| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/16/2007 11:01:08 PM | | I also think a lot of it has to do with physical fitness level. I noticed that harder I push myself in my athletic exploits, the easier it is to go for long periods in the bedroom. I'm not saying every guy can go for an hour or two, but getting one's self in better shape is never a bad thing. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/17/2007 12:23:55 AM | | god I'm hoping to some day break the 5sec barrier and actually get my jeans off first... a minute... like sure, there are guys out there who can last over a minute... wonderful, magically guys... | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/17/2007 2:39:58 AM | Last in the bedroom??
Try this for an average date
8pm baby sitter arrives
8 15 he picks you up.
8 30 Theatre resturant
9 00 Dinner served. (full meal three hours later than normal dinner time)
12pm show finishes head home (This is the normal bed time anyway)
12 30 Arrive baby sitter departs
coffee
1am to bed and foreplay
1 30 penetration
1 35 orgasm.
1 36 He's asleep.
Thats one an a half hours after he would normally be asleep. Organize your sex life better. Possibly a night in where he can get aquainted with your kids and the two of you could go to bed when your kids do. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 6:02:35 AM | Well i know one thing and that's about me i could last up to an hour .
And my record is 6 hours but did cum 6 times.
Most of the time men get turned on fast by the way you moan or if you talk dirty.
Try to observe what it is that makes him explode.
If he feels that he's about to cum make him stop for a sec. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 8:45:08 AM | | You know, you're half the equation in this situation. I've never met a man that doesn't try harder after he gets "his" when I finish myself off in front of him. LOL... There are things that you can do/buy to extend your man's erection. Investigate it! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men(most, not me)
Posted: 12/21/2007 3:29:44 PM | I used to be that way up until i learned a few secrets , (1) Hour and a half now made a big difference too , im happier and their happier.
2.) tell ya later
some of the "minute man issue" is either not relaxing with her or trying to be ramjet . slow down some enjoy it ; its not a race its a marathon but with foreplay.
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 3:38:20 PM | | well crystal, i wonder how many men you are talking about in 7 yrs, and sometimes people that think everybody else is screwed up should look in the mirror real hard. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 4:53:56 PM | | why do women today complain so much lol. 100 years ago, I don't think people complained about that situation, the feminist movement and society has it instilled in people's heads that sex is supposed to last a certain amount of time, it isn't a sport lol. Every guy out there has probably experienced times where they just can't hold off, it's people that whine about it that make it a big deal, get yourself a dildo if he can't do the job. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 5:13:37 PM | Haven't seemed to have this problem with men. Of course most of the guys I was with had me to the point where I needed a break just to catch my breath! Now the last guy had some motion problems and I think I found out I may have a laytex allergy Round the world sucks! Why in the world a guy would do that, no clue...painful...but I couldn't wait for it to get over with. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/21/2007 7:08:23 PM | | My ex had issues because of his medications that made it so he couldnt hold off so he would 69 me first and then manual if i needed it after... you just need to find a man who can last or one who knows what to do when he cant | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/22/2007 10:28:26 AM | I _Used to_ have that problem . . in my youth . . but . .
Having had a Terrific teacher. . later in life . . {30's} . .
I found that it's Just as exciting to _Please_ a partner as to Be pleased By the partner !!
...That spending the time and effort isn't a chore . . but a Genuine Pleasure . .!! 
What can be better than to Make Love for over an Hour, and have your partner say...
' *GASP*GASP*..Let's have a snack...then do it all over, Again..!! *GASP*GASP*!! ' ??
. . W a n n a . . ?? | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/22/2007 10:59:42 PM | | wow so much prowess out there on both sides. Tends to make one feel a bit insecure. I was a virgin until 19 then had sex a whopping twice before getting married at 22. Although i was with my ex for 23 years i never did learn to last even with numbing agents and rings. A condom would allow a bit more time but not much. Personally i think it has a lot to do with not being circumsised(the foreskin protects the tip of the penis from rubbing against the clothing thus the nerve endings are not harmed). This combined with a vivid imagination could be a large contributing factor. But i could go several times it just wouldn't do anyone any good. There are those of you who would say this is a cop out but to be honest if i wanted to be selfish i would outlast you because i get no enjoyment out of not lasting either. Just when i get started i'm done where is the enjoyment in that? I did get so i could get her off orally or by hand and on occasion if she was very horny we would use an appliance but very seldom. It took years for her to actually realise she could have an orgasm and not have to be ashamed of it. I on the otherhand would sometimes get off once she started into her orgasm without ever having any stimulous on my penis just the act of getting her off and her reaction. This is one of the reasons i am not even sure i want to date anyone from this new era i am so far behind the expectations of what women seem to want in the bedroom. But if that's all they're worried about i'll be better off on my own and seeing my kids and grandkids taken care of. So that's my 2 cents worth except to add to all you guys that are thinking how simple i am to go onto a dating sight and talk about how poor i am at sex you're right i am simple in that i lead a very simple life and that is exactly what i want so no worries i will do what i do and concentrate on things in my kids lives if that's all there is left. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/22/2007 11:14:57 PM | | fact is......some guy's are more sensitive then other's! and another part could also be that if you dont get it often you wont go aslong. if i get it everyday ill last 2-3 hours everytime but i get creative. try rough sex like fast and hard a lot! if i dont have it everyday ill cum in like 45 mins to 1 1/2 hours! just got to work at it.another way to last longer is take a french ticler or rubber band and put it around the head! it takes more sensativity away thus making him last longer! i tried it once and went for 9 hours and couldnt cum but i havent tried it since either! experiment.....oh dont try the stuff called rock hard....he will bust faster then normal too. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 8:19:57 AM | you put up with that? hah!
men should come second if they can't hold up their own, if at all get some stones girls! TELL these twits what to do. jesus, if I hadn't learnt through a long term relationship I'd be useless too. lol. But apparently it seems to work :) plus I find myself able to hold off indefinately, or at the very least, pull out and please her a bit until subsides a little!! ffs!!! come on guys! Make us look bad! | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 10:35:13 AM | OP:
If you find that your guy is getting off too quickly before you can orgasm then you might communicate to him some different ways to help you orgasm before he gets his.
If all else fails, try using WORDS to communicate this to him. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 10:45:49 AM |
sinceI had my daughter in 2000, men can't not last in the bedroom. It's almost like they are out for themselves.
sounds like u accidentally answered your question.
If a guy isn't into you, he's gonna get his and be outta there. Sounds like thats what happened.
be more picky and maybe that problem won't be a problem anymore. | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:19:15 AM | Well OP, there are men out there and they are indeed selfish if they can't at least finish us off at some point. I had a thought though. If you're in your home and your daughter is sleeping, maybe they rush to make sure they finish in case your noises wake her up.
I've rarely had it happen that my partner hasn't at least gotten me off one way or another. I'd suggest trying to put off the intercourse until he's made you happy before hand-insist on lots of foreplay if he's known to be a minute man. A lot of women don't get off on penetration alone anyways.
Send him this link and tell him you want him to try to find it. It doesn't take women long to get off this way (according to my female friends & myself).
I'm posting it an important service to the male population....lol...If I get it put on enough threads, maybe every man in the world will become talented...It really is a valid website and no...I am not affiliated with it in anyway...Happy reading!
ww.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 2:33:56 PM | I dont see how it can be stated that " I always last an hour " or " I always last only 5 minutes " ... surely it varies with the mood, the time available, the ambience and so many other things ..
Sometimes both partners can be so revved up that a couple of minutes hard sex is the most gratifying of all
Sometimes its nice to take a couple or three or more sweaty steamy hours over love making , with breaks for a drink, change cd , cuddle, smoke, whatever
as long as you both enjoy what your doing , all is good
And for the record ( whilst it has been discussed in previous posts ) I always take my partners pleasure more importantly than my own , with her hopefully cumming several times before I do :)
Enjoy
Ogs
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 3:55:31 PM | | you just are with the wrong men, if they truely were in it for mutual gratification, they would be more in tune with your needs and not their own, which is why they last only a minute then are done, if they finish that quickly, they should then proceed to pleasure you, thus getting themself excited all over again and ready for more | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 12/26/2007 4:17:25 PM |
why is it always the mans fault that YOU are hard to please maybe u should talk to them n tell them what does it for you? and how to please you. as for u not being satisfied since ur child was born lol well theres exercises u can do that might help you there lol..
60 seconds is not long enough to please ANYBODY. And as far as the OP doing "exercises", how the hell will that help a guy who obviously has problems with premature ejaculation?
AND YES, cretin, it IS YOUR JOB to please the woman you are with. Just as it's her job to make sure you are pleasured. If that wasn't the case, we should all just masturbate and the hell with having sex.  | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:28:09 PM | | lmao ok if it takes u 30 minutes to have a quick quickie when it comes to shaking one out theres definatly a problem possibly cuased by damage to the nerves that or u got shit porn lol what i dont get is why are so many men like "oh no i dont have that problem i last hours one guy even said a woman comes 3 times before he even starts having sex with her" ok im all for u r male pride here guys but i mean everyone has this problem at some time god knows i have but like many people have said so many ways to combat this instead of just firing ur gun off why dont you try pleasing her first make sure theres lots of foreplay then get down to it then when u finish play some more just because you finish dosent mean they have my god there are some selfish men in this place | |
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| Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:13:46 PM | Crystal,
Sorry to here about your min men experiences.
Not all men are created equal. I do ALWAYS make sure we are both satisfied before wrapping thing up so to speak. Maybe insist on for play until your almost there & then do the deed.
If we were closer, I would take care of you.
Hope you find better men in the future.
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