too high maintenance or too likely to run off to greener pastures.... people seem to feel they deserve better.
Some guys like hot girls for their trophy like attributes (looks good with the car)... some like girls for who they are... It's what's inside that counts! You can't always tell by looking.
I know someone who married a hot girl because she was hot but they had been together for so long he was afraid she'd take everything he owns if he left her... she still treats him like crap!
I know someone who hooked up with an average girl and helped her seriously improve her style/look... she's hot now!
What difference does it make why people hook up if they're happy who they're with? | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:22:42 AM | People date and marry who they have access to.
Lots of powerful men marry their secretaries. Its not a power thing, its just the woman is constantly in his life in every sense and the close working relationship creates a natural bond between the two.
Lots of powerful women, esp royalty, have relationships with their bodyguards. They are men who are around and provide what many women find appealing - a sense of safety.
People in Hollywood marry other movie stars because thats all they are exposed to everyday. Julia Roberts married a cameraman. I mean, in her prime, she could have had any man she wanted. But she married a man that was constantly around her and had access to her. | |
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| Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 6:46:23 PM | It could be that in the end no matter what you look like it's the personality that counts
when you decide that you want a real relationship. I also think that a lot of it has to do with
the way the attraction game works. Most men, no matter how good looking, will date or follow after any woman if they know quick sex is in the cards. Women for the most part would never have sex with a guy just because he asked. That's why almost any woman, no matter how unattractive, arrogant etc. can pick almost anyone they want and get a date (or at least sex if that's what they're looking for). Guys have caused this scenerio where they have to look perfect or almost no women will bother with them. Women hold all the cards when it comes to sex. If men weren't as easy, this wouldn't have happened. I don't quite understand
men that can just have sex if the opportunity presents itself. I can never do that because there's too many other factors or worries that come into play about someone that prevent me from just having sex right away. I guess I have a tendency to think too much about the situation rather than just live for the moment. I know some other guys that are like this also, so I'm not trying to stereotype all men as just chasing after sex. It's just an observation on the sexes from what I've noticed. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:22:25 PM | I've had a couple of really handsome men show interest.
It's the old beautiful vs. attractive thing.
I know it's true, because I've found some "average/ugly" men very, very attractive.
Most people can recognize and admire a beautiful woman or handsome man. But that really doesn't mean the same thing as someone being attractive to another, specific person. | |
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