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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:43:35 PM | I think the problem here is that people are transferring their own versions of what's attractive onto other people, and assuming that everyone likes the same things.
While there are certain characteristics which could be considered almost universally desirable, attraction is one of the most subjective things that there is. And it's often surprising, as I could give you a list of qualities that I might like, and then find someone who meets none of them. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:45:02 PM | Isn't it a matter of perception? I mean what some girls find attractive others don't. We all have different tastes and are attracted to different things. When I see people who seem mis matched to me like that, I always wonder what they know that the rest of us can't see from the outside. Or I wonder if the less attractive one is rich or give amazing oral...lol// | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/6/2006 9:24:37 PM | I think there is a lot of men - who wish to date very attractive women, and would perhaps wonder why you might see an attractive guy with a less attractive women, the answer though is quite simple - if dating attractive women is a norm and not a challenge, then it no longer becomes important or an issue or desire, what becomes important is finding someone who you work with and get along with, looks i.e. attraction are still important but to a lesser degree. I was in several serious relationships with what would be deemed "stunning" women, and to be honest that was a fun time that I would not trade for the world, but I realized that it was much easier to date a sexy women than to date someone I truly felt at peace and comfortable with, now, when I date a women who is not as attractive as other women I dated in the past or I see more attractive women when I am out alone or with friends, I am not distressed by this fact because it is the entire person that I am dating, not just her looks, which ultimately would fade anyway.
Thus my answer is simple, looks are ultimately only skin deep and fade faster than the setting sun anyway.
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:13:02 PM | | so does that mean you can walk all over her because she's grateful to be with you? That's brutal! There's a big difference between thin and beautiful that I haven't seen much comment on here. I think that most men are just as screwed up by the media pressures as women are. They are torn by their desire to be with a curvy women that conflicts with society telling them they need to date "hotties"... I say that if you think a "bubbly" woman is sexy, that's all that should matter...but to date one just to have the upper hand is pathetic. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/16/2006 2:19:37 AM | I really have no answer to your question as I can't say I have ever seen this. What I have seen is below average looking men with very nice looking men. Not only that but a lot of the time, they are about the same age but the man looks old enough to be the women's father. A good example is a couple that comes in where I work. She was so mad that everyone that they meet think's her husband is her father, and he is only a couple of months older than her. I didn't say anything but I thought he was her father too!!!
I think men are way more concerned with looks than women. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 7/16/2006 9:45:34 AM | TO answer the question of the topic: because that's what love is all about. It's not a beauty contest game. It's life.
Calling someone ugly is pretty lame and talks a lot about you. There are no ugly people - the real ugly people are the pretentious snobs that think they have it all, until one day they get a rude awakening. The beauty comes from the soul and lasts forever. The outside beauty only lasts a moment. Ugly word evokes something repulsive and it is really not appropriate. We are talking about human being here.
In any case, what one person may not find attractive or beautiful in a girl, another may find very attractive and beautiful. | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 8/2/2006 4:04:54 PM | | I have always felt that it was a sign of being insecure with one self. They know they can get anyone they want but don't want to be with someone who can get who they want. No fear of losing this person to anyone else. All the attention would always be on them as well. Odd but kinda makes some sence. It drives me nuts actually!! | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 8/2/2006 6:55:15 PM | Once again it comes down to:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
What I find attractive, you may not. There also seems to be a general trend these days that dictates "hot women are dumb". Don't know where it came from, but a LOT of women have it.
----> I didn't say ALL, just SOME. So please don't hate me. :) | |
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| Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 8/2/2006 7:18:40 PM | To the OP
Because many good looking women have high expectations, they seem to be more materialistic. They also have a ridiculously large ego that is bigger than their brain. They think just because they are good looking they deserve more than other woman. They use their looks as a weapon to get what they want out of men. As for a less attractive woman, they would be more likely to be genuine with you. | |
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