| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/1/2007 8:05:05 PM | Not all women are afraid of big guys. I would like to say none are but some are probably intimidated. I personally like a guy a bit on the bigger side. I like to cuddle up so there is more to cuddle up with.Plus I am fairly tall and average to a few extra pounds so its nice when the person doesn't make you feel like a line backer (which means a bit uncomfortable) Everyone has their own likes/dislikes and opinions. Be patient you will find the girl that you can connect with. Then when you do....well you will both be happy!
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:57:00 AM |
you shouldn't hide what you got their, it's nice to see when someone looks after themselves.
Although you are still in the wrong country, good luck though
Thnx Punkinpie74, lol ...to im still in the wrong country ;) | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:05:44 PM |
i just was getting the impression that girls are intimitated to approach bigger guys! but after reading some of your post i'm starting to see that maybe it's how i come across, perhaps i need to lighten up
No, I think you are onto something. I think there are certain types of women, who at least initially, only approach larger guys. Sort of the cheerleader type. I think us bigger guys do get stereotyped a bit... maybe in with the big, dumb, and stupid meathead stereotype. I'm 6 1 and about 225 at the moment.
I get it, I can read the looks on womens faces, especially the quick ones where the meeting is more unexpected. Some women do have a slight look of concern on their face and others sort of melt and do the puppie dog eyes thing.
I know I have to find someone out of my stereotype. That is tough, so you change your looks to look less like that stereotype you would rather not be associated with, even if it does work so well to attract the opposite sex but not the type I would like to be with. | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:59:07 PM | | no, big guys make me feel safe, and frankly i prefer over weight to under. but that's just my preference. the truth is a lot of women are not comfortable approaching any guy. she may try to catch your eye, flip her hair or in other ways get your attention.....look for signals. she may be doing everything she can to get you to approach her. | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/4/2007 8:09:35 AM | | I love big men! Not intimidating at all. Cozy, comfy and secure is more like it. You'd be surprised, there are many women who love big men! | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/4/2007 8:24:42 AM |
Thnx Punkinpie74, lol ...to im still in the wrong country ;)
Anytime, there will be someone out there for you, I', willing to bet............
maybe it is me who is the wrong country, such a shame lol. I don't have a passport either, it expired, :( | |
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lalaf
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Joined: 5/7/2007
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/4/2007 4:19:26 PM | i didn't read everything people wrote but honestly you are not big....sorry. i should ask are men intimidated by big (not fat) girls? and i'm 6'2.... i love every inch i have but it can also be hard.
i do have to say that you do have an amazing body but why girls don't make contact is is just that- you know you have a great body=arrogant. and how i know it? not hard!!! you have it on your profile without a shirt. hide a little bit and let the girl be positively impressed.
i could say a lot more but i better not.....lol | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/4/2007 7:48:56 PM | | Im not like you think at all, i am pretty shy! I put the pic up so people could better relate to my question. Taking my shirt off in a pic i took with my cell-phone is different than takin it off infron't of people! I am not arrogant :( | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/4/2007 8:20:28 PM | | I agree with the lady earlier on - absolutely nothing wrong with your looks and she said add another 20 years...Well at least 10 years. I would love to go out with a bigger guy but I am a limited in my selection being 6'3". Too bad you don't have any older brothers....lol | |
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lalaf
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Joined: 5/7/2007
Msg: 85 | |
| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 6/5/2007 2:05:20 PM | | what i was trying to say was that when a girl sees a guy who knows he has a good body, they don't bother necessarily even to get to know them because it's usually quite safe to bet what you will get and that's the arrogant part. i'd say that try how it works if you didn't make such a big deal about your muscles and wear a t-shirt that's not figure hugging when you go out, have less hair products than a girl would have and don't hunt girls. we can see when someone is on a mission.... | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 9/20/2007 6:58:02 PM | Wow Man, you got alot of response here... I am a teddy bear and don't need taming..I am 6'1 and not as big..I will try harder ladies I swear! hahahah just jokes. | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 9/21/2007 12:21:37 PM | | To the OP. I've often wondered this question myself. I'm 6'4", 200lbs. While I'm not a overly muscle bound dude (I have no real desire to be) I'm still a pretty big guy. | |
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| Are girls intimidated by big guys?
Posted: 9/21/2007 1:21:16 PM | ^^^^
You should have all your answers and then some in this thread. Pretty unanimous that women like big guys. Check out a thread on shorter guys or thin guys if you have time to kill. They aren't so complimentary to the OP generally. | |
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