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 johnny prophet

Joined: 5/16/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 11:37:21 AM

Because not even a real man would ever refure to women as p u s s y.


The word is 'refer'. You used it like 80 times.
 johnny prophet

Joined: 5/16/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 11:41:44 AM

Actually, that's the purpose of it. If you bathe regularly, your 'personal odor' should be a turnon to the opposite sex.


Ninki,

You don't even LIKE oral sex. So maybe you only get a small whiff of that stink from your vantage point. For people like myself who like to spend 30-45 minutes dining on genitals, a little (or a lot) less hair is definitely a GOOD thing. Don't worry, even without ridiculous amounts of hair around it, it still smells like a c0ck.
 Drugstore Cowboy

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 103
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 11:44:31 AM
Oh I'm sorry I was using the american dictionary version in the spellchecker in MS Word 2003,

And you my friend can blow it up your a-ss!
 healingartsintl

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 104
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:07:44 PM
This post has degenerated into a name calling brawl by males who live thousands of miles apart. Until Drugstore Cowboy arrived we were being civil to one another. There are women reading these posts and we don't need to give them an even lower opinion of men than they already have... Why do we need to posture and prove anything to anyone. We'll never see one another face-to-face, or toe-toe-toe, so talking trash just demonstrates a weakness in personality. An inability to communicate. A masculine male does not need to talk trash. Nor does he need to talk someone down to feel better about himself. DC, you have demonstrated a level of immaturity that makes you look childish/foolish. You set an example of how not to behave among grown-ups.
 vg angel

Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 105
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:14:43 PM
And, what's the big deal about a little hair in her mouth?


Thanks, but no thanks - I already floss regularly!

But beyond all the silliness and name calling - it is a personal preference - so do whatever floats your boat.
 Mizdameanor

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 106
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:23:32 PM
pubes are sooo 8o's ugh... like bad porn...
 Muy amable

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 107
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:33:43 PM
For a woman that I have fallen in love with, I'll shave, shag, or clip to match her poodle if that is what she would like. As Huey Lewis said regarding love "That's powerful stuff!"

IMO, if a relationship is what it should be, our willingness to change our "hidden from the public" hair style for the sake of our SO is an absolute no brainer. If your pubies are more important to you than your partner, then find you another partner!

Disclaimer: This is not directed at the OP, but rather a general comment about the high importance of pubic hair. Prices do not include tax, tag or title and are subject to change without notice.
 Nicklewise

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 108
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:45:34 PM
lol, I don't care if a man has hair there but if he wants my mouth around his manly parts it better be short or at the very least trimmed..lol
 Ender

Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 109
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 2:09:51 PM
I'm sure as hell not going to stick my face into a furburger that I need a pair of hedge trimmers to find the little man in the boat....and I damn sure think that many women, esp the type that I generally date, feel the same way about male genitals.
 terrybear

Joined: 2/14/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 2:47:40 PM


I have just been reading this thread & laughing as well as seen the serious points in it.

1st off as someone pointed out here shaving / trimming your sexual organ does not make you any less of a man then any other man out there but in fact makes your a smart man cause it shows a woman ( or man if your that way ) that you take care of yourself & that goes a long way with alot of peaple men or woman. It also gurentee's you are going to get oral that is IF you also make shure to be washed & cleaned down there too daily ... rememeber women don't like stinky dinky !!

Other advantages of trimming / shaving bald are:
- less body odor/sweat to remain down there to make it unpleasant
- less time for maintance
- cooler feeling & also cause of less heat down there increases sperm count/production that is if your trying to have kids.

Now for peaple or women whom don't think men should have body hair I would like to tell you that sometimes it is nice on a person ..... BUT if you are unfortunate enought to have alot of bodyhair totaly removing it is NOT a option. I had a friend whom has his gf at the time shave his back for him thinkin it would make it cooler in the summer & he said all it did was make those 2-3 months of summer more horrible as it grew back out over that time. I felt sorry for him when he told me this & never wished to ever have it done to me if my back ever got bad.

Now some may think this is gross but it makes sence ... if your a guy & have alot of armpit hair trimming / shaving it can be a godsent cause it decreases your armpit odor from failing on you & increases the least amount of times you will need to keep puttin it on as it will last you longer.

well there is my 2 cents on the topic ... good or bad
 healingartsintl

Joined: 6/4/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 4:35:53 PM
2700+ visits to this posting. . . .

What's the BFD. As far as I am concerned, when she split I lost 150 lbs of ugly fat!

Guys. understand that when a woman refers to herself as a "princess" that you are in for Excedrin Headache #5!
 Dreamerxoxoxo

Joined: 3/2/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/5/2007 7:47:07 PM

You think they all wear black lace thongs all the time? Think again.


You're right jp... I don't wear black lace thongs all the time.... that would be way too boring.... I have them in an array of colors.
 Drugstore Cowboy

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 113
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/6/2007 9:05:48 AM
"DC, you have demonstrated a level of immaturity that makes you look childish/foolish.

You set an example of how not to behave among grown-ups."


Well allow me to retort old timer...

Because that's just rich coming from the man of 50, who still calls the female members of the species "p u s s y" and boasts about how much "p u s s y" he's had.

I'm sure you have must also have an penis inferiority complex too.
 slyqtpy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 114
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/6/2007 9:49:13 AM
wow OP, I would have kicked her to the curb after she asked to get rid of the dog. A dog will love you regardless what you do with your pubic hair!
And I completely understand. I think in this day and age we're all expected to look like porn stars with a pubic region like that of a prepubescent child.
Stand your ground! Shave if you want! Or let em be! It's YOUR body and if someone doesn't want you due to the length or lack of pubic hair, then they just aren't worth the time!
How shallow and picky have we become?
 phine_likker

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 115
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/6/2007 9:52:17 AM
I agree with you, but probably many more men pressure their WOMEN To shave their pubes.

no big deal to me in any way, shaved, close trim, moderate bush.

but a huge hairy jungle CAN be a bit of a turnoff! (esp. if you, like me, enjoys giving oral sex)

I think this could be largely a generational/trend thing too.. years ago, in the 1970's, 1980's a big bush/muff was the norm.

then it became more fashionable to trim 'em down tight..then to shave..

maybe Britney Spears, Paris & Lindsay helped start it; it's now apparently 'fashionable' to wear no undies and flash your coozie for the photographers?

looks so much better in the morning paper shaved clean I suppose..?

it still seems much more popular amongst women than men; though I hear that shaving the pubes can help a smaller guy appear 'larger'.

not into the stubble down there myself; i think it's a matter of personal preference & comfort.

 johnny prophet

Joined: 5/16/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/6/2007 10:08:13 AM
maybe Britney Spears, Paris & Lindsay helped start it; it's now apparently 'fashionable' to wear no undies and flash your coozie for the photographers?


Nope. Girls were doing it more than 10 years ago. Almost every woman I've been with was already shaved when I met her. A few of them I had to do it myself, but it seems to be the 'norm' now.



not into the stubble down there myself; i think it's a matter of personal preference & comfort.


That's why you shave every day. Shave every day = no stubble.
 phine_likker

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 117
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/6/2007 10:14:39 AM
^^

or don't, 'not' shaving every day also = no stubble.

reminds me of those stupid "hair replacement" ads they used to have..

some dude: " NOW I can go swimming and feel perfectly natural."

Ummm, couldn't you do that BEFORE your hairweave/plugs?

you could do it bald, you just didn't like people looking at you in a certain way.

somehow the human race survived for millenia without people shaving their pubes; I'm fairly sure it can last longer without it too.


is it partially a fixation on youth (trying to look like you are 12?)


I didn't mean that Britney et al started the shaving thing; I know that, I meant they seem to have made the 'flash' fashionable.
 trubblemakr

Joined: 4/29/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/7/2007 11:36:39 PM
well i can understand a man not shaving legs arms n chest
but damn
personally i think its part of hygeine to trim and shave certain sweaty stinky parts
personally if the female im with doesnt at the least trim it and shave it in the right spots im not even gonna go there
i dont blame any woman for not wanting to go there if i dont trim either
i evn trim armpit hairs as a big mass of wispy stinky pit hairs is a definate distraction plus it is a hell of a thing to brush
like anything if u just refuse to keep it up or trim n keep it tidy like your head hair or facial hair it will become gross and unappealing
it isnt feminine to have ome personal hygiene or pride in yourself men its basic class in the end
 cgisme

Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 119
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 4:25:30 AM
^^^ What about your furry butt ???
I'll wax it for ya!!

 EllieInNotts

Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 120
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 4:35:05 AM
theres thousands of people who participate on these boards, so buddy if you wish to qutit then goodbye don't let the door hit you on the way out. By saying that your basically saying your going to have a good moan - but we have to agree with you. But man, i bloody well dont.

A man should look after himself - pubic hair is discusting to look at very unhygienic and does nobody any favours. If you think to be macho you have to have a pompom amount of hair than your very much mistaken. And i cant blaime the chick going cos she didnt wanna pick hair out of her teeth for months.

The dog is a totally different subject and you should keep that if thats what you want. Personally, i can't date somebody with a dog - i have a phobia of them - dont take the piss.
 goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 4:48:26 AM
it works both ways men are not only manipulated by women but women are manipulated by men. how many men refuse to go down on a girl for an australian kiss because she has a bush???????? persoanlly for me i like a man to be at least trimmed down below if not shaved sorry but i dont like chocking and gagging on the grass whilst sucking the carrot. and like everything else people have different personalities some are control freaks some are spoilt and expect things ............ my advice for what its worth is find someone nice and uncontrolling and willing to tolerate pubic hair suck in her teeth and her throat if you dont want to shave or trim. But please remeber in any relationship there should always be a little bit of compromise to make it work.
 Nightwing66

Joined: 8/1/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 8:45:43 AM
hAHHAHA...this thread is AWESOME!

Recently, my GF made a very polite request for a little more diligence in the manscaping department, saying that it would be rewarded tenfold. "Nymphs are more apt to frolick on a closely clipped lawn" was the gist of the convo....

I almost broke my neck, tripping over the dog, on my headlong dash for the trimmer/etc.

It's all in how you phrase the request.....
 healingartsintl

Joined: 6/4/2006
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 9:51:48 AM
Nightwing's right, "it's about how you phrase the request."

Demands get an immediate negative response. Otherwise, the demands never end. I would have trimmed up had she been more diplomatic in her request. She was a pain in the ass and I am glad she's gone.

And, in my life I have learned to avoid women who refer to themselves as "goddess" or "princess." They are just way too high maintenance and treat men like servants.
 HoseLuvr111

Joined: 5/29/2007
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 10:58:24 AM
True story here:
An ex g/f of mine had WAY too much pubic hair. For a long time, I tried everything to convince her to shave or at least trim a little, so that it didn't look like Jimmy Walker's head was sticking out of her beaver!!
One day, she said, "fine, if I have to, you do too". I thought, well, small sacrifice!! She shaved and so did I. That was a couple years ago, and I gotta say, I still shave on a regular basis. It just looks and feels better. And for a guy like me who enjoys having his balls licked, women are way more into that with a smooth bag than one with a rain forest on it!!

I say to all men who are considering this: DO IT!! You'll thank yourself and so will your partner. Not to mention much more attention will be paid to your balls.
And since I've been shaving my pubes, I've never seen a curly hair in the tub or on the toilet - it's a win-win!!
 Cheap Trick Fan

Joined: 12/12/2005
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 11:08:02 AM
I'm used to finding my son's 'curly hairs', but I sure wouldn't tell him to shave.
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