| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/5/2007 3:05:03 PM | your lookin or are into the wrong kind of man. i'll let you in on a little hint, you have to like pleasing people before yourself before you'll do it. Also you have to be with someone who pays attention cause your not goin to know what the reaction is if you do this or that to please someone unless your paying attention and taking mental notes. In all get someone who's considerate and can basically take a hint | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/5/2007 4:07:48 PM | LOL @ OP's comments.
I've heard that so many times that men can't last, but me personally I don't understand how any man could be a minute man. If i TRIED i couldn't be a minute man, unless when i masturbate if i wanted to.
But i generally can go for hours in the bedroom.
when i lost my virginity we had sex for 4 hours, with about three 10min breaks in between each hour.
i dunno if it's just me, but i seem to have pure control over myself and my body won't just excrete semen at the touch of a women. that seems so silly and crazy to me that some men have no control over their penis! LOL. it's kinda pathetic actually...
every time i have had sex with girls they have always cum before me and then they start requesting for me to cum cos they wanna see me get off and they really put some effort into it cos i made them cum first. :D | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/5/2007 8:49:21 PM | I'm glad you said something... a lot guys are selfish.
When you know hes fixing to finish... gently tug on his balls or switch positions a lot.. both are tricks i've learned. Make him satisfy you before hand... maybe some 69 action... that way.... you can at least have one before he well.. you know.
Sex is better with a healthy man.... trust me! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 12:02:44 AM | | personally, I think that if you are with a considerate lover you shouldn't need to grab his balls or change position , or any other delaying tactics .. :) He will have already made sure that you have come at least once before he gets anywhere near .. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 12:11:45 AM | Gee, it really must be rough for you...
Every single damn time I've had sex (not near enough for my 26 years... not near enough), I have put her before me... That is one thing I do... and I probably shouldn't as much as I have done, because it makes things more difficult for me. But, when you care about someone (and I do, if I'm engaging in sexual congress with them), you do as much as you can, with what you have to give...
the giggleparts - A tisket, a tasket... now give me my god damn basket | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 3:53:54 AM | | I don't know about you and the men you pick, but I usally get her off first so we both cum together the second time. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 7:56:30 AM | | your all going on about how us women need t talk t our men during before wotever but the whole point is they never last long enough for you to tell them, they are just blowing ther loads as quick as possible really if they are comeing so quick t blow their own trumpet who reallly thinks they are guna want t stop and listen to what you want. and it does take two to tango but you have both got t make the effort i hate women who lay ther like a sack of potatoes and think its all going t come to them | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:55:00 AM | TO ME SEXUAL SATISFACTION IS A MATTER OF EFFORT AND CONCERN; if u want to please the person, if u care enough and that means doing what the other person wants/needs; you will satisfy them.
the other person just has to be patient; depending on the other person it can be an extended situation or timeframe..
but that is only if the person who is not being pleased cares enough to let the person get better or give them a chance to show they are willing to put in the effort to get better.
an if the other person is willing to get better | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 9:01:33 AM |
"Men today tend to be minute men"
and you actually have 'experience' with a sufficient number of men to make this a statistically significant conclsuion??
if this conclusion is based on 2 or 3 or 4, even 10, or, 20 men, it's pretty meaningless. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 11:53:52 AM | | When I'm with my own girl I last awhile to please both of us and because I get more joy out of having my own woman. When I'm with an escort I hit that as if it was a porn film. All holes, fast, painful, it's all about me since I'm paying for it. I love escorts. The 10's of thousands I've invested in escorts worldwide have made my life fuller. | |
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tork15
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Joined: 3/13/2007
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 12:32:49 PM | | yo dear! think about it! not all women have that issue to deal with. try to think outside your own box! that question is most of whats wrong. there are a few virgin men out there or good guys that decide not to stay busy, therefor making the experience of vagina that much more overwhelming to them. but for the most part i believe its stress and self-conciousness. when women like you put pressure on the guy to knock your socks off those reprecussions are to be expected. if you try to ensure that you both are comfortable not just you, maybe he could relax and not feel like its up to him alone to put on a good show. and one more thing, if i decided to make you a lucky lady, youd be known as a minute woman yourself. the only difference is how an orgasm effects a mans emotions and drains his energy. ive found that alot of girls can have multiples and still go strong. men arent built that way. but yes, we can find other ways to please after we are finished off. yet maybe these guys think the same of you as i do and wouldnt really care if you got off at all. look closer to home for the answer to your question! have a nice day! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 2:11:21 PM | I think many guys seem to think sex is a bit of a sprint. First to the finish wins! They should be viewing sex more as a distance race. They just need to pace themselves so they can make it to the end without burning out early....     | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/6/2007 2:14:17 PM | well let's not totally generalize.. I am more of an "hour man" (or more)
I find women more often complain that it takes me TOO LONG to come (never happy, are they?)
they orgasm, then are begging me to "shoot your load, please come already!" | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:14:05 PM | The longer men go without sex the less time it takes when they finally get it.
Maybe you are not giving it to them often enough ?
Maybe try it twice ? the second time always takes much longer. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:25:55 PM | Try communicating better. If you like something he's doing to you that will make you finish faster, tell him.
Here's the same problem from another angle: I'll be going forever, breaking my back to help my partner finish and when I'm about out of juice and ready to call in the stunt double I'll ask if they came and they'll say yeah, 3 times. Okay, how about communicating next time so I don't work myself to death? There are physical signs but every woman is different.
Subtle hint - Communicate! | |
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tork15
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Joined: 3/13/2007
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/5/2007 11:39:33 PM | | yo dear! think about it! not all women have that issue to deal with. try to think outside your own box! that question is most of whats wrong. there are a few virgin men out there or good guys that decide not to stay busy, therefor making the experience of vagina that much more overwhelming to them. but for the most part i believe its stress and self-conciousness. when women like you put pressure on the guy to knock your socks off those reprecussions are to be expected. if you try to ensure that you both are comfortable not just you, maybe he could relax and not feel like its up to him alone to put on a good show. and one more thing, if i decided to make you a lucky lady, youd be known as a minute woman yourself. the only difference is how an orgasm effects a mans emotions and drains his energy. ive found that alot of girls can have multiples and still go strong. men arent built that way. but yes, we can find other ways to please after we are finished off. yet maybe these guys think the same of you as i do and wouldnt really care if you got off at all. look closer to home for the answer to your question! have a nice day! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2007 8:37:24 AM | | Age perhaps. I tend to think that the older we get, the more pleasure we get in the experience, not the end result. More time spend enjoying the texture of her skin, the shapes of her body, listening to her heavy breathing, tasting, a long slow process is by far the best way to enjoy a woman. Not much fun to just climb on, do the deed, roll over, and go to sleep. The minute men are missing the best part. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2007 11:27:10 AM | What a perfect idea!!! Sex report cards.
Then I'd never have to be on an online dating service AGAIN! ! ! WOOO HOO! ! ! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2007 11:41:42 AM |
Why is it that men tend to be minute men. I am not a slut, but I do have sex in relationships. It seems as though, sinceI had my daughter in 2000, men can't not last in the bedroom.
There is not much YOU can do about it. They don't get it is all. Try dating men from a different genre or age group. Not that it will be much better.
There is a lot that goes into that. If you have been in a seductive mood and have teased him some then unless he is aware of his body he will fire too fast. But who doesn't like to be teased? If you didn't it would take away an important part.
It's education believe it or not. Thinking about dead cats or his grandmother probably isn't going to work for a him. He's thinking too much about his feeling. That will wreck it every time. He's not concentrating on you. So I guess you were right on from the beginning. They are thinking about themselves.  | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2007 11:56:30 AM | If you aren't happy about something for an extended period of time, it's your own fault
ps. cjgregory gave horrible advise. You're the only one who should do something about it. I suggest communicating.
pps. actually, I have to reply to this:
I am not a slut, but I do have sex in relationships
you have SEX in relationships?!?! Slut. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2007 2:25:03 PM | IF A GUY is not really into u or care for u he won't put in a full effort, cus he does not consider u someone who he will be w/for long term or ever again; so he just takes care of himself and hopes that inthe process of doing so you will get satisfied.
on a sidenote to really be able to please, u need to be humble, open and willing to go out of ur zone to please; sex is about sharing and pleasing the other person, when i do it i focus one hundred percent on pleasing my partner. Cus im trying to please them, not myself..most people dont give the other persons needs that much attention, that is guys and girls | |
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