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Posted: 5/19/2005 12:29:36 AM | | rcf if youre so hot why dont you have a photo? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:14:02 AM | that is a terrible thing to say... there r skinny people that like fat people too!!! Like i said i'm not fat for any of those reasons! I'm fat 'cause I have polycystic ovarian syndrome  | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:22:41 AM | I got one good question for the men who love SKINNY woman!!!
If you married a beautiful model type woman... she pops out a couple of kids... or lives of fast food 'cause she works so damn much... So she gains a couple pains. maybe 20..30..50...etc
Would you divorce her because she is fat now?!? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 4:56:52 AM | | Genetics, humans are programmed to want an attractive mate. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 5:28:37 AM | | I will say this I looked at your profile and your pictures, mostly your pictures. I think that women think that being fat or being skinny is a bad thing. It is not, I have met women who were thin but they needed to gain some weight and they would look a lot better fat. I have also met women who were beautiful and are what I call pleasantly plump. I am a big guy and woman all have the things that men are looking for, remember we do think with our d*cks. I personally have something for eyes, If a girl as the face and eyes that appeals to me then I am interested I dont care what their size is. You have a beautful shaped face I think you can definitely get a guy, just be friendly and get yourself out there. I myself do look at appearances first then see if their personality is one that I like, my room mate is a thin guy who works out at the gym and is very fit but his girlfriend/ fiance is bigger than you are. Just proof that some guys do like a little meat on the bones. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 5:32:45 AM | In response to RCFlyGuy
You need to learn one thing dude. Dont judge a book by its cover. From you last post I would almost think of you as a racist nazi pig. Some people are fat because of other reasons, medical (yes there is a medical condition that makes you fat). I guess I should take your comments with a grain of salt considering you are too ASHAMED of yourself to put your own pic on. Yet you blast fat people. Man get a life. judging someone by their looks is where we got slavery.
Anyone agree with me? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 6:21:39 AM |
If you married a beautiful model type woman... she pops out a couple of kids... or lives of fast food 'cause she works so damn much... So she gains a couple pains. maybe 20..30..50...etc Would you divorce her because she is fat now?!?
Have you heard the expression "I didn't sign for this"? If you married a good man... and he becomes a drunk, or becomes violent, or a crackhead, or a compulsive player, or whatever, would you divorce him because now he's so? I think you would. Remember, marriage is not a "I already got him, so now he's stuck with me" license.
About your question, it depends. If she gets fat because of the children, and then she makes exercise to lose weight, no. If she develops some illness that makes her fat, no. If she takes having children as an excuse to stuff her face and grow like a balloon, yes.
Why? Because if she prefers to eat a double cheeseburger with everything to having a happy husband, she doesn't deserve me.
Besides, having children is not an excuse for being grossly fat. My mom had 4 children, and she is slim. My grandmother had 11 (yes, ELEVEN) children, she's about 70, and she's still wearing the same clothes size she did when she married my grandpa. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 6:56:14 AM | I have no problem with bigger lady's,but i like them smaller.But a beautiful face with a bigger lady no problem any time. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 9:00:11 AM | I understand your point but sometimes when women have children it is hard to lose the weight... not all of them stuff there face! My friend was kinda chunky after child birth and is still trying to get the weight off, but she doesn't eat like a fat cow!
By the way if my husband became a abusuer yes I would divorce him, but if he got a drug, money or alcohol problem I would def help him and try to work our marriage out | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 2:00:06 PM | | I'm not a lazy ass If you read my other replies I exercise 3-5 times a week and I work hard... stupid mother ****er... Like I said I have a medical weight problem dumb ass | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 2:15:52 PM | | Well I've been with skinny, over weight, and in between. Attractive and not so attractive. What I've discovered since my seperation, (she was very cute and slim when I married her) was the thing that really turned my crank was intelligence. That doesn't mean I don't look at what she looks like, and let's face it sight is the first sense we use in this game, but the beauty thing loses it's appeal real fast if the rest of what's attached to her sucks. I discovered this thing with the intelligence by accident when I was on the prowl and I've never looked back. When you get old your body fades but if the mind is good it'll keep you captivated. If she's skinny, plump or in between make sure you check out that mind. It can be a real turn on. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 2:57:06 PM | | Just because a woman is heavy does not mean that she is not healthy. I am bigger than most women and I am in good physical condition. There is a thing called genetics. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:18:06 PM | "Genetics, humans are programmed to want an attractive mate."
condoms- humans can now mate and not have kids so therefore that theory should have been thrown out the window years ago | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:19:34 PM | "Besides, having children is not an excuse for being grossly fat. My mom had 4 children, and she is slim. My grandmother had 11 (yes, ELEVEN) children, she's about 70, and she's still wearing the same clothes size she did when she married my grandpa."
then you know what. YOU get pregnant and then your wife will be skinny for life. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:20:20 PM | | im skinny and probably very unhealthy | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:43:10 PM | | I'm looking for a woman who leaves the caps lock key off. The moment I see any ads in all caps, I don't even give it a second look. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:46:48 PM | then you know what. YOU get pregnant and then your wife will be skinny for life.
I have a better idea. I won't marry, and I will be free for life... to pursue skinny girls.
Anyway, I wouldn't want a wife with such bad attitude. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 3:49:37 PM | all skinny girls are ****es. want someone nice? marry a fatty
like the song says "if u wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife" | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 4:18:36 PM | Since I prefer ot keep it in my pants till relationship is in the air, I don't care about looks per se. I may be more attracted to one kind of woman right off the bat, looks are superficial. Once you get to know the person it really doesn't matter at all.
WHat do I look for in a woman? If she makes me think, she's a winner in my books. Inetersting and confident, that's all you need. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 7:26:54 PM | | I agree with Neohippy - looks don't matter, it's what's behind the face that does. I want a woman who operates on a similar wavelength to me, but not exaclty the same - I don't want to date myself!! LOL Someone who will challenge the assumtioins I don't know I have, and accept the same in return. Open-mindeed, intelligent, sense of humour. Those are the key components. There are other cirteria, but they fall into the "Nice to Have" area, rather than the "Requirements" area | |
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Posted: 5/19/2005 9:41:51 PM |
i'm not into fat women.. I like women who take care of themselves - eat well, get exercise. they're more stimulating.
lazy and fat is a dead turnoff.
In all honesty, I would have to agree with polarunion(d554041). Mainly because it is a healthier lifestyle. Being skiny has more sex appeal. The type of women I am looking for is one that would be able to accompany me in my travels, and that means keeping up with me on the trails. If your overweight, then you would naturally be slower and it is much harder on your body to keep up.... etc... You get the idea. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 5:46:59 AM | this is just for some of you that want to judge others. do women base a guy on the size of his**** we don't walk up and say hey yer pretty hot, can I see your****to see if you're worthy.
we all have OUR OWN likes and dislikes, why **** and whine because some may not like the same as you. fat girls, no need to make excuses. as long as you're happy. good for you. If you're not happy. get off yer butts. and really work at fixing the problem.
skinny chicks get just as much grief, most of it just comes from fat chicks. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 5:53:15 AM | These are some simple facts that many people forget:
a) Beauty can't be ruled by decree.
b) If you need to "convince" someone that you are pretty, it's because you are not pretty.
c) Complaining will not make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
d) You can't shame anybody into liking you.
e) Your tastes are yours, and nobody else's. Don't expect others have the same tastes.
And last, but the most important:
f) If you expect a honest answer, don't attack those who give it. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 8:09:06 AM | | I wrote you a lovely e-mail back... If you would know anything about polycysic ovarin syndrome you would know that it is hard to lose weight. like i said before I have to go to a special doctor, which can get expensive. Like I said I have to work 10 times more than average fat person would!!! | |
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