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 Booklover2008

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 201
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Posted: 10/21/2007 11:21:21 PM
Went on a date where the guy told me "I hate Jews, Mexicans and Blacks" of course if you can see my picture you see how that was definitely a problem. I left so quick i almost got in the wrong car to go home..
 gumdrop24

Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 202
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 10/21/2007 11:45:39 PM
This one guy said to me "I'm very stern with my women!"
I thought to myself "WTF!!!! I gotta stay away from this one!"
 1Fish2FishRedfishNewfish

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 203
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 10/22/2007 3:42:05 AM
Booklover,
You're Jewish?!

Gotta love people with minds the width of a razor blade!
 cuddlybuddy

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 204
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 10/22/2007 4:54:43 AM
If a guy said he was into wearing diapers to turn himself on, or liked S&M, I would make a very quick exit!!!

If he told me I looked like his late mother. EEEWWWW!!!!!!!!

If he said he liked my dress and wondered aloud if he could find the same dress in his size!!!

If he said that he had been married +++++ times, that is a warning sign too.

Asking me if I enjoyed cleaning house. NO!!!!!
 moniquesc

Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 205
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 10/22/2007 6:42:26 AM
How about...

• I'm actually married
• I'm actually bisexual
• I've been in prison
• I don't have a driver's license
• This car isn't really mine
• I have terrible credit
• I have been arrested once for CDV
• Right now I'm taking mandatory anger management classes because of something that happened at work
• I have a baby on the way, but no...she's not my g/f....just "something I used to lay on top of"
• I still live with my parents
• I love you
• What would it take to get you to have sex with me?
• Yes, I've actually been married and divorced 3 times
• So, if we started dating would you cook for me?
• How do you feel about oral/anal sex?
• I do sell my prescription pain pills sometimes, but it's not like I'm a drug dealer
• If I find out you are talking to someone else I would be really pissed off; I would probably put my fist through a wall
• I'm not really an animal person; they just get on my nerves.
• Would you like to meet my parents?
• What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done in bed?
• I would love to just touch your breasts; would that be OK?
• Would you just let me go down on you; I wouldn’t want anything in return


They are all things I have heard except the one about being bisexual!
 dbndon

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 206
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Posted: 10/22/2007 7:18:20 AM
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Ha . . . I’ve got (what I think) is a cute one, even though it's not about a first date. This is about a gal who is rather interesting and would like us to date. To my mind, she is fun to watch, but I would never, ever want to spend a lot of time with her. It’s the attitude. For instance:

I noticed her one day warming something in the microwave oven. She was actually standing in front of the microwave, hands on her hips, foot tapping, watching it turn inside, telling the thing to hurry up!

One point in her favor, though, was that she also laughed when she saw me laughing at her impatience. Her reply? “I hate to wait for Anything.”

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 Booklover2008

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 207
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 10/22/2007 8:19:05 AM
Oy Vey 1Fish, Oy Vey
 sawdustnsteel

Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 208
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/7/2008 10:06:40 PM
the last "date" I went on from a dating site was with this one "lady"..

I met her at a sports bar ( her idea) order drinks and food..

we begin talking about what we do for a living, where are familys are from..
the first silent moment hits and she breaks it with " just so you know, I broke my hip about two years ago while competing in karate but I can still screw just fine. It hurts a bit vaginally but its okay anal."



I never spittaked a guiness until then.

I had to retort " well thats good news I guess, since I was just thinking how good dinner is going to be with getting to know you but now my stomach is feeling a bit upset. how about I pay for this and get home before it gets any worse."
 firegurl61-17

Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 209
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/7/2008 10:17:02 PM
I climbed out the bathroom window, in a dress, at a restaurant, after a date said within the first few minutes of meeting me..."If I knew you were so purdy..I would have cleared the dishes off the table and done you right here" I excused myself to the restroom..and two ladies helped me make my escape...thank God I drove my own car!
PS don't wear high heels on first meeting..hard to run fast and climb out bathroom windows! what a creep!
OMG sawdust lol!
 valla maldoran

Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 210
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/7/2008 10:25:55 PM
Holy moley i can't believe an old thread i started like 10 username changes ago just got resurrected.

Well it wasn't so much what one guy said as much as he did on one date. He picked his nose rolled down the window and flung the snot out. Yeah i never bothered with him after that.
 randomstoic

Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 211
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 9:00:33 AM
Drug addiction, untreated mental illness, and no empathy.
 wondering1980

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 212
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 9:43:52 AM
"i have a kid/kids"
"i have been to detox"
"i really really like you"
and the action be making eye contact
 blaka11

Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 213
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:17:39 PM
wow there are so many things that ive read on here that would make a person run ..but really i think the basic statments or actions are a warning yes but everybody has there moments. other people have there situations which they are trying to improve , to those who arnt yes id leave like a bullet too. everyone has there bad habits to all those people who have a long christmas list of things that would make you run,im sure you do or say some of those very things. anyways i think if a female was stuck up and was too much into money id be running like there was no tommoro.
 Johne102

Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 214
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:31:00 PM
I met a woman through a different dating site once who told me she was single....then when I met her in a restaurant she said "Look over there..that is my husband" The man came over and explained they wanted a Threesome..I said good bye.

A few times women have brough the kids with them on date#1 without telling me first it was always disaster....Now I say good-bye if a woman does that.
 Indiananurse

Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 215
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 2:28:21 PM
LOL, *makes mental note about the high heels*

wonder what the two ladies were thinking?
 Justacowgirl4ya

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 216
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 4:52:02 PM
Ok for me it is this...... "Currently I am unemployed and have been for awhile" but then there are things that men DO on the first date to send me running..... This is a true story! I met a guy off of POF.... I have only met 3 off of this thing ...... ok so..... I go to meet him and right off the bat within like 10 minutes .... He grabbed my boob!!! Tried to act like it was an accident! Then it got worse and worse and worse to where I finally had to throw my hands up in the air and leave before I punched him in the mouth! I was so furious that day.... So not only can it be things they say but also their actions as well!
 Justacowgirl4ya

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 217
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 4:56:17 PM
LOL I hope he didnt want to hold hands after the booger incident! LOLOLOL ewwww that is so nasty!
what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:11:34 PM
As she sits beside you and says in a manly voice, come suck on mama's big!!!!
 firegurl61-17

Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 219
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Posted: 4/9/2008 8:12:42 AM
Indiana..the two ladies were lovely to help and we had coffee a few weeks later ( one wrote her phone number on my hand and told me to call her when I got home safe)...they had me laughing so hard at this situation and told me a few of their horror stories..what a way to make new girlfriends.

Gawd fire LOL!
 NERO1

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 220
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:02:10 AM
Probably, similar to what the OP said, the revelation of previous incarceration(s); I'm not talking a night in jail over some minor incident, but I mean serious time in a prison for example. Yes, that tends to be a turn-off to many many ppl, male or female I think. Finding out about a major drug habit; again, not like casual "420", but, major "intervention"-type stuff. Obviously we'd have nothing in common at that point and I wouldn't see any purpose, beyond seeking out potential trouble and heartache, of pursuing that further at that point. Finding out she is married and / or has a crazy stalker-ish husband / ex , or whatever. This isn't high school and I don't need that kind of extra added nonsense on top of everything else. Not sure what else; those are a few top instant "deal-breakers" though. There probably isn't a hell of a lot else that would be an INSTANT deal-breaker really...
 babybleuz

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 221
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Posted: 4/9/2008 11:57:24 AM
I just got done dating this guy who was the sweetest talker. I thought that he may be the one... He did a 360. He's a convicted rapist and con. He's still on here....
 firegurl61-17

Joined: 11/22/2006
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Posted: 4/9/2008 11:59:01 AM
Report him as unfit to date babybleuz...make sure to tell POF.
 babybleuz

Joined: 10/28/2007
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Posted: 4/9/2008 11:59:19 AM
Wow Monique!!! I've heard all those things from just one guy!!!!
 thesecretofjoy

Joined: 1/20/2008
Msg: 224
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted: 4/9/2008 5:21:15 PM
How about "I had a lover who I wouldn't be seen in public with... but I'd go out in public with you!". True story and he uses this site.
 HDynasty81

Joined: 3/10/2008
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Posted: 4/10/2008 5:09:28 AM
She's a drug user
-has kids
-is married/or with someone
-wants a handout
-a jail record
-a racist
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