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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs Posted: 7/25/2008 9:36:06 AM | Oh pleeeez, how presumptuous, how does one "know", one could ask! And condoms do cost a little bur are worth the even imperfect safety. And not doing certain risky "things".
But again, the assumption that it leads to sex on the first date is founded on what? Stats?
PS. On the other hand, this could be an "American" thing - equation (nude pics or webcam nudity = sex on first date = social disease) | |
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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs Posted: 7/25/2008 10:16:41 AM | Wow, great question! Okay, I think we are all here looking for something...and that 'something' is a very individual thing. Our profile and pictures are supposed to represent who we are....to give us the best chance of finding what we are looking for!
If you sent nude pics, or post provocative pics....you are sending a message. If you dont want to be viewed as a ho, dont dress like one! If I were a man, I would expect these women to be putting out on the first date. As someone else here said....'if it walks like a duck......' | |
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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date? Posted: 7/27/2008 11:17:09 PM | I've had a many of these situations arise and yes each and every time it has caught me of guard. I just deal with it in a mature and respectful manner. People are people, everyone is different, thats what makes the world go around. The way I view it is, as long as she is not conducting herself in a "dirty" manner in the pics or webcam, she respects me and that she knows I respect her. From one of many possible points of view, it is a nice feeling that a woman feels respected, safe, secure, guarded enough by you to be themselves with you and "let their hair down" to per say...lol They could simply be flirtatious, shock value junkies, voyouristic , insecure and seeking positive/constructive feed back and/or giving signals, it all has to be taken in stride........Stride,HA! Single or married it does not matter, its just a human anatomy,(though the mental and emotional bonding of bieng valued is nice feeling) and if you can assit in and/or make someone feel secure/happy/confident/ joyous in/by bieng their comfort zone then be it, thats what freinds are for. | |
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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs Posted: 7/28/2008 11:43:56 AM |
Is a woman sending nude, semi-nude or erotic pictures to a guy before meeting a prerequisite to sex when they first meet? Or would the guy be wrong in assuming that?
* she could be legitimately wanting sex with you and these could be her pictures and her profile could be everything she says she is * she could be a scammer and trying to get money from you * these may not be her pictures * she could be married and wants a fling and some quick sex * she could be a guy who's going to bonk you on the head in some dark alley * she could be a Nigerian spammer who just wants your email address * she could be a guy running a porn site and wants you to sign up * she could be Elvis in a flying saucer, is bored and wanting to spice up his life
:: shrugs :: I can think of worse things to complain or worry about... It isn't so far-fetched to imagine that she likes guys to see her naked and she gets off on that fantasy. | |
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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date? Posted: 10/8/2008 7:27:15 PM | No, I don't think sex on the first date is a sure thing. I think there are a lot of bored, lonely women out there who do that spontaneously, occasionally for a cheap thrill or for a little attention.
I have a male friend who used to chat in yahoo chat groups. He said that lots of women would do strip teases or be naked on webcam for him. . . and there was no chance of meeting most of them, it was just fantasy for both parties.
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| Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs Posted: 10/18/2008 7:17:38 PM |
...If a woman sends a guy semi-nude or erotic pictures...is it logical for that guy to assume she is going to be easy to get into bed...
not really...
i have a good woman friend who wanted erotic pics of herself for when the time arose on internet dating...i spent half a day snapping every kind of naked shot of her we could imagine...there must have been 200+ and she kept about 20...
she posted two on an x-rated site...didn't like the response and took them down... | |
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