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Posted: 7/29/2005 2:00:49 PM | | In my mind the fat woman it's a beautiful girl . I love big girl I'm only 160 bls. I don't mind fat or not. it same woman right. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2005 12:58:00 PM | Sweet baby girl , why ask the question ? you probably already know the answer the answer is always repeated in real life . This subject has been talked about many times extensively , it is a tenderspot for many people , especially women , because of media and comments from mean people.
People here have opinions that seem acceptable and unacceptable to other people , shame on them for slamming personal opinions and preferences , you asked for them , they give them to you , I am glad you are open to the opinions . You seem nice.
Are you asking about when people first meet or in a relationship ?
You say men are pigs and do not see the heart , women are just the same with short guys like me , I cannot do anything to fix it , but you are on the way to fix it yourself , you lose weight now for yourself as you say but actually everytime anyone loses weight is to get applauses from everyone else , more acceptance as you will , if everyone had a large frame , no one would care to lose weight. I applaude you also . My opinoon is that women look better when they are not considered fat , obese chunky or any other term to describe the physical attribute.
Few people appluade other people for entering towards the realm close to the obease or the "fat" area .
I have dated big women and found them the same as other women but a little less secure about themselves . My opinion about heavy woman is that they have a heart like all others , maybe more obsicles and social stigmas .
Most guys here seem to applaude the fact women are fat in this thread but I think in reality in real life it is alot of B.S. , if that were true, many women who are considered overwheight would not be lonely and would have many dates like their thinner counterparts , a women being a little overweight such as you is more acceptable than a guy being short as far as relationships are concerned , you are on more people's favorites list than I , I am in none so you probably have a more active personal life than I but still you may feel that women in your frame size are ignored and feel most guys are pigs , women are the same and critisize guys on alot more grounds , more varied and much more shallow at times.
I personally like women that are portrayed as thin or athletic , yes barbie would be an alien if her demensions were applied to a real women but to most guys she would still be smoking hot.
I am willing to bet if a parade of thinner or athletic women in "small" clothing would pass by ,most or all normal heterosexual guys would watch and drool , if heavy women would pass by ,a different reaction would happen to most guys .
The reality is most guys are like shallow Al when initially seeing women . If ALL women were easy to get to know and approacheable in a bar , most thinner women would be taken first, that is the reality in life , everyone can paint everything rosy and say size does not matter but we all know the answer behind the B.S.
I work with thousands of men in the military , I train them as a military advisor , they come from diiferent parts of the USA , even different countries , they all drool for the same thinner or athletic girls , when I am in the bar with them , they all go for the thinner or athletic women first , even drastically boney women get attention then if they get no results from their persuit then they go and place their attention to what we call "fat " women , (yes I know , politically incorrect ) , I am guilty for doing the same , I go and persue the thinner or athletic women then the heavier ones but I always get no luck because of my size , I had to change my personality to compensate for that , (that is a different story ) .
What I see as very cruel with this guy culture I am in , I travel to different countries to work with guys , and every now and then I run into a group of guys that are "hogging" , that is a cruel game of who can take home the fatest chick , money is usually involved in the betting, women do that too for losers or geeks in college , it happened to me , I was the short geeky guy with thick glasses, but I was never the biggest prize .
It's ok if people flame me , ....hehehe
Sorry hun that is my observation and opinion. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2005 1:30:20 PM | What I look for in a woman is:
- Compatibility, someone that I would enjoy sharing my life with, spiritually, physically and mentally.
- Honesty, someone who is honest with themselves and with me about who they are and what they want.
- Partnership, someone who can be my partner in things we both enjoy. So If you like doing physically demanding activities you would like your partner to be able to do them with you, but if you enjoy reading and watching movies, then physical fitness in not that important, right?
In other wards, if a physically fit guy is what you are looking for, then physically fit is what you should be!
Whatever you look like does not matter if you find that you can meet what you are looking for.
For some good looking guys and girls, it is not about being fit and healthy, it is about looking good, and that is different. In my opinion, a good body is like eye candy, it is beautiful to see, and that is it.
You might say that some people do sports to look good, but I would say there is a difference between the two. Why people do sports is a different topic, but I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
Relationships with good looking people whose main concern is to look good are often reflective of their character, i.e. fast and shallow. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2005 2:04:03 PM | OKOK....I AM NOT LAZY...I JUST TURNED 40 AND I HAVE MORE ENERGY THAN MOST PEOPLE I KNOW! i AM A FULL TIME NANNY WHO TAKES CARE OF 2 FAMILIES WITH KIDS 1,3,3 AND 6 AND SINCE I AM SINGLE AND TRY TO HAVE A LIFE AFTER WORK I AM USUALLY MEETING SOMEONE FOR DINNER OR MOVIES AT NIGHT.
ALL I ASK FOR IS EVERYONE TO GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE...WE ALL KNOW WE CANT CONTROL SPARKS...I MEAN AFTER A MEETING OR 2 IF U DONT HAVE SPARKS THEN FINE BUT EVERYONE NEEDS TO LOOK ALITTLE BIT PAST PEOPLES OUTSIDES.
BUT TRY TO WALK A FEW DAYS A WEEK ...ITS HELPS EVERYTHING FROM ENERGY TO MENTAL HEALTH! | |
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Posted: 8/1/2005 8:45:07 PM | | Nothing wron with fat as long as not too obese... as long as they have a nice personallity and dress well...nothing wrong. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 3:51:22 PM | | too bad stealth.... you are missing out...... i have never had any complaints.....we have alot to offer...... not that skinny women dont.. but dont count us heavier women out.. ok.. not till you have at least tried lol.... | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 5:50:37 PM | the truth is that there are only two kinds of people (whether men or women)... fat people and those fat people who are doing something about it. the difference is self-control and self-respect
i could love a woman who is 50 pounds overweight but walks 3 miles a night. even if she has occasional binges, that's ok.
i would not want to be with a woman whose only excercise is reaching to the top shelf of the Little Debbie display at Walmart. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 7:06:25 PM |
i would not want to be with a woman whose only excercise is reaching to the top shelf of the Little Debbie display at Walmart.
What's a Little Debbie display? Is it something exclusive to Wal-Mart?
Does walking out to feed my horses with 5 buckets of grain or two hay (50 lb) bales count as exercise in your mind? | |
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Posted: 8/19/2005 2:10:26 PM | @polarunion
dude your time will eventually run short. it does for us all. lighten up and be nice. | |
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Posted: 8/19/2005 5:43:11 PM | | I honestly have never been bothered by someone carrying a few extra lbs. For most people 20 or 30 lbs. overweight is not even noticeable. Myself and my daughters are blessed with an extremely high metabolism so we can eat 6 times a day and feel no effect. I have known people that have health issues that cause weight problems this I can fully understand. There are also those that are tall or big boned that would look absolutely ill if they weighed 110 lbs. That said someone who is obese due to shear gluttony or laziness I find completely unattractive. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2009 10:58:08 AM | | I think there is a huge difference between Athletic and Thin some clarification should be made other than "a few extra pounds", "athletic", "thin" . I am very active, I cycle 20 kms a day, do yoga and rollerblade. I am also overweight. I know people who are Thin and lazy. For all girls thin or large you need to gain some self worth, self respect and self love. I know it's easier said than done. But, possible. Give yourself the gift of love! | |
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:32:27 PM | Fat women vs obese. A gray area. I like women, big tall, short skinny fat, black, white, brown, yellow red. I like them all.
I hate self obsorbed, shallow, stupid, uninformed by choice women who feel they are entitled to anything. You get what you give.
So yes, I like fat women. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2009 3:55:16 PM | Look for in Woman: hoensty, confidence in her looks, loyalty (she wont mess around) and a sensse of humor.
How I Feel about Fat woman: not my cup of tea. its very rare that its legitimatly medical, therefore its over eating and laziness, two qualities I dispise.
Whats going on in a Man's head: depends on the man...anything from "would I do her" to "would I take that home to my mother" or the ever popular, "she's hot but too high maitance" | |
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