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 cjp78

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 76
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Posted: 8/26/2007 9:34:44 AM
If there is a closed door, people will try to open it.
 Gentle Aura

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 77
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Posted: 8/26/2007 9:44:28 AM
Well OUTMIND "Princess" to me is the obvious. Think about it, a Princess wants to be treated like royalty, is above everyone else, prissy-like .. sweet_thing is what it is ... simply just sweet. I guess where your from people don't call women "Princess" to signify high-maintenance ... here we do.
 randomstoic

Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 8/26/2007 9:48:13 AM
Stand in the middle of a field with a neon sign and people will come looking for a casino.

Stand in the middle of a field with a paper bag on your head and people wil think it is a political protest.

Lie down in the middle of a field with a bag on your head and people will think that you are Jimmy Hoffa.

Put up a bronze plaque with small print and only the truly curious will read it.
 PrideandPrejudice

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 79
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Posted: 8/26/2007 10:54:22 AM
Honey, most of the men on here can't even read.
 Hugh_Roman

Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 80
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Posted: 8/26/2007 11:06:44 AM
I'm surprised no one mentioned the fact that being in a relationship works as validation of the quality of the person in some people's eyes. Naturally, all the good ones are taken because being taken implies you are good. I notice when I'm at the bar with a couple friends, the attention I get is typical, but when I'm with a woman who's enjoying herself, heads turn.
 SugahPieHoneyBunch

Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 8/26/2007 11:08:28 AM
Well I AM single ,but not looking . I do happen to like the forums ,and that is the only reason I am here right now ,as my profile saids . These forums can get addicting . I have never found forums as good as these ones anywhere else online .
 *singin4u*

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 8/26/2007 12:07:12 PM
I will get some pictures of my significate other as soon as he gets back in town. Thank you for the idea. I just really did not mess with my pictures after I became not single.
I changed my profile but not the pictures.......
Sorry I got everyone in an uproar was not my intention To Each His/Her Own.....
There is no family like the POF family....
 chelsea_hou

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 8/26/2007 12:55:12 PM
Oh come on I can understand the forum addiction. But if you really have someone why would you not post a picture of yourself with him/her. Or better yet no picture at all. The forum posters don't care what you look like. Your either so pathetic you need that attention or your a cheat. Don't post your most provacative picture and then complain about being contacted. No one with more than 3 brain cells buys it...
 *singin4u*

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 84
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Posted: 8/26/2007 2:31:32 PM
Excuse me I do not have a picture of him because he would not let me put the ones I do have on there. They were taken with a cell phone I also do not know what is provacative about my pictures...One is at the bar on my b-day one I took of myself and the one I have as my main picture I have no makeup and then a full body shot. You telling me I am cheating is just an assumtion which is wrong and very rude. I am also not pathetic thank you very much . You need to get over your self rightousness and stop looking for attention...
Oh yeah and according to my profile it is hidden so either POF is not working correctly or it is lying to me. When I pull up my profile it says "Your profile is hidden, instant messaging is disabled, no user can find you in search results. Unhide Profile Now!"
 ronscons

Joined: 5/22/2006
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Posted: 8/26/2007 6:33:58 PM
Me-thinks that sweething's potty mouth should be washed out with handsoap- or maybe her parents should have spanked her bum more [sounds like this child is a very spoiled brat]!!! NOT A VERY GOOD EXAMPLE OF YOUR NAME-"Sweet"thing- not sweet at all. Plus having all these couples on here clogs up the site for the singles but of course in the selfish days of today that Sweething so typifies thats not even on the radar!
 *singin4u*

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 86
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Posted: 8/27/2007 6:21:29 AM
As it has been said this is a free dating web site. It does however give one the option to not be single and even be married..
If this is a problem for you as also was said before go to a site where they don't allow you to be in a relationship. I think as much as some of think I defend to much you also protest to much. Maybee you are not having much luck finding someone. I believe that is due to your attitude you know the holier than thou one. Why don't you single people stop contacting the ones who are not then we will not have anymore issues with you. I live in America we have freedom of speach. So as long as POF does not boot us not single/Not looking people off get over yourselves..
Why don't you use up some of the energy you seem to have for something good...Most often a name on here does not mean what it says as in ronscons which means to me well that you are planning to con me...Get the point.....
Everyone should walk a mile in someone elses shoes before we go telling others how to live..
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 8/27/2007 7:02:22 AM
Coz they dont read profiles they just look at the pictures !
 chelsea_hou

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 88
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Posted: 8/27/2007 7:47:38 AM
Sorry singin4u I wasn't at all referring to you. You I can believe you have no picture and your profile is hidden. But some of the others I don't think so.
 NeedMojo

Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 8/27/2007 9:21:00 AM
Oh for fvck sakes. Quit bull sh!tting us and you. You're just a player wannabe addicted to the attention you're getting on POF because you don't get it in real life. You're looking for validation from other people who will tell you it's OK. Exactly what you want to hear right?

Don't get me wrong, I believe it's possible, but I also believe it's possible that aliens exist. Your chatting in forums ON A SINGLES BOARD you bird brain. Get the fvck off and use crackbook (Facebook) if you want to keep in touch with someone. Ya... I know... then you'll have to watch what you say and how much you flirt with them. (sheesh...)
 WeaponBoricua

Joined: 5/27/2005
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Posted: 8/27/2007 11:09:55 AM
I have the same problem but the thing is i dont get mail at all lol I'm in search of friends especially lady's couse i get along bather with them
 *singin4u*

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 8/27/2007 12:12:33 PM
Everyone is very quick to judge everyone else. Might want to take a step back make sure you are directing that anger in the right direction. Do you really care if people are not single not looking. Everywhere you go in this world bars or whatever have people who are not single not looking. At least here it says it where if you speak english it is easier to tell.
If you think posting rude comments on here about someone choice in thier life makes you look better then them you are sadly mistaken. Even if those with single not looking are out there just to cheat on thier significate other.
As far as I can tell there are alot of people that are awfully bitter is it because you are still single..?
 natural energy

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 8/28/2007 9:56:22 AM
ronscons and outmind,

You are so right.
The "princess" and "sweet thing" (how ironic) both need their mouths cleaned out. Wow!

... but some people like that sort of talk ........ sad ........ but true!
.... the downfall of "freedom of speech" ..... if you can call it speech.

I do get entertained with some of these threads!

It does sometimes make me wonder why the attached want to be part of this forum, other than for the obvious .... but then, there are some great threads mixed in with the entertainment threads!

I have, and continue to meet some quality friends on here ..... and some of them are attached ..... they are the ones who know how to discuss and debate, without using abnoxious vocabulary, if you can even call it vocabulary.

Yes, one can have friends on here without being the date potential .... after all, if you believe that your true LOVE (if you believe it will be one) starts as a friendship, then one of these friends may develop as such.

Those of you who have met your love here and continue to participate as friends, that is great!
I have to admit that some of you add to the energy in this forum, and keeps me interested in the discussions here.
 SunnyTexas

Joined: 9/28/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 12:40:35 PM
Princess, do you know you are wollaring in something worse than sand?
 natural energy

Joined: 9/23/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 1:40:49 PM
SunnyTexas .... there is a pattern here ... certainly issues when someone takes shallow pop shots at people personally.

btw .... In case you did not know, I guess athletic does not include taking adventure trips on the extreme sport side! etc .....
 mahogany_rush

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 8/28/2007 2:01:16 PM
Ahhh princess you do make me laugh kid, your posts with your condescending attitudes is hilarious, why on God's green earth do you feel that you are qualified to make comments on who should be online on a dating site?

You made some ridiculous statements earlier and it overshadowed the legitimate insights that you had to offer, in my opinion you could of omitted the exaggerations, I think some of the folks would of benefited from a few of your insights instead of riding you for the silly stuff and attacking someone profile is generally last resort to a weak argument

And before you come back with some cleaver retort that im angry or have anger issues I DO
HAVE ANGER ISSUES, I ran out of steak sauce for my Steak, also I ran out of Cream for my Coffee this morning
 SunnyTexas

Joined: 9/28/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 2:04:59 PM
No..athletic means pretending your a watermoccasin and it's kinda creepy.

golly gee willakers...she's a wise old 19 years. whoooooeee !


It makes sense now. Why on earth do 19 year old kids sign up on dating sites?
Can anyone say....."JAIL BAIT" ! !

I assume some teenage girls are here only looking for a sugar daddy who has a fancy for groveling teenage girls who crawl on their bellies and hissssssssssss. "down girl...down !" Sad thing is...the sugar daddy gets trapped, not the snake.

Princess, you are younger than my daughter and I would be SO ASHAMED of her if she acted like you. Just where is your mother anyway?
 natural energy

Joined: 9/23/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 3:06:30 PM
mahogany rush and SunnyTexas,

Thank you for the few chuckles!

... as I said, there is entertainment here ...... although sometimes some sad cases, as you rightly say SunnyTexas ....

When one is so young, and most of the young people around you are available, I don't understand the cruising on singles sites.
........ but then, what do we know?

... and then they complain about those who want to be on POF for the forums only! ... something not connecting there.
 SunnyTexas

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/28/2007 3:11:39 PM
Exactly. Something stinks.

I do believe some of these girls troll these sights, looking for the "married men wanting intimate encounters"

She may come off as sweet and innocent and just as fun as a barrel of monkeys, but...later she blackmails them or she'll tell there wife.

Yes they both deserve what they get.

ooops got off topic, just wanted men to beware, women are snakes too.

Princess Taffy, does the following quote have any recall to you, he must've had a profound influence on you.

"From this arises the question whether it is better to be loved rather than feared, or feared rather than loved. It might perhaps be answered that we should wish to be both: but since love and fear can hardly exist together, if we must choose between them, it is far safer to be feared than loved."
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 3:21:39 PM
When my SO and I first joined we were both single and available. It never bothered me that there were married or attached people here. Unless it was a married guy writing me looking for some "fun on the side" and we all know what to do with those.

What tickles me is those that get a wrinkle in their shorts because they think that having the couples on here somehow clogs up the pond and hampers their chances for finding someone. Or the few that write the nastygrams saying "get your azz off here for God sakes". Angry, silly people, honestly if all the involved people disappeared tomorrow their luck with the opposite sex wouldn't change one iota.

There may be singles sites that DO screen for only single, but it'd likely be a pay site as they'd have to do some background checking.

I just ignore it and write to my friends and post in the forums. I don't let the angry and disenfranchised bother me at all.
 SunnyTexas

Joined: 9/28/2006
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Posted: 8/28/2007 3:28:49 PM
bucsgirl, I can appreciate that, I really can.

I have many friends here and even if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't stop posting on the forums or keeping up with friends via POF. I've made oodles of friends here.

I just worry about a 19 year old girl, cruisin' for dates anonymously. It's kinda scary. I mean, some girls can be really niave.
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