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Posted: 5/8/2005 9:59:01 AM | | WELL HONEY .. JUST CUS YOUR FAT DON'T MAKE YOU LAZY.. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK .. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 10:02:19 AM | | WELL I HAVE TO SAY I SEE MORE SLIM ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WITH HEAVIER MEN THAN I SEE ATTRACTIVE MEN WITH HEAVIER WOMEN.. SO I THINK THAT TELLS YOU SOMETHING .. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 11:18:27 AM | | Be real, be realistic, honest, feminine, in shape, patient, gentle, and take him for a test drive. As a woman you need to decide who's household you want to be in. If its his, then just take over, and if its yours, make room for him and his ways. Over time change some of his ways. On the money issue, what is his is his and what is yours is yours. Give him some room for freedom. Most internet profiles are what the writer wants them to be. The only way to find out what the truth is just move into his place or let him move into your place. All of this BS about getting to know each other by dating is a bunch of BS. To make things happen you just got to do it. Go for a test run. If it works out then it worked i not leave each other like they were. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 2:21:55 PM | If you marry a pretty girl, she ends up sleeping around on you = no sex for you = divorce.
If you marry an overweight girl, she feels you're not physically attractive to her = no sex due to lack of self-confidence = appear on Dr. Phil = counselling = divorce.
You can't win.
I may be young, but in my 23 years of living, is it just me, or do women actually set themselves up to be attractive? This includes most all women. They want to be attractive, and they like to be attractive. This is why overweight women face more horrible sociological experiences than overweight men, in my opinion.
My self, I'm attracted to smaller women in general; size/height/etc. I've said it before and I'll say it again, there can be a gorgeous model who I will be attracted to, but if she had an ugly personality, her level of attractiveness goes right down. Meanwhile, there can be another woman who is not a model standard and a great personality, and her level of attractiveness goes right up. However, there still has to be a starting level of attractiveness from the beginning.
If I'm walking down the street and there are 2 girls. One is very very attractive, and the other is attractive. I would probably feel more comfortable talking with the attractive one, feeling more secure that she doesn't think so highly of herself to be able to get any guy she wants. Thus the reason for even attractive girls having a hard time finding a date.
It goes both ways I guess. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 2:58:41 PM | Have dated athletic girls, non-athletic skinny girls, 'average' girls and a bigger girl. Have to say that size made no difference. Everyone has different preferences, and everyone likes somebody nice to look at. Let's not fool ourselves. But I think personality and compatibility are the most important things.
But in you never give someone the chance, just because they carry a few extra pounds, you'll never know, will you? | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 6:54:28 PM | polarunion...You are severely harsh. I am "fat" but I walk everyday in the morning..I do aerobics..I like to play badminton,.I am always up for adventures. Being fat or chubby or having curves does not mean you are a lazy cow.
Saying things like you do does mean you're an obnoxious ass, though. Things are rarely black or white. There's a hell o a lot of grey area in this question.
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:53:35 PM | This is the second thread you have started asking guys if fat girls are acceptable. Clearly, YOU have some sort of inner issues you need to resolve and you're looking for someone else to solve them for you. It's not gonna happen so knock it off!!
Call me insensitive...fine, I couldn't care less. Yes, I am fat myself but I'm working on it because I am the only one who can help myself. I'm not looking for someone else to do it for me and I'm not looking for acceptance. Take control of your own life girlie, it'll pass you by and you'll be miserable for the rest of the ride. You can't say you like yourself how you are because if you did you wouldn't be ****ing across this forum about it. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 9:26:39 PM | I would hope you are out looking for acceptance. Maybe not the way its going in this thread.. But in general at least. ;)
i am a fat guy.. But I also work out ALL the time when I have time. And you know what?
I find myself sexy. In my heart and my *loins* 
But that is just nonsense..
If you can look at yourself in the mirror and NOT think I am fat or ugly... Then you can look into someones eyes and feel that same way. If they don't have that feeling.. well then you need to just pick the line up from the ocean and cast to a new spot.
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Posted: 5/8/2005 10:18:51 PM | 1. beauty, sex appeal, intellegence.
2. Fat women have a major image problem. AVOID FAST FOOD! | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 10:20:04 PM | | It tells me fat guys have more money to throw on skinny women | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 11:15:08 AM | | me my self a girl has 2 b there self n not play mind games | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 11:43:09 AM | I agree with dijital
(Well put my friend, bravo!!).
Well actually, I would not like a skinny skinny Ally McBeal wannabe. Grosses me out. ha ha.
I like a woman with some muscles though, like perhaps a runner.
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Posted: 5/9/2005 12:46:00 PM | I spend Almost Everyday in da week Workin Out n keepin myself Lookin Sexy n Fit!
If I can be Motivated 2 do that, I dnt see why girls shuldnt?
On thing that turns me on most is a Girl wid a Very Sexy Body, no extra Bitz hangin out... ew!
Nasty!
But Every1 is different Innit!
some ppl like fat... lol weird!
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Posted: 5/9/2005 12:52:48 PM | wakeup. fat isn't attractive. it's a degredation to society and it's not healty. obesity will become the leading cause of heart and stroke in both countries soon while smoking is on the decline.
I was gonna direct my angry, yet dignified response to polarunion's insensitivity, but he deleted his account. I think he's just got very, very low self-esteem. Insecure people tend to be very judgemental and love to point out other people's flaws. They do it to feel better about themselves. So, I guess I'll just say this: Who's to say fat isn't attractive? As polarunion so eliquently put it, "it's a personal preference." Yes, this is true. But, it all depends on how you carry yourself. There are so many beautiful overweight people in the world that carry themselves with pride and don't let anyone's comments bother them. There are also some people who are overweight BECAUSE of serious health problems. Unfortunately, that's happened to my mother. It's something she can't do anything about. So, for some little arrogant, insensitive moron to sit there on his pedestal and say offensive things about overweight people makes me want to invent a new use for duct tape...if it's your personal preference, fine. You don't need to explain yourself any further if all you're gonna do is discriminate and offend people.
Shall I go into explaining why I don't like self-righteous, insensitive idiots? | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 12:54:22 PM | **** Sorry! First paragraph on above post is from polarunion's earlier post. I forgot to put it in quote block! **** | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 1:25:05 PM | OK first of all there is NO such thing as either fat or skinny cause there is sooo much in between.
Personally I am voluptous but not heavy ... I hike & swim and excercise but I am always gonna have ddd boobs cause that is just hereditery. doesn't mean ya can't have muscle too and yes there is such a thing as big boned or else I wouldn't wear a size 11 shoe for cryin out loud.
So everyone has a preference....
So noone needs to judge ... cause the slender gorgeous guy that always dates trophies can become pretty dayum ugly once he opens his mouth.... same for women.
.... beauty truely is in the eye of the beholder. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 1:33:29 PM | Honestly, I'd much rather date a girl that's about 20-30 lbs. overweight (maybe more, depends) than the modern ideal. I'm not sure why, but it's just more attractive to me.
Oh, and I also can't stand it when girls tan so much that they look almost burnt. There's no shame in having pale skin! | |
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Posted: 5/9/2005 2:45:16 PM | | I am afraid of extra weight, even 20 lbs. overweight. The reason is, I married a girl who was 10 to 20 lbs. overweight, and after several years she had gained 200+ MORE lbs.. I had no problem with her being 20 lbs. overweight, but when it got extreme it was very hard to handle. It was a major part of the demise of our marriage, mostly because of the related problems that came along with it, and I've never been through anything tougher. I don't want to go through it again. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 11:13:38 AM | i look for honesty loyalty respectin the woman
she has too be a down to earth person not high maintence
depend and willing too put in where she fit in
i give a 100% she should too | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 11:44:27 AM | SBG....
all the men who are on here, already have plenty of friends... they (we) are only looking for sex. The ones who say they aren't think you are dumb enough to believe them.
That said; there are those of us who find something attractive in all different kinds of women. I prefer the smaller gals but it's very sexy to me when woman shows off her pot belly and big hips..... Most of the time if a woman thinks she's sexy, she generally is... it's not "packaging" as much as attitude and confidence.... | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 12:19:37 PM | everyone is trying to find a reason to explain what they are attracted to ....u cant blame someone for what turns them on or not.... personaly im not attracted to heavy women sexualy ....and usualy the first impression is sexual based on what the person looks like u cant know someones personality until u meet them and most of the time u approch someone because u like how they look ( be honest people there is nothing wrong with that)....i have several heavy friends and i love them to death like family but due to a lack of physical attraction thats what we will stay as (friends) ....now that i have said that ....looks do not make up for a crapy personality ...i wont have anything to do with a "hot" girl if she is a negative person alot of very attractive girls have been , for lack of a better word , spoiled , and dont have the greatest personality not all mind u ....but alot of them .. pretty much u can look at it this way ....looks are what gets u interested and personality closes the deal. and again everyone is different and what is attractive to each individual is different u cant lable what is attractive heavy or not ...and u cant blame people for what gets their attention or what doesnt | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 12:22:30 PM | | My mom died in the hospital last year, having suffered from diabetes and morbid obesity. When I see an overweight woman, I see my mother, and all thoughts of intimacy fly out the door. In addition, my personal tastes run to women who are doublejointed and flexible. Sex is much more interesting with a woman who can twist like a pretzel. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 12:26:26 PM | | Over weight women can be both attractive and sexy in the way they carry themselves and dress. However being obese or under weight are unhealthy. Everyone should be more concerned with being healthy than attractive. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2005 4:11:14 PM | | what's ****ing sad is that big women can be extremely active and still be big. I have been big my whole life and I can't sit back and listen to this crap. I am an extremely active person, I hike, I play sports, I walk, and work out. My whole family is big. So if you find it in your shallow heart to knock fat women, then you're what is wrong with this world. Get over your shallow lives. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2005 3:00:55 PM | | im new here but ive been reading some of these forum topics and find it a bit intresting,on this topic isnt this a classic example how society controls are perceptions of looks love happiness ect. for instance have you ever watched a movie where it showed a couple in love and the way they captured the moment looking in from the outside made you think damn i want to feel that way,yet we all have probably loved someone in our life and have felt that way.same thing with looks if we could all see ourselves from the outside looking in those that think there sexy may not think they are and those that dont think there sexy might find they really are so i geuss what im saying is that since we live our life from the inside looking out belive your sexy and youll become sexy,belive you will find love and you will,just because the media {society} tells us whats supposed to be cool doesnt mean it is ,remember along time ago being heavier was a sighn of wealth and considered the norm and being thin meant you where poor,so the fools out there that judge a book by its cover are missing out on the knowledge inside so they keep reaching for more books and never learn anything! peace! | |
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