| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:09:00 PM | | The act itself doesn't do anything for me, but it does for my partner. He likes to spank me - it turns him on more - some nights, it's a nice change of pace. The more he gets turned on, even better for me - so I let him Spank, Spank Away! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:14:01 PM | | SPANKING AND HAIR PULING ITS A TRUN ON BUT YOU HAVE TO TRUST THE OTHER PERSON . | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:10:17 PM | *SPANK*SPANK* S w i r l*S w i r l *SPANK*SPANK*SPANK*..!!
MMmmmmmm...Rubbing it in .. between Swats . . just Multiplies the sensation..!!
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:12:48 PM | | the stinging is hot, plus it could be something to do with the dominance factor. i love being manhandled in bed because i know my bf would never act like that outside of the bedroom. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 5:48:57 PM | Very well said, Shieldvulf...message 33.
Add to that the degree of inhibition, trust, experimentation, and ...a good time can be had by all! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 6:06:51 PM | | sounds like it wasnt being done right u need it fast short slaps in the middle of the ass..i find that feels best | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 6:20:49 PM |
For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.
Holy crap...
Dave...where are you??? Seriously...guys...um...he's on point...I don't mind a bit of a spank if we're doing it doggy...OK...
I need to go find a cold, subzero shower right now...thanks Dave... | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 7:25:09 PM | I love to be spanked!!! Just depends on the person. A lot of caressing and other touch sends yours senses into overdrive. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 7:27:53 PM |
Could someone please explain to me what the sexual pleasure people recieve in spanking? I've had my ass slapped and it does absolutely nothing for me but sting. Where does the sexual pleasure come from?
if you have to ask you'll never understand. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 7:32:47 PM | | For me I think it was Elvis and John Wayne. How many woman did they spank in them old movies. I always thought spanking would be ok then I found out I loved it. As much as I ever imagined | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 8:58:32 PM | Hey OP....
I find that my senses are heightened ...alot! The more spanking...the better!!! It is also all of the physical contact and the touching and the caressing. My lover doesn't use anything but his hands and he is VERY good at what he does. It doesn't hurt and he goes right past the point when he thinks I want him to stop, but no more! I find that I am an orgasm having fool....
Oh and Dave...my bf and I will be trying your method this weekend...never tried them both at the same time!!! I just might have to go get a new headboard after this...mine's wicker!!! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 9:39:37 PM | | if its done right and something you work into it,it can feel good. gradual is best | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/10/2008 10:59:48 PM | Why, Shirley! That is very sweet of you to say!
Now, come here and bend over. Daddy wants to break in a new pair of driving gloves.
Cheeeeeeers!
Vulf | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:21:29 AM | | I t is no different than enjoying a 25-year old scotch. Either you love it or you hate it. Or its can be an acquired taste. Personally, I adore it, only if my partner does, and relishes it as an intense form of foreplay. Just the anticipation, when drawn out, can be intensely arousing. It does require a deep trust. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:59:47 AM | Yup....the whole spanking thing its all good!!!! Gradual and easing into it is best...by that time your so turned on...I can't even get into it. LMAO | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:29:18 AM | I was spanked as a kid and I didn't get turned on. In fact, quite the contrary- it was used as a punishment and it worked, I grew to fear it and not do whatever bad thing won me the action in the first place. I think the deal with spanking is that it needs to come back, people are too soft on their kids which is partly why this society is getting worse.
Oh wait, you mean SPANKING. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 9:42:44 AM | | CHOKING< SLAPPING?? What so after or if you break up they can go show bruises and say you beat them?? Why not just knock em in the jaw or the gut...Can't trust most women..It's like finding a needle in a haystack and I don't care what most people say..We wouldn't be on here if there was a perfect person. Just take time to think about it. I don't like that dirty talk or crap when I'm getting it on. I think it's cool in conversation flirting but common...More normal to moan and maybe say when your about to cum. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:39:08 AM | Detroit, you understand the main issue very well. If you don't trust your partner, and she you, many (most?) pleasures are out of your reach. Without trust, even sex with your spouse is sex with a stranger. (And not the hot, naughty kind.) I hope you come across the opportunity. As you say, most people do.
And you, Shirley! You are also quite correct. Now, crawl over here and ask right!
Chills!
Vulf  | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:57:36 AM | | It's hot and for some a mentality thing. People like role playing, with spanking you can do the headmaster / school girl fantasy, or the Daddy/daughter thing...it's about control and giving up control to your partner. And seeing the redness after is a major turn on...for a lot of people.... | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 3:51:55 PM | | Only spanked my guy once and, well....I don't think that was really my fault. He was so damn naughty. He kinda loved that 'shove him over so he falls on the bed' thing too. He laid there, in a bit of shock, and then said, "I am absolutely loving this." But he did have a TON of responsibility outside the bedroom so, hey....it was the least I could do. I spose I should stop here, hmmmm? Good god....talk about memory lane here... | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:43:34 PM | I WAS WITH THIS GUY THE OTHER NIGHT HE TOLD ME HE LIKED TO BE SPANKED, MMMMM........I LOVE TO BE SPANKED IT GETS ME GOING IF HE HITS THE RIGHT SPOT.  | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:52:10 PM | I WAS WITH THIS GUY THE OTHER NIGHT HE TOLD ME HE LIKED TO BE SPANKED, MMMMM........SO I DID, COME TO FIND OUT HE DIDINT REALLY LIKE IT. COME ON MEN BUCK UP AND TAKE A LITTLE PAIN. LOL ITS FUN IF THE WOMEN NOWS HOW TO DO IT AND MAKES SURE SHE HITS THE RIGHT SPOT, CAUSE WHEN MY SPOT IS HIT THE RIGHT WAY MMMMM.....  | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:54:36 PM | I think...its not about pain...its about letting a man take charge...
We have to be so in charge in every damn area or our lifes....
Work...Home..MOM IS THE BOSS...sheesh...always have to be in charge....
Sometimes?
Its nice to give it up for a bit....
Its not about the sting...its about the control.....
And giving it up for a bit....
Just for a little bit....(Ass HIGH up in the air..)
Luvin | |
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