| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/7/2007 7:21:05 PM | What could someone tell you on a first date that would send you running for the hills??
"So, when are we moving in together?"
Anything about their ex...
"I don't have a job."
"I still live with my parents."
"I don't have a car."
"I love you." | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/7/2007 10:06:47 PM | | I once had a guy admit to me that he was just released from prison. Being the fair-mided person that I am...I kindly asked him to tell me what he was in prison for. Turns out he was in prison for killing his infant child. Needless to say............he became total history!! | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 4:42:05 PM | The only one you listed that wouldn't send me packing was "I have never been married" - I am not sure why but that doesn't frighten me as much as "I have been married 6 times and they were all b-itches"
Not married guy is ok as long as he is not living with momma guy too! | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 7:37:02 PM | | i think for me the biggest turn off is the guy that after the first date thinks you are in a full blown relationship.. anyone that pushes things along too quickly...that scares me half to death!!!! | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 8:27:18 PM | | I get put off when they talk about ex's or admit too much too soon. One guy I met admitted to loving porn...a lot. It just didn't make for the most attractive first impression. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 8:59:42 PM | If they said "I'm going to use your face for a toilet..." with a dead stare.... and if the 'they' happened to be a man...
the giggleparts - General situation: Booking you into jail... Okay, now in place of the regular cell assignment procedures we are going to have you spin 'the wheel of destiny', to decide your cell number... Ah.... okay... ::Proceeds to spin:: nurp nurp nurp nurp nurp nuuuurrrppp.... number 273! Is that a good one? Well... that all depends... On what? On if you like being cell mates with a guy who we lovingly refer to as 'Asstear'... Ah... why do they call him that? Hmm... well, it's not because he bakes you cookies, that's for sure. Off you go. Damn it! Great... I guess I should have listened to that homeless psychic who told me he saw vicious buttrape in my future... I just thought that was his way of asking me out on a date... ::Hears a familiar voice off in the corner cell:: It was... ZING! | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 9:16:44 PM | dang bufferfly u come up with alot
and i agree with you on them all but the didnt have sex in a long time
one thing that bothers me alot is whenthe woman u you meet for the first time tells you that you shouldnt be talkin to no other woman
or whe the woman says she has only men as friends and doesnt have woman as friends
because she doesnt get along with woman | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 9:59:28 PM | Three minutes in (and all in one breath): “Are you enjoying our very first date? What do you think of me? Think there’s a spark? When do you want to go out again?”
“What would it take to let me wash you hair?”
Not even to the first date yet “How much time you have left on your apartment? Damn, you just rented it? Well, maybe I can just pay it off so you can move in with me quicker.”
“Oh your early, sorry my ex husband answered the door in just a towel, I didn’t think you’d be here so soon.” | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/8/2007 10:23:25 PM | Why would that send a man running? It is time for me now.... I feel the same way i have taken care of my children showed them the way and now it is time for me to spend some quality time for myself... I want to be the best i can be for the remaining years i have left....
WHAT INFO WOULD SEND YOU RUNNING ON A FIRST DATE?
1. A liar
2. someone who tells me he is anti-social
3. Has been married more than twice
4. Poor hygiene
5. If he ask do i like anal sex (red flag) | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/9/2007 12:35:29 AM | | Truth is I'd rather piece their personalities together all by myself rather than relying on some off hand comment. If she says she's bisexual or has only guy friends then that's usually enough for me though. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/9/2007 6:15:22 AM | Lets see I would be running if she told me that....
1. She lives with her ex
2.She not divorce yet but in the process
3.She has knife collection 
4.She keeps calling me her EX name.... that a classic | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:11:18 AM | Can you still give a blow job?
I shit you not, men do ask me that. Not EVEN men I'm dating. So if aa man asked me that on a first date, he'd be lucky not to get smacked. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:17:35 AM | Criminal Record
Restraining Order
Ballistic ex
Out of control children
Bankruptcy
Living in someone's basement
Alcohol problems
Gambling problems
Been with prostitute
Had sex with another man
Bad driving record/tickets
Verbally abusive behaviour | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/14/2007 5:35:25 PM | | Catherine Zeta Jones said that on her first date with Michael Douglas he told her he wanted to father her children. THAT would be too much too soon for me. You'd hear the sound of my footsteps, the slamming of the car door and tires screeching as I took off. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/15/2007 12:29:53 PM | I met a man one time that SEEMED online to be a pretty terrific guy ... nice looking, funny, held a conversation, seemed intelligent.
I got to the restaurant parking lot, and he had gotten there about the same time. When he approached me and said who he was, I was shocked .... dirty nasty clothes, and I could smell him from 3 feet away!!!!
Needless to say it was the shortest meeting in history ....  | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/15/2007 5:50:32 PM | crs: Catherine Z just about slept w/anyone that would help her career! she hit the jackpot w/ michael!
..I RAN after a guy told me he had been with a woman the previous night sucking her breasts to help her lactate b/c she had breast cancer eewwwww | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/22/2007 6:11:09 AM | Commonloon....
With regard to ... "my children are grown now.... and NOW it is time for me...."
I guess I don't understand what you mean by that
What I am trying to convey is that if a woman has no room in her life for herself while she raises her children and foregoes dating/relationships because of raising children then - in MO - she is not healthy and that will send me running.
It demonstates many things... no balance in her life, not potentially showing children what a healthy relationship can be like, doesn't think that much of her own well-being, lack of ability to have and maintain a good set of boundaries, and on and on and on..... the list is endless.
I understand the importance of raising children and their needs, however - far too many parents demonstrate to their children with such actions and others that the children's needs/wants trump all and that is, in MO, teaching your children poor values.
I think that we have all seen the effects of such when a child throws a tantrum to get the parent to 'cave' to get what they want. Whether it is candy, a toy, a cell phone, an iPod, a car, a house..... matters little. There ARE things more important than what the child wants. It is the parents job to teach them these values.
I think that the parent having 'time for themselves' while they are raising their children is another venue to teach your children some of these 'values' - the importance of the parent's friends, interpersonal relationships and activities. Too, here is a novel thought - maybe the person that you have a relationship/friendship with might be a good influence with respect to your children.
Too, this is carried with the children for the rest of their lives. We have all seen parents that stay in terrible relationships (i.e. abusive, etc..) 'for the children'. Where did they learn this? Not from teachers, in a book, a classroom, at school.... From their parents.
Again - I only scratch the surface here.
Also, I think that the parent taking this tact is 'programming' themselves such that it would be easy for them to have a negative outlook on relationships. Good luck with that when you 'have time' and start dating again.
So - when I hear someone say 'my children are raised and NOW it is time for me'... these are my fears.
Just like when you talk to someone about their ex and every other word out of their mouth is four letters and they get so jacked up that the veins pop out on their forehead.... it is a safe bet that they haven't dealt with their feelings with regard to their ex and, as such, are not ready for a relationship. This is something common that reading here in this thread that people mostly seem to be able to relate to.
I hope that this clarifies what I was trying to say.
I do not undervalue the importance of children and taking care of them and their needs. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 7/22/2007 11:15:04 AM | If they said:
"I have a criminal record"
"Can you lend me some money? sorry but I can't explain what for.."
[pulls out agenda] "with my busy schedule I might be able to see you sometime next month..let me just pencil you in."
"Let me check with my mom first" [starts dialing home]
"You don't mind if my ex comes along, do you?"
"Let's go get manicures and facials together after we shop at Winners!"
things like that. | |
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