| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:31:36 PM | It all seems to be in the communication (my experience, not neccesarily yours). No communication, no good chance at satisfaction. Many men--and women, too--just don't do this part really well. Of course, if all else fails and you really like the guy, send him to a doctor. The medical research is showing that SSRI's, like Paxil, can be effective in treating...um....minute man syndrome . The down side of that is you could lose your minute all together . But the doctor may add Cialis, or Wellbutrin or...  I guess Pinocchio didn't know what a good thing he had growing...uhhhh...going, I mean... | |
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tdh46
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Joined: 1/7/2007
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:32:22 PM | These threads are so damn predictable.
As sure as the sun will rise tomorrow, you will get a alot of post of guys talking about just how good they are and that you must be dating the wrong guys, or how it's all about the women to them.
Just like if you start a thread about penis size, you will get all those posts from guys playing with 10 or 12 inches. and how they have to be careful or they might hurt somebody. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:38:25 PM |
It takes two to tango sooo, wafta, you are saying that with one woman a man will last 1 minute, but with another he'll stay up for an hour???..............this is hillarious | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:53:02 PM | Aaarrrrrgggghhh!
I get so annoyed with women who **** about men who don't consider their needs!! You know what? There are just as many women who don't consider our needs either. So many women make no effort to find out what turns a guy on or what might turn him off!
I don't claim to be an amazing lover but I am an attentive and generous one it really pisses me off when I don't get it in return. And that happens more often than not! I've been with women who've genuinely expected me to be fully erect and ready to go again within a couple of minutes of coming. I've known women who were quite happy for me to spend half an hour with my head in their lap but wouldn't offer anything in return.
Men are capable of much more than just whippin' it in, whippin' it out and fallin' asleep. Make an effort to understand what turns a man on. You'll be amazed at the results!
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:57:32 PM | | Crystal, selfish men are out there, but I myself love to pleasure my partner for as long as she wants before I blow it (no pun intended) . I really enjoy giving oral, maybe we should meet, and after I make your legs shake, you will change your thoughts on this subject | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 2:41:59 PM | | I do my exercises. If I was loose...do you think it would go quick? I try to explain that I can't get off during sex. I need to be played with. I could be a 2 minute girl, if you rub me a minuute. I even show them how, because many men do not know about G-Spots. Anyway, I always have to please myself while they are getting off and that is wrong! I want sex 5x's per week at least. Men are so boring...they only want it once or twice. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:00:28 PM |
they only want it once or twice
Well cause they do more of the required "work" in addition to more worries at the workplace! And whining at home. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:08:27 PM | This is not really a gender issue...sex tends to be come boring and routine for most of us. Now don't get me wrong I like sex infact I believe that "good sex" is one of the major fondations of sustaining a lasting relationship. So why is it so difficult to maintain...
My thoughts are simple we become lazy, we figure quantity is better than quality, we take our partners for granted...sound right?
You can't make love by yourself it takes two so if you want to have "great sex" put some effort into it!  | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:20:36 PM | | Sorry but I've not found that to be the case in my current situation, (oh god did I just admit that I recently began a ?? with someone I've known for quite a while?) but I have had that happen in a previous relationship so I can relate to your 'dilemma'. Could it be that the guy was just so totally turned on that he didn't last that long, then didn't realize that you weren't satisfied or is it that he simply didn't care? Either way, it will quickly become apparent if this is the norm for him and maybe he just isn't the man for you. On the flip side, how about the guy who keeps going and going and going, like the energizer bunny lol. Makes ya wonder doesn't it... if you are really able to meet his needs or if he is just so into pleasing you that he willingly takes a 'back seat' ? Feast or famine? I say just go with it and see how it ends up, because time in the bedroom, although very important, does not a relationship make. It takes a whole lot more. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:34:29 PM | I was under the impression that the woman was only there for my pleasure? And it’s been said they the forums aren’t informative. Really? This is very interesting…it’s not the woman’s job to just satisfy the man? Oh, the times they are a changing.
I will immediately double their pleasure and take it to two minutes! So it is written…so it shall be done! | |
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wafta
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Joined: 2/14/2007
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 3:40:47 PM |
How hard is it to please a woman after you finish
Come on now girls, lets be honest here. We should both please each other BEFORE he even starts, never mind "after" he finishes - WTF???
The truth is as long as the foreplay's good, it doesn't matter how long penetration takes. Women f uck because they know men like to f uck !! If they were completely honest, they'd say it doesn't actually matter whether he gets in there or not !!
We have ways of making you cum that are much better and last much longer than penetration - seems some of you are lacking in ideas  | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 4:08:50 PM |
Come on now girls, lets be honest here. We should both please each other BEFORE he even starts, never mind "after" he finishes - WTF??? Did anybody say that we don't please each other? WTF??
The truth is as long as the foreplay's good, it doesn't matter how long penetration takes. The truth is it DOES matter.....if it doesn't matter for you - don't speak for all of us, would you??
Women f uck because they know men like to f uck !! and again???? I like to f*ck because I love that........not because men do.........
If they were completely honest, they'd say it doesn't actually matter whether he gets in there or not !! I am completely honest - at some point it does matter.......you can't always enjoy with fingers, vib, tongue etc...........at some point you DO need that
We have ways of making you cum that are much better and last much longer than penetration - seems some of you are lacking in idea It's not only about cumming...........it's about making love, sex, feeling as one........otherwise why would oyu need a man for sex? just get a vibrator | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 4:34:53 PM | Amen! You hit the nail on the head as far as the overall reason for "shitty" sex later on in a long term relationship. When it starts to become routine, there isn't a person out there that can say they didnt have "git er done, git er done, git er....ahhh finally" running through their mind.
Now from personal experience with the topic at hand....I"ll be a man and admit I've experienced the minute man syndrome ( hey gals, new abreviation to play with MMS ) on a few occasions. All are occassions I forget the details, or wish I never remembered at all. NONE of them were because I just didnt care if she gets off. I care more about my ability to please a woman than I care about getting off myself. Hell, I'm a man. Getting off is EASY. Pleasing a woman is IMPOSSIBLE...well, in a few things anyway.
I know I have overanalyzed every situation where I'm left red in the cheeks with embarrassment so I have it down to three common reasons for "MMS".
1) holy foreplay! I should have cum 10 minutes earlier after half an hour of oral sex, kissing and grinding and days worth of heavy flirting and fantasizing about this moment. It's a wonder I lasted a minute, I was ready to burst the on the first push.
2) Who the hell are you anyway and how did you get into my bed? Who stole my Hennesy?
3) What? Right here in this ally? Fumbling hands groping zippers and buttons in the middle of mildly lit alley steps away from the club you just left for a cigarette break, looking over your shoulder as you bend her over and slide it in. The race to the finish is fantastic in this case cuz you know its going to be a sex fest when you actually get her home.
I will leave you with the distinct possibility that there are men out there that are minute men 100% of the time due to some unamed male medical condition OR
due to being some big mouthed "macho" type with little**** who are really just wanting to get it over with cuz they suck at it and KNOW it. Why else would a man not care that his woman is unsatisfied, and further demoralized that you dont care enough to at least attempt to go down on her and pull out a toy while you recharge? Badda Boom! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 4:43:16 PM | ... sorry - I read the headline as " minute " men , as in seriously vertically challenged ...
checked your profile - you dont live in Lilliput do you ...??  | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 5:30:16 PM | Minute men eh? maybe he's gotta masterbate more, build up his stamina.
My friend hooked up with my roommate a while ago and told me that he was not even a minute man, like a 10 second man. I didn't really take her seriously cause girls always seem to attack a guys equipment or how good his equipment is if their relationship didn't work out. BUT then my roommate was all drunk he was talkin to me how he cant even last longer than 3 mins, like ever.
We ended up getting in a huge fight (i suspect him of robbing everything in my house), and now I'm glad he told me that so I can make fun of him for it whenever I see him in the bar. | |
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wafta
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Joined: 2/14/2007
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 6:16:21 PM | Wafta.... I wouldn't dream of giving him a report card either as Indigo suggests LOL!!! I'd hate to have to open a can of wup a$$ on the women beating down his door. I'm NOT giving him up, not no way, not no how.
Just like if you start a thread about penis size, you will get all those posts from guys playing with 10 or 12 inches. and how they have to be careful or they might hurt somebody
TDH would those be man inches.... or real inches??? LOLOL, sorry I just couldn't help myself.
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:17:15 PM | crystal, I'm doing my best to give your 'complaint' some serious consideration ...and don't know what to tell you other than I get the feeling that you're more determined after going thru the pain of childbirth to make what leads to such far more enjoyable for yourself.
It's good that you have more compassion for yourself in suchan act, but I hate to think that you're holding a stopwatch and expecting a marathon performance for the men who just might find your higher drive too much for their more sensuous sensibilities. I've learned, at least for myself, that there's a fine line between thinking of myself as the lean, mean sex machine and a man who's making love to a woman whom I love. It often gets blurred in the heat of the moment, but I've found being a bit intoxicated helps to 'lube the machine'. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 10:24:55 PM | I could guess two possiblities.
1. Your meeting the wrong men, guessing your age, I bet most of them are very young men. Young men hasn't learned that slow and steady brings more pleasures to the woman yet. They are into getting the job done and women are so polite they don't smack the men and go, "Idiot slow down next time."
2. You are probably only dating men who want to get as much action as they can before they reach the age of 30. Its about how much, not how long.
What you need to do is find someone more mature. Someone that shows a serious interest in you and what you desire. And stop giving away the free sex. Make the guy earn it. I know its gonna be hard at your age. But there should be someone mature. Us men grow up slower, but not all of us. I grew up faster than most, but I didn't learn proper control until I was 25. Not sure how my Ex put up with me those first 2 years. I guess I had endurance on my side.
Then the other phase of that, once you find him, You gotta teach him. A man isn't going to magically know what you like. Communication improves all relationships and communicating your sexual likes and dislikes is indeed part of that relationship. Don't be embarassed. If your gonna be intimate there should be nothing the two of you can't talk about. Because intimacy is the closest any two people will ever come in life. Well, almost closest, but you get message. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/4/2007 12:32:42 AM | Actually I date older men. My daughters father is 10 years older than me. I don't think that age has anything to do with it. Oh God, I know my mom is on plentyoffish and I hope she does not read my postings!! Well, then she will know why I have been so moody and frustrated!  | |
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