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 Author Thread: what info would send you running on a first date.
 maryrachelle

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 51
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:39:29 PM
I find it extremely strange how people nowadays see being married and then divorced as some sort of accomplishment! whats up with that? You haven't accomplished anything at all . In fact you have failed at something . If anything would make me run the other way it is someone who had been married with kids. Don't want anything to do with that drama.

When i talk of someone who had been to jail i did not mean someone who had gotten thrown in overnight for something minor. I meant hard jail time for something serious.
 parula

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 52
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:46:07 PM

For me i think if someone were to tell me "i have been to jail"


A dear friend of mine was helping someone move and drove their pick-up truck, loaded with furniture - got pulled over for a break light being out - only to find out that it was considered a stolen vehicle several months prior. He went to jail. The person that reported it stolen, neglected to re-contact the police to let them know that her son 'borrowed' the truck without permission.

Please, maryrachelle, do not assume.


What could someone tell you on a first date that would send you running for the hills??

I'm still thinking about Geneseo's basement comment - where does one put all of the bodies?

maryrachelle - per your last post, you're referring to prison, not jail.
 maryrachelle

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 53
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:49:44 PM
^^^^Whatever.Being put behind bars for something serious for something like armed robbery , rape,assault , manslaughter etc..
 parula

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/2/2007 5:52:32 PM

^^^^Whatever.

Merely trying to help you understand the difference. Sorry if you took offense to my assistance. The good news is, now you understand the difference!
 ~*~Fy_Fyah~*~

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 55
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:07:04 PM
Hi my name is Michael.
My birth name was Michelle, but you can call me Mike....umm can you say R U N

 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 56
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:07:18 PM

I find it extremely strange how people nowadays see being married and then divorced as some sort of accomplishment!


Heavens yes it was an accomplishment...took me three years and a new truck to get him gone. I want my pat on the back because I put up with a lot of crap getting that guy gone. (Ahhh, lighten up ~ it's just part of the world we live in.) The whole disposable people thingie...sad, but true nonetheless.

~OT~ Hmmm, what would make me say, "Nice meeting you. No, I don't have a phone...sorry." ????

That his divorce isn't final. The child support is in arrearages. The Anullment wasn't my fault. That last DUI was sort of iffy. My probation officer changed again, I'm not sure how to pass a UA with this one. My Mother doesn't like me having women friends over after 9 p.m. and maybe, "Can I stay at your house tonight, seems my water and power have been turned or ~ I'm sure it's just a mistake. "

 Oggers

Joined: 5/10/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 6/2/2007 6:28:17 PM
This thread is sooooooooo funny ...

i got to thinking that these people cannot possibly exist in real life - but then I have had similar things happen to me also .. I have only once climbed out of the toilet window to make my escape ........
 Deni30

Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 58
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:35:00 PM
"I'm married" - I've heard that a few times, wtf?
 coca2

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 59
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:36:27 PM
This just happened..on the phone. He said he was going to jail in 2 weeks due to a DWI. I was not allowed to see anyone else. I spoke to him for an hour and found this out. I didn't run .I galloped out of that one.
 SentientIncantation

Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 60
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:40:40 PM

This just happened..on the phone. ....
...... I didn't run .I galloped out of that one.


How long was it before it occurred to you... "Hey, wait a minute.... I live there".

 kalli

Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 61
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:47:47 PM
"I murdered my wife and children and just finished doing 25 years - got out on parole."

"so, you're single?"
 A MUZEing..

Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 62
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 9:50:14 PM
"I'm the man and what I say goes."

.. yup, dude, out the window.....
 plums4u

Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 63
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/2/2007 10:08:48 PM
that he is bi-sexual
he likes to toss the salad, no kissing this feller
just got out of the penitentiary
have not worked in a couple of years
 TigerBlackHawk

Joined: 8/5/2006
Msg: 64
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 12:33:01 AM
Darn I made someones list...
I do hate cats.. I own one named Gvhe... I hate her, she is so lazy. She also ignores me all the time. ::grins:: Long joke behind that.

I tried to date a woman that spent time in Jail. Another long story why I'd over look that issue.

What sends me running? A woman shows up wearing something way too revealing. I am looking for a date, not a hooker. I don't mind her to be a looker, but don't want to share the view with a hundred others.

A woman that indicates she wants to locate a hotel. Not on first date ladies, I am not a hunk. So if they are coming on to me, it has to be about sex. I don't think I am that good looking to instigate that kind of attraction on first meeting. If I am, those ladies on Hot or Not need to score me higher.

They show up rather larger than their picture, or like one woman, she had a mustache on her lips.

Any indication that they are liars. I got rid of an Ex that loved to lie, I won't walk that road again.

Or one woman ::chuckles:: She showed up drunk to our first meeting. I didn't think it took a fifth of wiskey to work up nerve to meet me. But I guess it did. The fact she was drinking and driving showed me she lacked brains.

And horror stories, on a first date? Maybe later on. Like the fence post that went thru her lower jaw when she got thrown from a horse. You know those little round posts used for electric fencing? She had several more just as gross to talk about.

One woman, her "Ex" husband was also her First Cousin. Still trying to figure out how they missed that piece of trivia. I mean didn't this become evident to the Parents of the Engaged couple at least by wedding day?

Oh and not likely for this to happen, but if I ever learned a woman ever cheated on her Ex, I'd take off quick. I have a belief that those who cheat will always cheat due to their love for Sex more than their love for another person.
 Oggers

Joined: 5/10/2007
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:45:58 AM

The fact she was drinking and driving showed me she lacked brains.


I would have thought that it showed excellent co-ordination and skill ..... most people who try to drink and drive end up spilling it ..............
 Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 2:51:53 AM
"I want to bite you and lick you....in a hotel in Mesa!" True story!
 Rhett1

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 67
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:21:47 AM
does this look infected to you?


To the person getting picky about "prison" and "jail"...lighten up a little.

True story
These were from one person on the same first meeting:

-"I'm 7" long" -My response? "So am I"

-"After this, if you don't want to come home with me, I'm going to my Mom's house to look up porn on her computer...I haven't jerked off in a while" -My response ? "Somehow, I picture you being a chronic masturbator"
 saucy pup

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 68
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:24:20 AM
was on a 1st date (and last ) with a girl(she is also on my worst 1st date lol)outside of getting smashed and leaving me on my own for half the night,she was telling me she had an ex who she has a barring order against and comes over to the house and trys to kick down the door( lovely i,m thinking to myself lol) every once in awhile
the girl had issues i know but i was exit stage left
 Mistyshadow44

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 69
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:34:54 AM
Sometimes it's not the info that could send a person running after a first date. Once I dated a man who I could have sworn had 20 hands and I need 40 to just keep him off.

If you are looking for something substantial in a relationship stay away from men who continuously talk about sex and desires on a first date. That's a sure sign they are only looking for a one night stand or just an occasional sex partner. But if that's what you want then go for it.
 The Unexpected

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 70
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 6:41:15 AM
Here are my 2 quarters for the dart game. Really happened, LOSER . He went to rest room and I went to bar to get darts and did not think anything of putting a $5 in dart game. If your thinking he just was not into me wrong he wanted to do it again the next night. I think he was after my quarters.
 smiles644

Joined: 1/19/2007
Msg: 71
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 8:31:58 AM
Now I know why guys keep running away from me... So, I am NOT supposed to mention the bodies in my garden or the voices in my head.
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 9:41:28 AM
I'm a cross dresser - but would never do anything to embarras you.
My parole/probation office says.....
Can I borrow (any amount of money)
I forgot my wallet
OH, that,....... it's the monitoring system for my house arrest

My AA/NA/GA sponsor says.....
My last drug test came back positive for (insert drug here)
 WalterMitty

Joined: 10/13/2004
Msg: 73
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:18:45 AM
Meeting a her kids for the first time, and being introduced as "your new daddy"
 Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 6/3/2007 11:26:08 AM
Hi Maryrachelle

Anything that didn't feel right would send me running. One guy actually asked me on the first date 'are you trying to get a free meal out of me' i just said i don't want anything from you and got up and left there and then, the clever d..cks face was a picture lol

But yes everything that every1 has said on here would make me run, i'm a quality person and would like a quality partner its that simple really
 val0214

Joined: 5/7/2007
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Posted: 6/3/2007 12:29:19 PM
Well,

From what I read on here, that pretty much explains why my dating pool has just dried up to NIL.

For me, it was the cocaine user who didn't consider himself an addict because he never bought any, he just used other people's.

Wanting to split the cost of a slice of cake.

Gawking at the waitress.

Blonde jokes when I was blonde
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